Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

alright so i snuck out with two senior guys last night that i thought were friends of mine.. i was wrong i guess. they both tried to get me really drunk when we were in the hot tub and they both took advantage of me. they didnt rape me or anything but still.. taking advantag of a drunken girl is wrong.. right?

or is it simply my fault for drinking in the first place?

2006-12-03 07:53:55 · 44 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl i like were suppose to go out to the movies sat tonight. i asked her out friday and she said she would go.

the movie was at 8:00 about 3:00 i texted her to see if she still wanted to go. she texted back at 5:00 and she told me her mom wanted to go christmas shopping with her.

girls, did i get stood up? is his a excuse you would use if you didnt want to go?


What should i do/say on monday?

thanks

oh this is a girl who i was going to go out with tonight.

2006-12-03 07:53:52 · 5 answers · asked by actdlr 1 in Singles & Dating

im going to make a long story short. you judge for yourself. id rather have somebody else tell me he doesnt like me than him tell me. oh yeah, im only 14

so reasons i might think he likes me: he will come up to me for no reason after school and try to talk to me, he touches my arm and puts his arm around me for no reason while we're talking, he used to call me a lot and ask if i liked him, and he will call me and ask where i am to see if we can talk

reasons i dont think he lies me: his friends told me he thinks i like him. so if he thought so, wouldnt he just tell me he liked me? this sounds stupid, but i used to be his number 1 friend on myspace and now im number 17. sometimes if i see him, he'll jokingly like pretend to hide from me

2006-12-03 07:53:27 · 3 answers · asked by stephaniie1331 1 in Singles & Dating

my fiance refuses to put me has his next of kin, in case he dies i would not be able to get his flag, he says that his mother is always going to be it (even when we are married) until she dies, but everyone i talk to says that the wife is the next of kin....i dont know is that right??? or should i be his next of kin?

2006-12-03 07:53:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

should i do something to prevent this(i.e. call cps) bc he doesnt do it in a abusive way. he does more of in a perverted way.In front of everyone. I asked my nephew about it and he said that its humilating. and i asked him if my bro touched him and said no... but i still have my doubts. what should b done? my mom accused him of molesting is older son a few yrs back and it damn near tore our family apart

2006-12-03 07:53:08 · 32 answers · asked by James 1 in Family

i really like this guy but he's shy and im afraid of rejection. should i make a move....

ps. i know guys normally ask the girls out but idk.

2006-12-03 07:52:50 · 8 answers · asked by binky 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 07:52:46 · 29 answers · asked by rmuskath 1 in Family

Okay I have lost 70 lbs on weight watchers. My hubby is getting really jealous over me. One time he went by the gym to see if I was there. He runs to the phone to pick it up so he can get to it before me. I have not given him any reason not to trust me. I feel like I am a bug underneath a microscope. I am so miserable. I tell him everyday I love him and he is the only one for me. I have even told him I would help him lose weight if he wanted too. He is really over weight. Please help me here I do not know what to do. Thanks!

2006-12-03 07:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by jessica h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she has told me tme and time again it bothers her...but i just can't hel pmyself.

she finally let me have it. slapped me while she was on the toilet.

im hurt.......

i dont think i can look at her again...what am i to do????

2006-12-03 07:51:53 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just enjoy flirting with her, and she always smiles when I see her. Do you think she is interested in me?

2006-12-03 07:51:43 · 19 answers · asked by Joe 4 in Singles & Dating

like when ur boyfriend slapz ur *** , laughz when we kiss all ways wants to kiss and never wants to let go of u and bitz yo lips and gets sleppy when were done freanch kissin . like are thoese signz that he lovez u or just really likez u ????????? like what r more signz that a guy lovez u .just right now i really fell like iam fallin in love idk ???????????/

2006-12-03 07:51:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

personally, for me its kissing someone else and spending alone time with them, but my sister says its only an affair if you have physical contact.

2006-12-03 07:50:56 · 52 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 07:49:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i told her that im intersted on her then she said me too but as a friend you know what i mean so i really don't know what should i do should i forget or try agen?

2006-12-03 07:49:47 · 33 answers · asked by jim 1 in Singles & Dating

First of all, we met online. For the people that heard of Myspace, he had "In a Relationship" and it was so obivious, cause he had his baby mama on the very top (First person) and she does on her profile and she got that she's "Married". I asked if they was still seeing each other. I ask his baby momma about them being married, she said yea, but when I asked my boyfriend, he told me no. I'm scared to believe him. Not to mention, I'm always being positioned as the "other woman". what should I do?

2006-12-03 07:49:21 · 19 answers · asked by lilmeowpm 1 in Singles & Dating

At what point do you say enough is enough and just move out of the relationship. And is it best to wait after the holiydays or before

2006-12-03 07:48:47 · 17 answers · asked by tracy s 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 07:48:42 · 6 answers · asked by rlnoon 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 07:47:52 · 15 answers · asked by ◄☯♫ vanitee of vanitees ♫☯► 6 in Singles & Dating

i'm a really shy girl and i really don't know how to talk to guys. sure i do talk to some guys, but to me they're just friends. i really need tips to help me just be myself around guys.

2006-12-03 07:47:19 · 17 answers · asked by his one n only <3 3 in Singles & Dating

Well what happened was mother went to town and picked up one of those pole dancing kits from oxfam, it was for me to do a show for the family on xmas day (last year I did a live webcam from my bedroom, requests only). Anyway, mother couldnt wait till xmas and got it out. Brother was so excited, he stripped down to his knickers and went to get a suitable cd. Meanwhile, Aunty Dot was reading the instructions.
Brother returned and Marvin Gaye was on in the background. By then Auntie Dot had stripped naked and was gyrating on the pole. Brother joined in, i felt strangely excited and Mother was rubbing her chest and Llama was licking his teeth. Is it wrong for me to feel like this, i mean we usually do it at xmas anyway, its just because its early? sent

2006-12-03 07:45:55 · 34 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom tries to find the smallest things to yell at me about. It was better before I went into high school but now it has just gotten worse and worse. I have been grounded for a month now and going on for two because I forgot to call her and tell her I went to the mall. She said I didn't forget and i just did something I didnt want her to know. I have never done anything in my life that has made her lose trust in me. When i get home she says if i have too much homework then i dont need to do chores and i got piled high with homework last week and she yells at me for not getting chores done. Then she yelled at me for doing my chores before homework. Stupid Stupid stuff like that. To add on to that she is an alcoholic and gets drunk pretty much every night and so i am scared to stand up to her. Really, really scared to. My sisters friends stopped coming to our house because of her and i just dont know what to do. i want to move to my dad's but i am to freaked out to tell her.

2006-12-03 07:45:46 · 8 answers · asked by Just wonderin' 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c_1rdLl3-l8

In this stunt a girl jump on a guys stomach from a chair.

I am 110 pound girl and my friend is 200 pound guy, should we try this stunt or is it too dangerous?

2006-12-03 07:45:42 · 9 answers · asked by gogogo 1 in Singles & Dating

my mum and dad are getting divorced , by brother has just come out of prision and has a angry problem , my sister ran away from home and has been married twice and she gets beaten up by her boy friend. my brother and father argue and somtimes beat each other up. my mum screams loud and so does everybody else . every day theres at least 3 arguments . my mum brakes every think out of anger and my dad says im worth nothing . my brother and sister dont get on with me and i dont know what to do , im only just 14 . i dont know what to do . my brother just puched the window and broke it this house is in pices :< please help ? what should i do

2006-12-03 07:45:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

M and my X (Brittany) have been broken up for a year now and she has a new bf (not Gerald but his name is Tucker) and I"m still dying inside every time she talks about how amazing and cute he is. Plus they've only been together 4 1 month and say they luv each other and well we where together 3 years and she never told me that. I don't get it he's a hippie and she's a hard core goth WTF? PLz help how do I get her back? and if I can't how do I move on? and why would she even like him?

2006-12-03 07:44:42 · 17 answers · asked by eric.gothicgod666 1 in Singles & Dating

I messed up editing the first one...

I like fat girls and my girlfriend doesn't know... how should I tell her I like fat girls and I would like it if she was to gain some weight with out her dumping me?

I also dont just want to change her I would just prefere it if she was fatter, its not mandatory. I would like to tell her my prefrences instead of her finding out her own. and I dont want to make her gain weight with out her knowing what I'm doing, I would be breaking her trust in me. I hope that all made since

2006-12-03 07:43:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 07:42:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Weddings

When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one..

2006-12-03 07:42:01 · 4 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have lived with a friend for almost two years now. In the beginning, we were having or trying to have a proper relationship. Be4 I moved in with him, we were having the odd sex and I knew he was on Viagra. I thought he was going to keep on taking Viagra for me but, instead, he takes Viagra to masturbate. I have talked with him and asked why he wanted a woman under his roof and he said, only for company. He is also very particular with my paying my way through. I dont pay any rent but I have to pay for my own costs. He also wanted me to buy a property with him from the beginning, which I refused to do. He is 55 and a bachelor. Be4 anybody wonders why I am still living with him, well... it is cheaper to be here of course and comfy.

2006-12-03 07:41:19 · 18 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 07:40:54 · 5 answers · asked by oink 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to ask a girl out but i dont wanna jus ask her to the movies, because she might jus think we are going as friends. How do you bring it up when your talkin to her that you want to go out.

2006-12-03 07:38:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating