alright so i snuck out with two senior guys last night that i thought were friends of mine.. i was wrong i guess. they both tried to get me really drunk when we were in the hot tub and they both took advantage of me. they didnt rape me or anything but still.. taking advantag of a drunken girl is wrong.. right?
or is it simply my fault for drinking in the first place?
2006-12-03 07:53:55 · 44 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it is wrong of the guys, and they could get in big trouble, but you really shouldn't have been drinking either. Protect yourself. You know, it's actually more fun being completely sober and just watching the other idiots get drunk. They do some really funny stuff. Plus, you can be the protector, watch over your friends, especially the other girls.
2006-12-03 07:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, its never your fault and shouldn't think that. No matter if your drinking or not they have no right doing anything they didn't have consent in doing. You snuck out of the house no big deal ur not wrong in doing that ....almost everyone has snuck out of home and done something. Just because you did and that happened to you doesn't make it wrong that you did. Those guys are at fault not u sweetie, u should tell someone.
2006-12-03 07:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by linz8100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ALWAYS wrong to take advantage of someone, but if you get drunk and get in a hot tub with a couple of guys, you may be putting yourself in a situation that has a high risk of being taken advantage of...
2006-12-03 08:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your last commit( or is it simply my fault for dinking in the first place? BINGO you answered your own question...No it isn,t right for guys to take advantage of you,however you have to take responsibility for your own actions...Don,t EVER put yourself in a position to be taken advantage of sweetie.bad Move!My daughter was raped because of her getting drunk and losing control,no it should not have happened,but it did,now she always keeps her wits about her when she drinks..so just be thankful that did not happen to you,but bear in mind that it can and be careful ok?
2006-12-03 08:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets say you were at the wrong place at the wrong time, without asking your parents right ? either way these boys are jerks and should of never done that. Rape is rape and all you have to say is NO for it to go down as Rape.. If they touched you in any way against your will it's still Rape sweety no matter how you put it..
2006-12-03 08:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by puppylovetfp.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sneak out with a couple of guys and end up in the hot tub, what the hell do you expect. Taking advantage of young dumb girls is what guys do. So you have the decision whether or not to be the young dumb girl. And for their sake, I hope you are because its a lot more fun. I say get drunk and screw.
2006-12-03 07:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by sofacue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not your fault for wanting to have a good time with people you thought were you're friends. First, never blame yourself for someone elses ignorance. You did nothing wrong. And second yes, it is wrong. If you feel like it tell them exactly how you feel about what they did. If that's to much for you just try to move on and enjoy company of true friends. Good Luck
2006-12-03 07:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by bre714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be some guy ready to take advantage of a drunk women. It doesnt make it right, but if you drink be prepared for it to happen.
Good way to get HIV by the way.
2006-12-03 07:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though you should have not went with them or gotten drunk. It is wrong for them to take advantage of you. It is NOT your fault that it happened. DON'T listen to people saying that it is your fault. The people that says that it is your fault how would they feel if it was them that it happened to. Or what if it happened to their sister.
2006-12-03 08:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by tanya s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no time for being pc... getting drunk in a hot tub with guys .. is sort of like a red rag to a bull ..
You get no sympathy from me .. even if i believe your version ..
Dr Bad
not a 'soft love' fan
2006-12-03 08:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋