if you are dating a married person, why are you doing it?
2006-12-04 07:20:06 · 15 answers · asked by jeff d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would any married person want to date someone else. Everyone(myself included) are blaming the person that is dating the married person. But why do we never blame the Married person who is cheating?
2006-12-04 07:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by redbull_photo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no quick or short answer to that. there can be a sloo of reasons for why a man or woman date outside there marraige life.
Some examples: And i have read many on here trust me.
1. men don't feel there getting enough sex from home, or none at all. or some men want to try different things and some women will just not go there.
2. Others its not just about sex. but they don't feel love or they feel there not heard or misunderstood from home life.
3. some want a variety to keep things spicy and not have the same thing day in and day out.
4. others have children and are unahappy in some part of there relationship with there spouse that the spouse can't give this person every thing they need or what they really want and its a big void for them in life. Yet they dont' want a divorce either. Some fear of being left alone as they age. and will never find it again so they say okay i'll stay with what i got could be worse but i'll get what i need on the side to keep me going and everyones' happy.d
Others don't want a divorce as it would cost to much , so they are discreet in there affairs.
Others have a open relationship and one spouse is fine with having a rood over there head looking after kids and the man can be discreet never showing disrespect to the spouse and keep it on the down low.
Others are bi sexual and they like both sexes for different reason and still wantt the home life and the picket fence and the kids.
So you see these are just some of the reasons why couples stray. You can't lump them all into one catagory.
2006-12-05 01:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. Married people ought to be OFF LIMITS to other people unless the married person is either legally separated or going through a divorce.
2006-12-04 15:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I am.. I have been married for more then 10 years but our sexlife is not there anymore.. The reason is very acceptatble (health related) but from my part jstu way to hard to deal with. im not gonna go out and go to a club and go after women but i am on an online dating site for married people and it just a quick sexual fix nothing more..
2014-04-02 09:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did once on purpose we worked together and I knew he was married. I just got out of a relationship and didn't want any expectations up front. I knew that we would never be together and what I was looking for was companionship not a relationship. We both knew from the start that he was not going to leave his family. I would never do it now. I see now how wrong I was.
2006-12-04 20:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was, he ended up leaving his wife for me, but it's left big insecurities for me. It's kinda like an everyday thought that he might leave me. So, I kinda live with that thought, but I've gotten used to it. Before when we first go together, I would think about it every minute of the day. We've been together a little over 2 years now, he's been proposing to me since we were together 1 year. I've had to say no everytime, because I feel like I have to get these insecurities out of the way completely to live happily. We love eachother to death, but I just don't feel ready yet....
2006-12-04 15:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetibabe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm dating someone who is in the process of getting a divorce, but i guess technically she is still married. i met her and it was just a sense of two true personalities colliding. i would never give it up, but i also don't think i could date someone who was living with there respective other.
2006-12-06 12:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Digi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no im not dating a married person...but if i was if would be coz i didnt know the person was married
2006-12-04 15:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause they like seconds! They are not good enough to find someone single cause they have a problem with relationships.They need a good therapist! They also like to hurt themselves by creating a no win situation.King /queens of drama too! There is so many reasons ..................
2006-12-04 16:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so exciting to seduce a married person. I sleep with my hubby every day.
2006-12-04 15:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋