Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

My boyfriend expects spontaneous sex at any instant he wants it including waking me up in the middle of the night.

2006-12-03 13:24:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so everyday i argue with my parents i try to get along with them but i really cant. and sometimes i'm trying to do something good to please them but then it turns out i wasnt supposed to do that or i did it wrong...how can i get along with them? any suggestions? thanks

2006-12-03 13:24:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hei, i'm getting crazy ...we are together 3years..he is all the time nice and nothing has changed except -he doesn't want me ...and i'm so worried about that.He said he loves me but somehow he doesn't feel that he wants to do something with me (only kissing and hugging).Whats that...HELP!!!!!

2006-12-03 13:24:02 · 11 answers · asked by SpiritOfTheSea 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-03 13:23:55 · 5 answers · asked by Dom 2 in Singles & Dating

To hate or actively "dislike" a person is to still care about them? Why is love/hate so indiscernable at times

Often when we hate or dislike a person, we examine their qualities very diligently in order find faults with the said person. The problem in this is that often times we find qualities that we like in this process and BAM!

2006-12-03 13:23:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been involved with my boyfriend for 4 years and the last couple of weeks Ive noticed he is up his mothers butt and constanltly kissing his ex wifes ***, they have had more contact with him in the last two weeks then I have and I live with the man, I understand he has to keep in contact with the ex due to their children no problem, when they argue he is all lovey dovey towards me and when they are getting along he treats me like ****, I also understand mom is mom but sometimes the apron string have to be cut, ( he is 31 yrs old). What should I do I feel as If Im being swept under the carpet and I hate feeling this way. Sometimes I feel he needs to be sharing the bed with his ex wife and his mom. Should I leave this situation or be calm and wait and see what happens? Im confused.

2006-12-03 13:23:24 · 3 answers · asked by onehotmama 1 in Family

2006-12-03 13:22:37 · 13 answers · asked by fancy 5 in Singles & Dating

He's clean and won't hurt you except beat your vagina up. Would you?

If he would buy you a car worth 20k for one session.
A car worth 40k for 2 sessions or
A car worth 60k for 3 sessions, would you go for the highest or no?

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2006-12-03 13:22:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 13:21:52 · 14 answers · asked by alone l 2 in Singles & Dating

a girl i like just broke up with her latest bf and i would like to go out with her but how long should i wait to ask her out? right off? a day? a week? how long???

2006-12-03 13:20:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 13:20:37 · 9 answers · asked by knightstar81 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 13:20:06 · 20 answers · asked by charles u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I (15/m) get a girl to like me, are there any tips, i do have ttalents (guitar and music) but how can i utilize them and how can i get a girl to like me??

2006-12-03 13:18:16 · 17 answers · asked by John G 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, I keep thinking about my ex-boyfriend & I feel so angry even though it's been over since 8 months ago. He was my first bf and kiss, & even though it never went past kissing (cuz I'm saving myself for marriage), I still got hurt. He made it seem like he could commit & he said all these sweet lies & he didn't mind about the no-sex thing. But after only a month he left saying "he's busy". I get angry sometimes. I know a few girls who are REALLy ugly, I mean dog-ugly & their bfs treat them so well & are committed. I'm not saying that I'm the best but lots of guys hit on me & say I'm beautiful, and yet I can't find a great guy. How can I not get angry, is there anything to help that?
I'm just really mad at the world today. One girl, the really ugly one said that her bf stayed up all night with her to help her w/ her essay & that he buys her gifts all the time. All I got was lies & heartache from my ex.

2006-12-03 13:17:01 · 11 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

Tonight is one of those times. Somebody talk to me...?

2006-12-03 13:16:57 · 17 answers · asked by Flopsy 4 in Friends

2006-12-03 13:16:35 · 12 answers · asked by charles u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A little background: I grew up poor, never meeting my bio father until I was like 19. I sought out my paternal family when I was 11 and found my grandparents who were still in town, but not my bio father whom they hadn't heard from either. My paternal grandparents are ultra conservative, affluent, white Mormans. I am ultra liberal, non-religious, hispanic and white and my fiance' is black and white. His family is very very poor and he is a truck driver and sort of a thug, well when he was younger. My grandparents will not approve, A. because he's not educated B. because he is rough around the edges. C. because he's black. D. because he has long hair and talks like where he's from. We are from the same neighborhood, I met him when I was 16 around the corner from my home. However, I went to the army, college and am now going to law school. I want to introduce him to the other side of my family, but my grandfather is very critical and judgemental. I want my fiance' to be comfortable

2006-12-03 13:16:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2006-12-03 13:15:47 · 3 answers · asked by Guy in PA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we broke up about 2 months ago....we dated for about a year and 9 months, but we broke about 6 times and got back togetehr n all that...i was his first love and he was mine.....hes has a new gf now for about 3 months...but yet he is still wearing the promise ring i gave him :S... and he has other lil things that representsme that he still carries around :O

2006-12-03 13:14:52 · 5 answers · asked by babyyy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a little cousin, she is four and I'm really suspectign child abuse.
My aunt is disabled and she's on a wheelchair, she's got two kids, agirl, 4 and a boy who's 13. They live with my grandmother and I suspect the girl is being abused, maybe her brother, but my aunt and grandma seem to ignore it, more than ignore it I think they want to believe that's notpossible although there are some signs.

Sometimes if they are alone in the same room for a couple of minutes maybe watching tv, the girl would start yelling or crying without a reason and she won't tell us what's wrong. She is generally weird, speaks very littel and always, always looks sad.

I feel like I have some responsability cause my aunt and grandma really can't cope by themselves ( economically they are fine, but I think they are not watching the children close enogh), but they won't listen either.

Is there anything I can do or should I leave them with their own family issues.

2006-12-03 13:14:48 · 28 answers · asked by nobodysfool 4 in Family

My boyfriend has two kids with another woman and sometimes its hard to deal with emotionally. This female calls every single day over and over again. Its not always about the kids, I feel like she is just making excuses to talk to him. He never puts her in her place and tells her not to call that many times. Just this past THanksgivibg his family invited her to over which was really uncomfortable for me because I didn't know she was gonna be there . The whole time there, my boyfriend did not say one word to me. When I asked him why he didn't speak to me he said it was because he was busy. I felt really stupid. After we left she called him 4 times and he kept on anwering her phone call and didn't once tell her to stop. when he gets mad at me in an argument he tells me that she has a fatter *** than me and that he doesn't want to have children with me. Should I keep him or ditch him

2006-12-03 13:14:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 13:14:30 · 11 answers · asked by charles u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 13:14:18 · 11 answers · asked by Confused kitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I as a woman think that pre-marital sex has created a lot of bad situations. When I was younger without much knowledge I thought it was okay. But I'm older now, and experienced. I see how having children out of wedlock creates broken down familes. What about women not receiving child support? Children not seeing mothers and fathers? It's not only men, sometimes women run away from the pressures of raising
children. I personally don't condone anyone not taking responsibility for their children.
If a man and woman love each other that much shoudn't they get married first? Especially with people giving oral sex, and kinkier as ever.

2006-12-03 13:14:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iv heard it more times than I can count, yeah you tight and I like you but, you white, and I only date black men, sistas whats with that?

2006-12-03 13:14:10 · 12 answers · asked by SOLO KING 4 in Singles & Dating

look at guys the same we some of look at them? say shopping for instance, i see a nice girl/women and i do sometimes wish i could sleep with them say in a closet or lift or something.. is that perverted or do other guys think it or better still women think it... If so, where do you shop? LMAO women that is!

2006-12-03 13:13:38 · 9 answers · asked by stuio 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The 19 year old looks older than 19 and the 16 year old looks about 14. Is this right?

2006-12-03 13:12:52 · 36 answers · asked by blondie007 2 in Singles & Dating

Give your guidelines.

(girls from India)

2006-12-03 13:11:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to have sex with Him, Would you? If he would add $5,000 everytime you said No, would you eventually say yes?

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2006-12-03 13:11:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There was this guy that I met through a mutual friend and we really hit it off, he was always extremely nice and funny. We talked almost every night and everything seemed to be going great until my friend asked him if he liked me and he said just as a friend. I was dissapointed but we still kept talking and hung out a few times. He invited me to a concert and just when i thought that he might have had a change in feelings the talking pretty much slowed down and now i haven't talked to him in about a month. What do you think that this means?

2006-12-03 13:10:30 · 8 answers · asked by chicadelsol 2 in Singles & Dating