Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

I worked a 16 1/2 hour shift yeasterday, so after showering i fell into the bed and zonked out, neglecting My Girlfriends needs, this infurated Her to no end, so She crapped in the bed and went Home leaving me to clean it up this morning when i got up, this is the second time this week that She was angery with Me pooped the bed then split, I am sick of waking up with these big steaming turds in the bed with Me!

2006-12-03 14:00:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated someone for 5 years 22 years ago. They ended the relationship quite abruptly and I never saw or heard from them again. No contact was made from either of us. Recently my spouse and I were out for the evening and we were laughing at something silly. I then saw my old flame who was looking right at me. They had aged quite a bit in comparison to my spouse who is quite a bit younger than me but I still recognized them. As soon as they made eye contact with me they turned and ran the other way. My question is why would an old flame run away like this if they were the one to break my heart many years ago? Why would they want to hurt me all over again?

2006-12-03 14:00:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This guy I met online really wants to meet me and I think I want to meet him. He lives near me and hes about my age. I've seen his myspace so I'm pretty sure shes not lying about who he is. Could it still be dangerous though?

2006-12-03 14:00:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what turns you on

2006-12-03 13:59:16 · 18 answers · asked by Guy in PA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it a hoax or really a legitimate way to make money from home? anyone ever done it or heard of it? Is it or can it be considered a real job? If so, pros and cons please...

2006-12-03 13:59:02 · 7 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I stopped see this one guy because he wasn't over his gf. The last night we hung out we talked about everything. He told me he didn't have Closure with his ex gf when they broke up. He also said that he can't be in a relationship with anyone even though he has such strong feels for me and so on!

A week later he calls me i don't answer
then the third time he calls i answer and he tells me he got Closure with his ex and he wants to hang out now.
I told him i was busy this week and had to think about it.
I never called him so he calls me and asks why i haven't called
him. I keep telling him that I'm really busy. I just don't want to go through that again. I don't know what to say to him without being mean. I hate having guys think im ***** because I'm not. What should i say?

2006-12-03 13:58:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy a month. He is smart, funny, successful and I like spending time with him. No sex yet and am not sure if there will be unless I can resolve this issue: Recently I noticed a deformed fingernail on his right hand and asked him if he had injured himself. He said that he had hit it with a hammer and now there is a fungus on (in?) it. He then said that his all ten of his toes looked the same way; at one time he was playing a lot of racquet ball and played with such vigor that he had repeatedly rammed his feet into the wall and this was the result. He then said that he was going to begin taking Lamasil to treat it.
My questions are: How do I broach this issue tactfully? Is this contagious? Should I be concerned?

2006-12-03 13:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by Susan P 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex when my daughter (now almost 6) was 3 years old. Her father can only see her at supervised visituations which he "refuses to pay for anyone to watch him with his child." Thus he has not made any contact with her in over a year. Needless to say he's not an "outstanding citizen" and I almost feel that it is in her best interest not to be involved with him.
I am concerned that my daughter is going to have abandonment issues (which has has already asked me "why doesn't my daddy love me?") when she grows up. Any help or advice would be much appreciated from any of you folks who have experienced or are experiencing something similar with your child.

2006-12-03 13:58:05 · 9 answers · asked by NautyRN 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is your spouse's brother-in-law or sister-in-law your in-law too? Like if my fiance had a brother-in-law named Bob, would Bob become MY brother-in-law when we got married? If not...what is he to me?

2006-12-03 13:57:57 · 12 answers · asked by Sara 4 in Weddings

Okay , we told her to be careful , we had just saw something about a girl getting abused by a guy on myspace. She's not like pooring her life out to him , but she told him where she works and where she lives. She's going to meet him in 3 months at Chicogo where he lives and we keep telling her if she wants to met him met him here. But she wont listin , should we go with her just in case or butt out?

2006-12-03 13:56:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so heres my situation, i have known this girl for years now (im a senior in high school) and ever since we met we have always had chemistry together, were always flirting back and forth with each other and can always talk about anything. during sopmore year, i was about to ask her out, but never made a move and she went off with another guy, now during our senior year.. were startinhg to flirt again ( she stil has a bf) such as shes always in my face when were talking, always calling out my name when she sees me in the halls, and everytime she sees me she runs up and initiates the conversation, she makes the extra effort to walk with me in the direction that i go and whenever we hang out (in groups) she always texts me after asking me if i had a good time. also her feet always point towards me when we talk and other things. now heres my question... shes still with her bf and im inlove with her... what do i do?

2006-12-03 13:56:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hear alot of girls saying:

"I just met this guy and i REALLY "like him""

How do you know you like him if you just met him?

2006-12-03 13:56:27 · 5 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Singles & Dating

Many girls are looking for guys with pretty girly faces that does look more like a girl's face than a man's face. I think a man should have a man's face & not a girl face. I can't be attracted to a guy with a girly face unless i'm either a lesbian or a bi curious cuz God forbid if a girl likes a guy cuz his face is like a girl more than a man, then probably she is a lesbian.

2006-12-03 13:56:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex has custody of our daughter and I have visitation. There had been a support agreement which is not being enforced by the State of Indiana.

My daughter has lived with me (and my wife) for the majority of her life (she is 5). My wife and I enrolled her into school this past year.

This past week, my ex got upset with me and my wife again. She has pulled my daughter out of my house and is planning to take her out of the school she was in. My ex is planning to move my daughter out of the county to live with her mother (my ex's mother).

At my house, my daugher has her own room, while at my ex's house, she sleeps on the couch and at my ex's mother house, my daughter sleeps with my ex's mother.

I do not feel that living arrangements at their houses are adequate and that she is better off with my wife and I. I also have no idea where to start or what to do at this point.

Any one have any suggestions?

2006-12-03 13:55:26 · 6 answers · asked by BP 1 in Family

2006-12-03 13:55:20 · 11 answers · asked by Jim 2 in Marriage & Divorce

for those reading or have read a tree grows in brooklyn i would like to know what you think about katie (the mom) about strengths and weaknesses within her and womens life in the book

i have a group project and we want to know your veiws. thanks.

2006-12-03 13:54:58 · 1 answers · asked by jopuppy 5 in Family

2006-12-03 13:54:41 · 5 answers · asked by businessman7337 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I loved my now ex and I know he at least had some fo the same feelings for me. I could tell a million stories that show theae romantic and sweet moments that would make most people cry and acctually already have, we'll call him bunny. I also have a best friend, we'll call her kitten. Well the problem with bunny was he was 20 and I was 15 at the time, kitten is my age. I started hanging out with kitten a lot and since I was not aloud to see bunny because of my parents she would help me set up times that we could all hang out with the addition of his friend, we'll call him pinecone. This worked out for a while but Bunny and Kitten started hanging out more and more w/o me and one night they were hanging out and when they were saying good-bye she lingered looking at him and he kissed her. I was devistated and we broke up. He has no idea that I know about the iccident. I love him so much and I'm begining to hate kitten for how much she hurt me. Am I in the wrong, and what should I do

2006-12-03 13:54:26 · 4 answers · asked by Penguin_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked him to proofread my essay. I sent it to him a week ago and he never "have the time"to read it. I need it very urgently,so how do I politely hurry him to do it ASAP?

2006-12-03 13:53:37 · 24 answers · asked by anne 1 in Friends

need funny cute sarcastic way to kiss bf. it would be our first kiss...so it has to be good. u know what im talking about like howabout that kiss? that kinda stuff. be original if possible. thanks for all your help!!

2006-12-03 13:53:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 13:53:10 · 3 answers · asked by jayakrishnamenon 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a VERY HECTIC career. I work five days a week and most days its 12 13 hour shifts. On the weekends I end up being so exhausted from the week that I just sleep and laze around. I dont really even want to dress up & go out. One night stranger started banging on my door after midnight. I freaked out and called the police because it wasnt just a regular knock. Of course I looked like CRAP to put it lightly. I look totally different with and without makeup and to make it better I had on a baggy sweatshirt and a pair of pajama pants that would fit a three hundred pound man. My hair looked like a rats nest & I had no makeup on. The CUTEST police officer showed up and he was looking around my apt and staring at my degree hanging on the wall. Impressed with my place probably but not with me. The next evening I remembered something I had to add to the report so I called them back looking as ugly as the night before .same cop. he's single. im interested. how do I reverse his impression

2006-12-03 13:53:08 · 6 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 13:52:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with this guy for 3 weeks and i want to get him something good for christmas. but i only want to spend about $50 dollars for christmas he is thugish so he isnt into all the video games...i was thinking what kind of stores could i go to to get him some clothes?

2006-12-03 13:51:58 · 7 answers · asked by bldholbrook 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does it really matter who says "I love you" first? Please tell me WHY you feel the way you do.

Thanks!!

2006-12-03 13:51:27 · 27 answers · asked by browneyegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

Looking!

2006-12-03 13:51:13 · 9 answers · asked by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 in Singles & Dating

i loved my x-boyfriend Jeff so much. he was awesome and amazing. i thought everything was going good until he stopped trusting me and though i liked some one 4 years younger. i dumped him. its been about 6 months since we dated and he is always talking to me and flirting with me i sort of like him but i wouldent ever date him again because we were on and off alot. he likes another girl but i still think he likes me. what should i do! my friends hate him now because he was a jerk when we broke up and made up horrible rumors.

2006-12-03 13:51:01 · 5 answers · asked by Kimmy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-03 13:50:32 · 5 answers · asked by Angel G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have to *make* a gift for someone's birthday, which is several days after christmas, however, they live 1500 miles away, so I really need to ship it -- which means I probably want to ship it as early as possible as well.

The girl I like is also one of my better friends, so I want it to be something memorable, but I don't want a gift to be overly romantic either.

I want it to be a real object -- not something look cookies or a CD or something.

The girl is Venezuelan, so if I could incorporate that somehow (for instance, if something had to deal with birds, use the Venezuelan state bird) that would probably work to my advantage as well


The other thing is that since I am going to have to ship it, it has to be something not too delicate, or that can be easily and safely packaged.

Please, help. I really can't think of anything that doesn't require a lot more planning ahead.

2006-12-03 13:50:16 · 11 answers · asked by xParadox 3 in Singles & Dating

A lot of ppl dont understand the entired situation. We are all human and make mistakes and you must understand that before all of this, i was married for about four years and never conceived. So aparently it was something going on with my ex. Secondly, the day i found out i was pregnant, i was about to start my birth control pills...what a joke, huh? and Thirdly, I do not take this situation lightly, i do believe that sane ppl sometimes make insane decesions during the heat of the moment...unfortunately.

2006-12-03 13:50:13 · 4 answers · asked by kk k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships