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I like fat girls and my girlfriend doesn't know... how should I tell her I like fat girls and I would like it if she was to gain some weight with out her dumping me?

I also dont just want to change her I would just prefere it if she was fatter, its not mandatory. I would like to tell her my prefrences instead of her finding out her own. and I dont want to make her gain weight with out her knowing what I'm doing, I would be breaking her trust in me. I hope that all made since

2006-12-03 07:43:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I do love her at the weight she is I would just fnd her more attractive if she would gain weight... shes doesn't have to gain weight for me to love her I love her for who she is... I'd just find her even more attractive if she was fatter

2006-12-03 08:33:38 · update #1

ummm how could I get more people to answear this... its REALLY important to me I love her more then anything and atleast want her to know my prefrence...

Shes kinda fat already(A bit more then chubby) but shes trying to lose weight(it doesn't seem to be at the top of her priorties though)... I secretly want her to get fatter but I'm afraid to tell her cause if I lose her I'd kill myself that sounds clingy but I'm clinicly depressed and shes basicly my only reason to live...

2006-12-05 16:10:28 · update #2

15 answers

love her the way she is or leave her for a fat girl.

2006-12-03 07:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by SurroundedByJoy 3 · 1 1

Wow that is amazing you may be one of the first guys who doesn't want your gf to loose weight, but rather gain it. I would have to say it depends on your relationship. If you guys have a very open relationship where you can freely tell your feelings to one another I say why not. Let her know more about you and that includes what you like in a woman and see what she says. If not I say, be happy with her just the way she is and possibly take her to McDonalds a few more times a day. :o)

2006-12-05 18:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

look i like fat girls too so dont let these jerks cut u down for lovin the rounder women. Here's what you do. encourage her to eat more without letting her know you are trying to fatten her up. buy her treats all the time. the more sugar the better. As she begins to grow bigger and bigger continually let her know how much you like the way she is looking now say things like "not so anerexic" and continue to buy the treats. This worked for me my girlfriend didnt have much of a butt at all but i worked it up the whole time telling her how much i liked big booties.

2006-12-03 07:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by J-Dub 3 · 1 0

Umm...well , there is no easy way to tell a girl u like fat grls, bc girls are all trying to become anorexic or whatever, and fat just isn't appealing to them...so i suggest you sit her down and tell her your dillemma, but don't expect her to change-i actually think that u should move on and find someone who suits your needs...

2006-12-03 07:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by onetwothree 4 · 0 0

if you really like this girl, then you wouldn't care if she fat or not. So don't ask her to gain some weight, cause she might just dump you right there on the spot.

2006-12-03 07:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

take her for good fating meal 5 or 6 times a weak and when she start to plump up tale her how she look and bay her nice clothing and some prity lace bar & panties a girl likes to look nice and feal prity

2006-12-03 07:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you care for her, you would accept her as she is. Dont try to change her. If you dont like her at the weight she's at, she's the wrong girl for you.

2006-12-03 07:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by justcurious 2 · 1 0

u would sound like a insensitive jerk because you are suppose to love her just the way she is and would you be so accepting if she wanted to change something of you?

2006-12-03 07:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by thewonderfulwa 2 · 2 0

Interesting dilemma....wow, not sure how to tell her, but I doubt you'd have trouble finding a replacement.

2006-12-03 07:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by yellowdreds 2 · 0 0

You can't tell her that ! Either you like her the way she is or you don't ! Plain and simple!

2006-12-03 07:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0 0

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