How do you tell her she's gotta lose weight?
2006-12-03 14:19:14 · 9 answers · asked by alpha_trolls 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't waste your time--dump her now before she blows up like a blimp.
2006-12-03 14:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring up the importance of being in shape, because being overweight can cause health problems, and even kill people the same or worse than smoking.
Work with her and find a schedule you can both enjoy.
Don't tell her she is fat, just find an activity you both can do so that she doesn't notice that you are helping her be healthy.
It's sneaky, it's just like a woman would do.
Think like a woman, to be a man.
2006-12-03 22:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by Used Trash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she looks just like all the girls you know and you think they aren't fat then maybe you are just being self consious because she wit you alot, otherwise just ask her (and very politely) to cut down on the junkfood and stuff like that, don't mention her being fat say it because you want her to stay healthy so u too can be together for a long time. It might help if you exercise and eat healthy food and all that wit her so she don't feel left out.
2006-12-03 22:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by cndrll_1613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, what do you consider "fat" 120, 130, 140, 150... none of those are fat, if you are talking like 250 + then maybe. If you really loved her SIZE DOESN'T MATTER, what would you do if she said hunny, your "bed work" isn't that good, maybe we should see a sex councler
2006-12-03 22:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jogging together ,what could be better, and don't say"honey you need to do some sport" just say that this would be so nice thing to do together ..or just spend more time in your own bed...(its the best way how to make your girlfriend fit :O)
Have a fun with doing sport!
2006-12-03 22:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by SpiritOfTheSea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... quit being so shallow. Seriously, that's the most jackass-ish thing I've heard all week.
2006-12-03 22:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can still talk to her about it. tell her what you think. just talk and express whats on your mind. its not being shallow, being overweight isnt healthy. especially if she wasnt overwieght before.
2006-12-03 22:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no if u you loved her when she was skinny then you can love her when shes not looks aren't everything. trust me if girls cared about looks most of you guys wouldn't be dating anyone
2006-12-03 22:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go to the gym with you......But if you're fat shut your mouth....
2006-12-03 22:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Steven A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋