Hello! I think my girlfriend s cheating on me. I have asked her about it she says its a problem with her ....?

Question

I have brought up the drop off in our sex life a few times. She responds with i love you its a problem with me. She will not elaborate, and whenever i try to talk to her the situation gets worse. its at the point now that she comes home orders me to roll one up, then sits on the computer for 2 or three hours and passes out on the couch. I look at her and i think she is starring at my friends, im completely paranoid. I cant sleep and i have nightmares about her sleeping with m best friend. If you have any insight into my situation please reply.

Answer 1

She's cheating and telling you (in the only cowardly way she can ) that she's cheating. Time to hear her telling you that she's cheating. Treat her like a cheater!

Answer 2

Chill Dude! She's either not in love with you any longer and is processing the idea of leaving or she's got a little depression going on or other illness or the pot is taking her drive away.

Don't worry about an affair; chances are she's not having one and if she is waht are you going to do about it. Nothing to do, but pack your bags and start over if she is.

Give her some time, then move on with your life without her.

Answer 3

She might not be cheating at all. You might be pressing her to much for sex and she might feel "touched out" where she just can't stand to be touched. It happens from to much touchy feely! she probaly doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Relax, until you KNOW she is cheating. Give her the benefit of the doubt. Relax, relax, say it over and over! when she gets ready she will be back. Try talking to her gently without pressing her for sex. Don't be so selfish! Give the girl a break!

Answer 4

Here's a tip: marijuana makes you paranoid!!!

Maybe she just doesn't feel like having sex. Give it time and then talk to her about it.... if you still think she's cheating on you, then get rid of her, but there are a million other possibilities besides cheating, so be careful and think it through!

Answer 5

sounds a little odd to me. She probley is not cheating but sounds to me like u should spice things up maybe she is bored or thinking about leaving u the best thing is to try new things in Ur relationship if that doesn't work then i would be concerned

Answer 6

I am sorry but I don't want to be the one to tell you this but I think she is cheating...take if from a female. I was once her awhile back and am going threw a divorce so all I can says is that she is cheatin or at least thinking about it.

Answer 7

let her go,she will always cheat,once a general is always for ur interest get rid of her now and b/f u know it she"s gone with the mess for good or continue and fool and keep on hurting urself but u will know how far will the time comes.

Answer 8

If u think u know where she is cheating on u than have a hidden camera. Or just find CHEATERS which is a tv show that will find out if she is cheating on u

Answer 9

Find yourself another woman. until she cheats on you too.
it has nothing to do with you. Most woman cheat and when they do cheat, it is because that are not happy with themselves.
If you do not want your girl friend, wife to cheat on you., you must always make her feel good about herself. If she is happy with herself as a human being most likely she won't cheat.
Good luck

Answer 10

Be careful.

Wear protection.

Girls DO lie.

The end...., almost...,

If she is cheating, there are ways u can find out. Think like a woman, be sneaky and behind your backish.

Women always do things the sneaky way because they don't want to get caught..., think like a criminal, think like a woman.