M and my X (Brittany) have been broken up for a year now and she has a new bf (not Gerald but his name is Tucker) and I"m still dying inside every time she talks about how amazing and cute he is. Plus they've only been together 4 1 month and say they luv each other and well we where together 3 years and she never told me that. I don't get it he's a hippie and she's a hard core goth WTF? PLz help how do I get her back? and if I can't how do I move on? and why would she even like him?
2006-12-03 07:44:42 · 17 answers · asked by eric.gothicgod666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she ignores me directly but I'll ask how they r doing and she'll start talking about him. Plus I get to hear from him sometimes too (telling me to leave her alone). What I meant by hippie is he has long hair hers' is short he's more of a light she's dark.
2006-12-03 09:00:51 · update #1
lables like "hippie" or "goth" are absolutely meaningless in whatever grade your in because all it is is a fashion statement.
2006-12-03 07:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The fact that he`s a "hippie" and she`s a "goth" has nothing to do with their relationship. If you two were together for three years and broke up then I really don`t think there`s going to be another chance to be together, because she doesn`t seem to want it. I don`t know how to tell you to move on, other than trying to find someone else. Who knows why she likes him, but she shouldn`t not like him just because he`s a "hippie" or whatever.
2006-12-03 07:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What are you, an eighth grader? Labels are so stupid. They don't mean anything at all. Look past clothing, and maybe you'll get it.
As for the being hurt thing, let's break out that old chestnut: Time heals all wounds. I'm going through the same thing right now and it really sucks. Three years is a long time, kid. But you'll be okay. You just need to let yourself hurt for a while, and eventually you'll be okay and ready to move on.
2006-12-03 07:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
shes only been with him 1 month?shes not in love,she is in lust maybe...I always felt like a straight up face to face is the best way to solve a problem like yours.Call her or catch her at a moment that you can talk and ask her,tell her how you feel and that you would like to get back with her and find out how she feels...If she says NO,then let it go,you can,t make someone love you,you are fighting a losing battle....she could just be trying to make you jealous,who knows If you don,t ask? as far as how do you move on? it appears that if she don,t want you ,that you have no choice...Lots of guys have been rejected and end up very happy with a new love.STOP thinking negitive!!!
2006-12-03 07:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you need to do is find out where this dude lives...
then in the middle of the night sneak in and kill him with either a garrote or a glass blade- but if u use a blade (u should because they are less noticeable than a huge scar around his neck) you should wear gloves b/c they retain prints very well and also dont forget to stab just below the base of the skull and snap off the blade in the wound he does not need to bleed to death because that should cut his spinal cord and hell be dead by morning. i leave you to ur choice but strongly reccommend the blade as it is a classier way to kill someone.
oh yeah... plz IM me we have alot in common...
2006-12-03 08:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to move on. And perhaps consider some counseling. Everything happens in this life for a reason, and obviously she is not the one for you. Be patient God will send you someone else. And stop talking to her since it is hurting your feelings. Find other things to do to occupy your time, make new friends. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-03 07:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you are wasting your time even still thinking about her in that way.
remember, if its meant to be, it will happen, think of things like this and you will get over it a little bit quicker.
Plus if you really care about someone, you should be happy if their happy - if you don't agree with this your probably going after the wrong motive.
2006-12-03 07:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not going to answer your question, but I will tell you that it's a waste of time to expect an honest, or even a correct answer from anyone who clicks on a question with a title such as yours.
2006-12-03 07:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by Axel 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
just stop talking to her. the best way is to foget and the easyiest way to forget is to get her out fo ur life. move on to some other cute goth chick.
2006-12-03 07:47:57 · answer #9 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
be honest tell her what's up! Tell her that u wanna try again respect her decision i bet she is telling u this to get jealous so so what u got to lose she answers a yes or no question go 4 it!!! BYE BYE!!!
2006-12-03 07:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by pimp132 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋