My boyfriend has been treating me badly lately and i dont know what is wrong with him, and i dont know if i should stay with him and weigh it out or should i just leave him, but i really love him and i would just would go crazy if i am not with out him. I dont know if something is wrong with him or am i just being parnoid?
2006-12-04 07:51:50 · 23 answers · asked by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before you walk away try and talk to him. Maybe there are things going on in his life that he's not told you and he's trying to deal with on his own. Try talking to him not at him. If you feel that your relationship is worth working out then try and give him support so that he will perhaps open up to you and let you in and the bad treatment will stop. However I would give him a time frame in your mind even if you don't share it with him. Give a certain amount of time to change how he's treating you once you put your heart on the line. If that time expires walk away. Yes you will be heart broken for a while but it will all go away. Why waste many years and time on someone that in the end will not want to be with you. If you want to work it out give it a try but keep in mind you can't hold on to a bad relationship forever and expect to be happy in the end.
2006-12-04 08:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no excuse for your boyfriend to treat you badly. None! You don't deserve to be treated without respect, and even if something else is bothering him, there is no reason for him to take it out on you.
My last boyfriend suddenly started treating me badly. He kept blaming it on "work stress", but his behavior went on for months and he kept making excuses for taking his "stress" out on me. I tried to break up with him several times and he kept blaming me for being "selfish and insensitive". What was really happening was that he was just a dick. I finally got tired of being upset all the time and threw a hissy fit and broke up with him for good. I shouldn't have had to go there and neither should you. Your boyfriend is just being a jerk because you are letting him get away with it. Tell him ONE TIME that you are not going to put up with how he is treating you. If he argues even a little bit or if he disrespects you again, then dump him and go find someone else. You deserve better.
2006-12-04 16:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always trust your instincts...and if he won't disclose what's wrong you'll need to determine what's in your own best interest. You shouldn't tolerate being treated badly....if he's mad about something and won't discuss it with you leave things alone and get the heck out of the relationship. And as the old expression goes...'it's not paranoia if somethings really there.' Good Luck & take care of yourself
2006-12-04 15:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you can do is talk to him about it. Let him know how you are feeling. If he does care than he will stop treating you badly and if he doesn't stop than you know that there are only 2 things left to do.... leave him or put up with it.
2006-12-04 15:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not go crazy without him you will be sad for a while then begin to live your life again. There is no reason to even attempt to justify why he treats you bad, stop making excuses for him. If you are not happy, leave. If you stick around and allow him to treat you bad he will continue to treat you bad.
2006-12-04 15:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way should you stay with him!! You deserve way better than that. But if you really want to make you "relationship" work than you should def. try talking to him. But dont let him make up excuses! That just leads to nothing! See if hes really sincere and if so work at it. But if hes not then leave the relationship immediatley!!
2006-12-04 15:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Alli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him this...sit down and talk to him and ask him why is has changed. If its something you think you can live with then stay, and if you feel your being cheated on or moved to the side then leave.
2006-12-04 15:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never ok to stay with someone who treats you badly in any way!
2006-12-04 15:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him, maybe something and bothering him. If he doesnt do anything to fix it then leave him. You dont want to be with someone that doesnt treat you right
2006-12-04 15:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you staying with someone who treats you badly? Is it worth it? Leave the Loser
2006-12-04 15:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Angel R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋