Okay , we told her to be careful , we had just saw something about a girl getting abused by a guy on myspace. She's not like pooring her life out to him , but she told him where she works and where she lives. She's going to meet him in 3 months at Chicogo where he lives and we keep telling her if she wants to met him met him here. But she wont listin , should we go with her just in case or butt out?
2006-12-03 13:56:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's only been with him for 2 weeks
2006-12-03 14:17:27 · update #1
She only 17 her birthday is 2 days after she mets him hes duh 20
2006-12-03 14:18:49 · update #2
Tell her if she continues with this nonsense, you won't be her friend.
2006-12-03 13:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I actually met my now-fiance on myspace and he's 5 and a 1/2 years older than me and I was 18 when we met, so it's possible to find an actual relationship on there even if the situation looks like it might not end up so well. And when I met my fiance for the first time, I made sure I had a friend with me and it was in public.
So yes, I would say go with your friend and make sure she meets the guy in a public place just in case he isn't who he says he is.
2006-12-03 14:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by dc87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what an incredibly bad idea that is.
There is no control on who is on myspace, or who they portray themselves to be. It's a perv paradise. She met a "persona" on myspace that is three years older, but the real "person" may be 30 years older.
You shouldn't go with her--none of you should go. You don't say how old you are, but I'm thinking teens. You need to tell her parents what she has been doing and about her plans. She'll be pissed, but she won't be dead--and that is too big a risk to take.
2006-12-03 14:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 23:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by didden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with her. Myspace is bad, and myspace lies. I mean, i have one, but you have to be extremely careful, you never know if a 17 year old girl is 46 year old man. Maybe you should research Myspace cases to scare her out of it.
2006-12-03 14:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by IcePixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, the age thing doesnt really matter...3 years is not really a big age gap (providing they are BOTH over 18 years of age)
Secondly, i think you should accompany her to meet this person because you should always be wary of people off the internet! It probably wasnt the greatest idea to give out personal details to him but accompany her just incase. Who knows, this guy might be a genuine guy who is trust worthy? But is it worth the risk? Definatly not.
2006-12-03 14:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definetly go with her. You can never really know someone off the internet until you meet them in person. It's not always safe to meet new people.
2006-12-03 14:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DON'T GO WITH HER!!, IF SHE WON'T LISTEN TO A FRIEND THEN WHAT GOOD WOULD IT SERVE FOR YOU TO GET IN HARMS WAY? NOW IF YOU ARE HER FRIEND YOU MIGHT WANT TO DO THE HARD PART OF BEING A TRUE FRIEND AND LET SOMEONE KNOW WHAT SHE'S THINKING OF. SURE SHE'S GOING TO BE MAD AT YOU AT FIRST, BUT FRIENDS DON'T LET FRIENDS DRIVE OFF A BRIDGE WITHOUT SCREAMING ..H E L P!
I H O P E YOU ARE A GOOD FRIEND.
2006-12-03 14:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Hollywood Marine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol myspace.... i dont know anyone that would actually go out of their way to meet someone they met on myspace. kind of weird and desperate no?
2006-12-03 14:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude if u cared about ur friend you would go with her and never leave her alone or tell her parents i know she may hate you for it but then again if you don't and then you guys go and something happens u'll hate ur selves for not doing something.
2006-12-03 14:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not a good idea because once she shares tis information thast it she try to wait a while and then meet him and then she give him any information she wants after she thinks he s good guy
2006-12-03 13:59:30 · answer #11 · answered by bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋