Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

What is an originial Holiday gift I can give someone? I was going to buy a star in someones name and found out by some very helpful people here on Yahoo Answers that its a hoax... but thats on the line of what I want to do for my boyfriend, Jason of 5 years... so any suggestion would be deeply appricated....
I would spend up to $100
Thanks
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Happy Green & Red Day!

2006-12-03 14:46:22 · 6 answers · asked by moon_fariey 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

and we talked about where things went bad. He didn't say we would get back together, but just him driving an hour and a half makes me think he still cares. Do you think there is hope?

2006-12-03 14:46:19 · 8 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my girl had a big problem 4 yrs ago...all about misunderstanding..pls help me and need advise pls..thnx..

2006-12-03 14:46:06 · 5 answers · asked by RC 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean i make myself, my girlfriend and the women that are lucky enough to see me happy, but how can i spread that joy globally?

2006-12-03 14:46:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He won't listen. I've been having this problem in my relationship with my husband constantly wanting to have sex but I don't because of the issues in our relationship. So I explained to him how I felt that he was selfish and stubborn, never gives me credit for anything and that I do and that I am secure in the relationship. I mean I poured my heart out with tears and everything and he still had nothing to say but "i just want to have sex" . What more can I do I even told him I need to feel okay with the person I am sharing intimate moments with and I want to feel special sometimes. I have bought him flowers, cooked him dinners, acted like a straight ho for him meaning I go kinky and still nothing for me, just bend over so we I can do you. WHAT ELSE IS THERE WHAT ELSE CAN I DO This is all he focuses on and it makes me feel like **** when he allows me to lay there knowing I am hating every minute of it. Why would someone want to have sex with there wife if they feel disgusted

2006-12-03 14:45:49 · 29 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in my mid-40s. I recently met a young man of 19. He made the first move and all the passes. I just kind of fell under his spell. However, all my friends, and several other people, all think I'm robbing the cradle. He's a consenting adult, I'm a consenting adult, WHAT is the problem? Some input and insights would be most welcome. Thanks.

2006-12-03 14:45:38 · 6 answers · asked by SKVY 4 in Singles & Dating

or someone who can keep a clean, beautiful house, cook nutritious food, take the best care of the children ? It's simply not possible to do all three well when the woman has to go to work,...

2006-12-03 14:44:29 · 18 answers · asked by Kria 3 in Singles & Dating

i knew this guy from playing online game. He is from middle east.
After we chatting for 1 month, he ask me for phone number and want to come to singapore look for me.
I never gv him the phone number and dun wan him to come.
Just because i feel like the country here wont allow him to come cause its a terrorist country although he is not.

I tink i shd block him from chatting with me, but its had grow a fond feeling toward him.
Wat shd i do?

2006-12-03 14:43:47 · 4 answers · asked by grace 1 in Singles & Dating

are they just trying to be friendly or something?

2006-12-03 14:43:14 · 11 answers · asked by lucy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 14:43:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with him for 4 yrs and we have a baby together, he is only 19 and he has been telling me that he is confused. One day he says that he wants to be with me and the next he says that he doesn't, what does it mean and what should I do?

2006-12-03 14:42:28 · 5 answers · asked by dessy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin lives near my BF and introduced us on the net since she and I can't drive and my drunk uncle smashed into BF's car. He's about 20 and I'm 17. We've been so busy this year that we haven't had time to actually meet each other. Next Monday we meet, and I've persuaded him to have sex with me, even though he's been saying to wait til I'm legal. I've fallen in love with him, and a piece of me wants him that way...but there's a feeling to not do it. It's not that I don't trust him, it's just that its the first time I'm meeting him and I want it to be special. Most of my relationships end cause I put out. But I really care about this guy and I think I really should wait now. Some people say that relationships don't last long w/o sex, and although I trust ours will be long I don't know the next time I'll see him so it feels important. The only thing is, how do I tell him that I don't wanna sleep with him? After a LOT of persuasion he got excited, so how do I break it to him?

2006-12-03 14:42:27 · 7 answers · asked by cattys_cats 3 in Singles & Dating

When I couldn't have a cd for the entire afternoon and instead of having it for just half an hour, I gave it back to my parents. I got grounded for being so negative. Up in my room, I could hear my parents starting to fight. Than I got called down again about five minutes later. My mom screamed at me that it was all my fault that my mom and dad were fighting. Then my dad said I had ruined the entire dinner (we had ordered chinese food in) and that because of it, I was going to pay for it. He made me take out my wallet, give him the $40 that I had earned babysitting for six hours the day before, and said that I also owed him $50 more. I climbed the stairs up to my room only to be called down again to clean the kitchen because my mom didn't want to have to clean up the dinner that I had ruined. Right now, I am terribly guilty and very, VERY scared. I know what what I did was wrong, but do I deserve the punishments for such a stupid thing, or am I just feeling sorry for myself?

2006-12-03 14:42:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so i used to be a part of this little group of friends. we were all super close, but this yr its not like that. i dont have any classes with them, and we're not involved in each others lives. i care sooo much about them, but they dont seem to care at all...and it bothers me. all i want is their friendship. what do i do? talking to them hasnt work. they say im being hypersensitve, ahhh. crazy. i love my friendships. plz help

2006-12-03 14:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by Lovinlife85 2 in Friends

2006-12-03 14:40:28 · 10 answers · asked by bria<3 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay , i have a friend who has depression badly. She also has something else that starts with a i , i dont know how to spell it but its really bad. Its in her familys histroy but she cuts herself. Not on the wrists , on the arms , shoulders , Last week she cut the world love in her skin , I spent the night there one night and saw the blade she does it with. I grabed it and yelled at her because 4 days before she had said she had broken it. I slapped her across the arm the week before when she had cut her self while we were walking down teh street. , iN PUBLIC SHE PULLED IT OUT AND CUT HERSELF , im sorry but she needs to stop , do you have any cures you know off , Shes kind of emo , but i worry bout her. How do i make her stop!!

2006-12-03 14:39:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am. But I wonder if it matters to you guys or not. Does it?? Why??

2006-12-03 14:39:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went over my friends where we went for a walk around our very small town. We saw some of her brothers friends and we started to talk to them. Then he started grabbing at my butt and telling me that he liked it. Then he threw me on the ground and literally got on top of me. We ran away but they are 15 and we are only 13 so we can only go so fast. We eventually outran them though because they smoke and stuff. Should I tell my mom? I still want to hang out with my friend though and I'm worried that she wont let me hang out with her anymore.

2006-12-03 14:39:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was in love in my teens and have never been in true love in my 20s. I am now reaching the end of my 20s and a bit jaded with society, relationships etc...

Wondering if its possible to get that magical teenage feeling again?

2006-12-03 14:39:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's getting marry someday next year and I'm looking for her wedding gift right now. The problem is that I don't know what to give her since I've never given anyone wedding gifts before. Any suggestions?

2006-12-03 14:38:37 · 10 answers · asked by Iileen 2 in Weddings

I borke with my girl friend recently, the reason is i never used to give much time for her ... everytime i used to shout at her , use slags at her... last time we fought n this was not the first time we have fought.. bt th last incident has taken big print in her heart... it is my mistake to have taken her for granted thing she would never leave me as she has had sex with me... she used to love me sooo very much n was ready to do anything for me....now she says that she has no feelings for me n she wants to quit... i asked her to think 1ce more n later she decided to take time for a month...i have changed my behaviour n controlled my anger.. i have realised what mistake i have made .. she is the world for me n i love her more than anything on this planet..... i want her back i will really look after her like a gem.. can't live widout her. i asked her what she wants to do in the future , she tells that she wants to be alone n be happy wid her family... rt now she is totally confused.

2006-12-03 14:38:20 · 1 answers · asked by rock 1 in Singles & Dating

At the end of a date, sometimes it is hard to read the signals of my dates. Do you women prefer men who ask you for your permission for a kiss, or a man who just goes for it?

2006-12-03 14:38:18 · 16 answers · asked by D.F.T.R. 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, I keep thinking about my ex-boyfriend & I feel so angry even though it's been over since 8 months ago. He was my first bf and kiss, & even though it never went past kissing (cuz I'm saving myself for marriage), I still got hurt. He made it seem like he could commit & he said all these sweet lies & he didn't mind about the no-sex thing. But after only a month he left saying "he's busy". I get angry sometimes. I know a few girls who are REALLy ugly, I mean dog-ugly & their bfs treat them so well & are committed. I'm not saying that I'm the best but lots of guys hit on me & say I'm beautiful, and yet I can't find a great guy. How can I not get angry, is there anything to help that?
I'm just really mad at the world today. One girl, the really ugly one said that her bf stayed up all night with her to help her w/ her essay & that he buys her gifts all the time. All I got was lies & heartache from my ex.

2006-12-03 14:37:53 · 16 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

i am the handsomest, most charming bloke i know. is it unfair that i have everything?

2006-12-03 14:37:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when you want to break up with them? if they call and call but you havent returned their calls for days and you just dont want to be bothered with them anymore?

2006-12-03 14:37:07 · 3 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Singles & Dating

That person that made u feel heaven in an instant..

2006-12-03 14:35:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can i do to prepare for impact? ive been through some stuff before, read the link, but i don't want history to repeat itself.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=As2VyzVWHGovh.7dGWj8npjsy6IX?qid=20061203040139AAWGCB4

2006-12-03 14:34:28 · 13 answers · asked by alex l 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend, and I have been dating for 3 years. We were dating long distance and than I moved across 4 states and moved in with him for a year. Everything was ok, but than I had to adjust to his friends and family and his Mom is very controlling and wanted me to fill a traditional role of a housewife, and I am a career girl. After living with him for roughly 10 monthes we were supposed to go to a friends wedding and then he told me before hand that he did not think he ever wanted to get married or have kids. We made up a week later, but I decided to move out nontheless now he's living with roommates and I am too and we live on the same city block. He has put more distance between us, but still keeps coming around and treats me like his girlfriend. He did not come to my best friends birthday and I was upset because it was all couples, so I drunk-dialed him and he told me it was rude, than I went over we fought and I left than broke up with him over text message. Is that wrong?

2006-12-03 14:33:58 · 6 answers · asked by Gwen27 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 14:33:04 · 10 answers · asked by SNK1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i hav met a grl that i like. she always waits for me after class and always wants a hug, but i play hard to get and say no. she always wants to lay on me like i'm a sofa. when we talk on the phone, we talk for eva. she makes me say thatt i luv her and i do but sometimes when she saids it,it doesn't sound like she means it. i really like her but i have tried everything that i possibly can. help me get a hold of her. i don't want to lose her. can you give advice please.

-oregon boy in need of help

2006-12-03 14:32:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating