I'm in love with the most awesome guy. We're are getting married next fall. However, we don't make love much. It's more me, than him. I'm so attracted to him but I just don't feel like making love. Is their something wrong with me?
2006-12-03 14:17:56 · 13 answers · asked by jeremiahs gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maibe u just dont feel comfortable making love with him which can also mean u are not in love
2006-12-03 14:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by gina r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had something like this happen to me. I did and still do love the guy, but I was not as sexually attracted as I could have been. We broke up and I realized that I still liked sex, just not with him. So your options seem to be that you need to first read all the sex edu books you can and make sure you can't do the deed because you feel uneducated. Second, make sure you are eating well. Third, make sure you aren't stressed out. Fourth, make sure you are not depressed. All four of those things wrek havoc on your love life. Best!
2006-12-03 14:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by jandracu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In every relationship that goes on for a while, the sex does come (no pun intended) fewer and further between. If you want it to get back on track, you just need to need to find something that'll bring the spark back for yourself.
Try talking to your man about this, and make sure you bring it up in a way that you're concerned about your issues and not in a way that makes him think it's his fault. That is crucial.
Ideally, he'll bend over backwards (again, no pun intended) to try to help you out.
2006-12-03 15:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by randomthoughtpatterns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us just have a lower sexual drive than others. I am one who has a very very low drive... I have to make the extra effort for my hubby tho... There are ways to UP the drive... such as the games, movies, role playing, etc.... And there is therapy... I suggest you get some of the books ... I do not have any reccomendations for books, but there are some out there... good luck and God bless
2006-12-03 14:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you busy with other activities or working allot. If so you might want to slow it down. Making love is very important for a serious relationship. Maybe you just need time to relax and not worry bout other things. Maybe stress. Give it time.
2006-12-03 14:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you though just be there and enjoy the moment. Because it's mostly there's something in your head keeping you away from enjoying love making.
2006-12-03 14:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question for your doctor. It may be something physically wrong that could be easily treated.
2006-12-03 14:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by bn_4600 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same problem....but it's not me...it's him...I am raging inside horny!!! I don't know what to do....thought of dumping him..thought of cheating on him...then i thought i could never do those things...I love him....I agree, perhaps your libido is low....you need to regain it somehow...try something new and exciting.
2006-12-03 14:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with you, but maybe you could try playing sex games to liven up the bedroom. Also dirty talk is always good! Good luck!
2006-12-03 14:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by xocharlixo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no theres nothing wrong with you maybe ur jsut not fully ready yet
2006-12-03 14:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋