i'm a really shy girl and i really don't know how to talk to guys. sure i do talk to some guys, but to me they're just friends. i really need tips to help me just be myself around guys.
2006-12-03 07:47:19 · 17 answers · asked by his one n only <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thing is to be yourself, be polite and at the same time talking about your own interests, make sure you find out about their interests, be a good listener (not just talk about yourself), be a little flirty too to show your interest otherwise they wouldn't know if you're interested in them or not, guys are shy too, sometimes you need to give them a signal to act.
2006-12-03 07:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sade 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first thing about being confident around people esp guys is looking good. Then, start small. Try talking a day at a time to guys. U coulld try a lil bit of harmless flirting with ur male friends. having them respond in subtle ways can do a whole lot to boost ur self confidence. Smile a lot but not too much so u don't look silly. The rest is about time.
U see, self confidence usu comes from experience & knowing that u have walked a part before so, u definitely have to start somewhere.
Remember, knowing u look good can do wonders. U don't have to be a fashion fanatic to look nice. Just go with some of the fashion trends, a little bit of make-up here & before u know it, u won't even have to be worrying about shyness or how to talk to guys cos they'll literarily be queing up to talk to u
2006-12-03 08:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mama's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a bit shy my self and it takes a lot of guts for someone who is shy to talk to someone you like. I am beginning to learn to just treat them like you would any other friend. just see them as friends knowing to well that you fancy, once you gain confidence just ask them out. Or you could just come out with it and ask them either way you would of gained. For one you asked someone out and the other it might get you somewhere
2006-12-03 07:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by sija_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got self assurance what you may dig into is the artwork of sensible communicate. be taught to locate some thing you may think of you have in undemanding with someone and bypass from there. Alot of cases you may draw from factors around your ecosystem which you will observe that they could look attracted to as a results of fact they are checking them out in an attempt to talk. yet another element which you're able to do is to look at what they positioned on and how they act to maybe %. up some clues to as to what variety of person they could be and take a gamble on attempting to think of of what they could be into. you need to use small inquiries to objective to explore for matters to make certain if the subject remember is a fulfillment or pass over type deal. wish that facilitates....accepted i might basically say to take opportunities and as time is going on you will get extra constructive on the artwork of sensible communicate. i quite was once quite undesirable at attempting to locate matters to talk approximately whilst confronted with the could strike up a communicate yet over the years I basically discovered to apply usual words like "useful is chilly tody" or "wow the financial equipment is going loopy". Alot cases basically using usual words like which will set off the different person to respond to your remark and then arise with a unusual subject remember in return....
2016-10-17 15:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self-confidence is the key. Act like you don't need men for anything. If they see that you take care of number one, they'll try harder to get you to take care of them. Just strut around like you own the place, and people will take notice.
2006-12-03 08:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you gotta have confidence in yourself. Only way to act more confident is to be more confident. This is something you gotta work out in your brain. Not really any tips to give.
2006-12-03 07:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by HOVO 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
fake your confidence, and pretend like your all that. (i do this)
just think of the guys as some of your girl friends.
remember that the guys are just like you, they eat, sleep, and go to the bathroom.
2006-12-03 07:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Alexis Samira 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So am I, around a lot of people too. I just find that I won't warm up until I feel comfortable around the particular person.
2006-12-03 07:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by JustJane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people are people. don't treat guys different than women. get as highly educated as you can, involve yourself in professional organizations (even if you are young). grow wise beyond your years (if you are young). And you will ooze confidence without even thinking about it. and workout and stay fit...can't hurt. Good luck.
2006-12-03 07:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by keepingitgoing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile alot! Try it and see how many men will approach you, then you have the choice to talk to them or not.
2006-12-03 07:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋