Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

I have made a mistake with a friend of mine. I told him to "count me out as a friend". He said he would do that right now and that he did not need me. In the meantime, he leased a Mercedes Bendes and is going to India for a holiday . After a month I apologized to him and he said he did not appreciate me letter at all.
He said he was really angry with my words. We are now talking on the phone and he will come to my home this week to visit for coffee, but the mistake was not good.
I get frustrated with all the wrong things I have done because I don;t understand his religion and how they operate. He does not understand the Western way of doing things.....no dinners out,,,,no public movie houses.....no public display of dancing. i like him and like his company but I want more than this .
He likes to have material things and likes to buy good quality things and saves money by going to the Church and staying home. I need to reach him deep down and get him to see things my way more.

2006-12-03 14:32:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 14:31:48 · 2 answers · asked by tlargent391 1 in Family

2006-12-03 14:29:52 · 16 answers · asked by rican mami 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 14:29:08 · 11 answers · asked by keemae85 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my husband has been married for 2 almost 3 yrs. Our sex life is great except for one thing. When he wants it he gets it, but when i want sex he says hes too tired or something. Im getting tired of it. if he wont give it to me when i want it why should i give it to him when he wants it?

2006-12-03 14:29:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found one bad 1 which lasted 22 years, are all like her, bad news.
It's all I find and I'm not the type to look hard, where has gone wrong?
So where "are" the real women now, may look abroad?

2006-12-03 14:28:33 · 16 answers · asked by superalymac 1 in Singles & Dating

A woman had an affair with my husband 14 years ago,we became friends because the affair produced a child.She married.Her husband left her once they divorced she re married him a month or so later.Her husband left her again.Her and I didn't have much contact however we spoke and the kids new on another.She contacted me asking about my husband and how her daughter want to know her Dad.That's never been an issue.How ever my husband and her got together an she got pregnant again!!After 13 years. Once she got pregnant she wants nothing to do with him.She got pregnant purposefully.She has two adult children(she had them when she wa 14 and 15 years old from a relationship back in the day.She has always had a reputation for sleeping with other womens men.Now she has a 1 year old by my husband.She goes to Church and calls herself a christian.I thinks she crazy and I can't get the situation out of my mind.People just just do things like that.What do you think?

2006-12-03 14:28:30 · 21 answers · asked by Frankly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i Deeno .. I`M SOOO CONFUSED. this guy is soo swweet. Everytime i talk to him my face BLUSH RED. he so nice. & he knows the best thing to say. He comlipment so nicely in his sweet deap tone. i love his voice.......
but i`jus confused. I Do like himm. i think i like him alot. i cant stop going on his myspace paqe everyday. & he tells me the same.
I` cant sleep at nite, i jusz always thinks. hes always on my mind. But ........he have a girl friend , shes a model ..singer. BLAH BLAH. shes preeti and all. but idduno. idk if im jealous. if i like him or not SOOOO CONFUSED! & they not toqether anymore.
&& he live far away from me. i dontthink this is going to work!> URGHHHHHHH> BUT I CANT STOP THINKING BOUT HIM. jusssss if i dont hear his voice a empty feeling i have inside me. but when i talk to him ....... just i` dont want to, cuhs ideeno if he means it. i dunno if he going to lie like the rest of them quys `ive seen bfore.....................URGHHHH =|

2006-12-03 14:28:06 · 3 answers · asked by lala.fxckuhunnie 2 in Friends

How far will you let your teen go? I dissagree w/a male friend that has a 16 yr old son. He gives him no physical freedom w/his body. My son is 13 and he has had an earring (since 3.) He has kinda longer blonde hair w/some curls around the face. He's skinny and wear baggy jeans. What is your limit on how far you will let your kids go w/style? I always said that if dieing his hair or an earring is the worst thing my kid does to show his independence then thats ok w/me. Hair you can change-earring can come out. (Tatoo-no! thats permanent) My friend won't even let his "Big" son pick his haircut, no baggy jeans ya know the lil silver studs you pin into your hat? NO!WAY! etc..and they are not like a high class family or anything. I just think if you try to controll every lil aspect of their lives they will rebell later. They have to have some freedom to chose, Am I right? So how far do you let your kids choices go?

2006-12-03 14:26:17 · 3 answers · asked by same girl/new name :) 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

if he asks to hang again or "try" to shud i just say no so i dont get my hopes up? or what shud i do?

2006-12-03 14:25:41 · 2 answers · asked by jessicacd91 2 in Singles & Dating

well he lives far away so we usally help eachother out through the phone. what can i tell him to please him. im running out of ideas. buys be honest what woulkd you like your girlfreind to tell you while your j/o on the phone? gets as deep as you need to. thanks

2006-12-03 14:25:25 · 9 answers · asked by summergirl10171 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 14:23:48 · 9 answers · asked by concerned c 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby is coming home from Iraq and I would greatly appreciate getting some ideas on how to spice things up...don't get me wrong I love our sex but i want to make it better because he has to go back in a month...Men I want things you would like and woman things you have done. Thanks.

2006-12-03 14:23:29 · 18 answers · asked by speedy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

same women when i am single? when i've got a girlfriend women seem aplenty, and they seem interested. naturally, i try to distance myself from these girls because i don't want that temptation. when im single, there seems to be a shortage of attractive datable women. WTF? do girls like the fact that i may be "unattanable" or is it the thought of doing something bad? ladies please help.

2006-12-03 14:23:17 · 6 answers · asked by alex l 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 14:22:43 · 6 answers · asked by Jermaine R 1 in Friends

I was talking to this dude for a couple of weeks, and everything was fine up until a few days ago when we sort of argued all night. Since then he hasn't been calling me that much. He had called two days ago, drunk to to see how I was doing and in the mist of the conversation he told me that he cares about me. Well, since then he don't even call me like that. It's been only three days but I noticed how he doesn't call anymore.

I don't want to call him cause I don't want to seem as if I'm stuck on him, but can anyone tell me if it's because he's losing interest?

2006-12-03 14:22:31 · 2 answers · asked by ATLCHI 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not attacking you, I love you but trying to understand you.

2006-12-03 14:21:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just something I heard and I am wondering if this has any validity

2006-12-03 14:21:09 · 33 answers · asked by kareiche 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 14:20:10 · 8 answers · asked by Kria 3 in Singles & Dating

I have brought up the drop off in our sex life a few times. She responds with i love you its a problem with me. She will not elaborate, and whenever i try to talk to her the situation gets worse. its at the point now that she comes home orders me to roll one up, then sits on the computer for 2 or three hours and passes out on the couch. I look at her and i think she is starring at my friends, im completely paranoid. I cant sleep and i have nightmares about her sleeping with m best friend. If you have any insight into my situation please reply.

2006-12-03 14:19:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you do if your room mate was being a jerk and not talking to you, and your best friend calls and leaves a mes. saying she is in premasure labor, and he forgets to tell you?

2006-12-03 14:19:38 · 8 answers · asked by Kelli A 2 in Friends

I dont care if he's married i Just want to have some fun I know that might sound wrong but I can't help it I always had a fantasy to sleep a professor. Im kind of starting to have feelings for him but I don't want to be a homewrecker I dont want to change his married life but I want to be his side dish- im afraid to tell him how I feel I dont want to scare him off I dont know what to do???

2006-12-03 14:19:22 · 13 answers · asked by WickedGenius 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you tell her she's gotta lose weight?

2006-12-03 14:19:14 · 9 answers · asked by alpha_trolls 1 in Singles & Dating

SHE WORKS IN A DAYCARE AND IS 44 YEARS OLD ANY IDEAS??

2006-12-03 14:19:13 · 6 answers · asked by angie068345 1 in Family

well, im dating this guy for as long as 7 months and well i think that he iis using me just for sex. the true i really regret i had sex with him , i mean we are not going out but i mean we just like dating like knowing each other. i really get depress sometimes and sad because he is to dating other girls.

2006-12-03 14:19:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what does it mean if a girl says in messenger,"it's not like i will not talk to you."
what does it mean if a girl askes, "how come you are not in my contact list?"

2006-12-03 14:19:01 · 5 answers · asked by 3.141592653589793238462643383279 3 in Singles & Dating

Well I really like this girl in my school and she's really pretty. So I always go to her myspace and save pictures onto my computer and look at them because I'm too shy at school.
Do you think I'm being a stalker? Is this creepy?
But I have no choice I can't stop thinking about her.

2006-12-03 14:18:43 · 8 answers · asked by luke 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with the most awesome guy. We're are getting married next fall. However, we don't make love much. It's more me, than him. I'm so attracted to him but I just don't feel like making love. Is their something wrong with me?

2006-12-03 14:17:56 · 13 answers · asked by jeremiahs gal 1 in Singles & Dating

he also said you could see other people what would you do?

2006-12-03 14:17:27 · 6 answers · asked by amouya f 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey. i am a guy. i have a question for both guys and girls. do you know if people can accuratly judge themselves on looks? for example, when i look into the miror, i imagine i was someone else looking at me and i think i am pretty goodlooking without even a little bit of ego. So my question is this : can people accuratly judge their own looks? or does everyone think they look good in the mirror?

2006-12-03 14:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by whaseup 1 in Singles & Dating