a girl i like just broke up with her latest bf and i would like to go out with her but how long should i wait to ask her out? right off? a day? a week? how long???
2006-12-03 13:20:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really is not a good idea for you to ask her out right away. I mean.. you don't want to be the "rebond guy". Instead of thinking about "when is a good time to ask her out". Why not try to be her friend for now. Be there for her when she needs someone. Let her have a shoulder to cry on and comfort her. Let her get to know you better and allow her to see how nive of a person you are and then let things flow.
2006-12-03 13:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dont Ask 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You definitely shouldn't ask her out immediately. You should spend time dating and getting to know each other as friends before you ask her how she feels about being a couple. That will give you time to gauge the relationship you two have with each other and see if there is a spark. She might be hurt from her breakup but maybe you could become her knight in shining armor! Good luck.
2006-12-03 21:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by brandonscottishot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her a little and see how she feels about the break-up. You don't want to appear insensitive by asking her out right away. On the other hand, she might like to date immediately.
2006-12-03 21:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by tamara_cyan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would just let her know that i liked her. i would wait for at least 3 weeks to ask her out though
2006-12-03 21:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait a little while until you are sure they are broken up and she has had time to move on. in the meantime work on getting closer to her in little, subtle ways. dont act like ur coming on to her. when she has moved on from her bf, odds are high that she will see you instead! good luck!
2006-12-03 21:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by romantique cherie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it time dude. hang out with her and get to know her. make sure ur gonna have a good time and dont rush. i just got out of a relationship that i rushed and it was horrible. and now ive been hanging out with this girl and ive never had more fun in my life. most important thing to do is to take ur time and when its time to ask her then u will know...
2006-12-03 21:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by miltonbaseball7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can start hanging out with her now. I wouldn't expect anything serious for awhie unless her last bf wasn't that serious. Just don't fall to quickly allow her time to move on.
2006-12-03 21:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends if there serios or not if not too seriouse wait a week if they were then wait a couple weeks bgut not toon long maybe only 2 weeks
2006-12-03 21:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by Nicki L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait a couple weeks because she's still soft. Two weeks and go get her.
2006-12-03 21:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't wait do it now ... if you wait she may find someone else at least this way even if she says no it will be oout there and she can deside on her own when to go out . good luckwith you
2006-12-03 21:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋