I have a crush on my professor in college who is married we always flirt verbally and physically?

Question

I dont care if he's married i Just want to have some fun I know that might sound wrong but I can't help it I always had a fantasy to sleep a professor. Im kind of starting to have feelings for him but I don't want to be a homewrecker I dont want to change his married life but I want to be his side dish- im afraid to tell him how I feel I dont want to scare him off I dont know what to do???

Answer 1

if he is married then you shouldnt be chasing after him
because if you do the wife might find out and that would cause a lot of problems at home talk about being homewrecker also why would you want to be the side dish in a relationship ??

Answer 2

Find someone your own age, he's a man and chances are he'd like nothing better than to have you as his side-dish but this will inevitably affect his married life, and think how much damage you could do his kids if you wreck his home. There are also many other legal implications involving both your lives. Leave the guy alone.

Answer 3

You are being a homewrecker and are going to change his married life if his wife finds out. You obviously have a lot of growing up to do yet.

Answer 4

Not only can it be bad for him, it can be bad for you as well. If you decide to pursue academia, the rumor that you were once involved with your professor will get around.

People wonder and gossip about how you got your degree--by sleeping with your professors? Don't think it'll be nice and peachy, especially when the crush wears off or he realizes what he's done or some combination of both.

Answer 5

don't cross the line. Let things be where they are and no more. You need to know that by trying to make a fantasy a realty, you could be asking for a lot of unrest in your life, which is rather peaceful now. Concentrate on other things in life and try being just freindly with him. Something is only as important as we make it to be. Be more responsible ; i'm sure he has kids.... Men flirt but a woman needs to show him that she's mature and responsible, - that way, you won't regret anything ., and people will respect you, just as you will respect yourself.

Answer 6

You answered your own question..

"I don't want to be a homewrecker"

You also dont want to mess up your education. Leave it as is, a fantasy... find a non married one thats not teaching you a class.

Answer 7

Honey, hellooooo
Why don't you take on a real challange instead of being stupid enough to fall in to the game of Teachers pet. Sounds like your bored and obviously not attracting men of your own age group. Why don't you spend time working on the Mulit Millionaire, CEO a real challange. I suggest you watch Pinks video.

Answer 8

Ok, this is completely natural, trust me. There is nothing wrong with you, however, I do wish people like you were attracted to me.

Anyway... I recommend trying to find out about his class schedules and stuff like that. Once you see an opening in the schedule, like if there is a good period after YOUR class that no one will be going into the classroom... You should stay after class and come on to him. He will give it to you.

Answer 9

It is YOUR decision, but please keep this in mind:

if word gets out, you are in serious trouble.
This professor could lose his tenure, his job, his wife...

It is a very dangerous situation and I would suggest you control your lust....it will only explode in your face when somone finds out OR this professor thinks of you only as a quick "f"ck

Answer 10

Bad idea! I'm a professor and I would never allow this type of thing to happen. It's our jobs at stake!