Hei, i'm getting crazy ...we are together 3years..he is all the time nice and nothing has changed except -he doesn't want me ...and i'm so worried about that.He said he loves me but somehow he doesn't feel that he wants to do something with me (only kissing and hugging).Whats that...HELP!!!!!
2006-12-03 13:24:02 · 11 answers · asked by SpiritOfTheSea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
3 years is a long time for alot of people. I don't know your personal life, and if you are under the age of concent please disregard this answer cause you should be waiting to have sex anyway. But if you are 18 or older, after 3 years "things may be getting stale". Ya know, the same ol positions at the same ol time. I would recommend that you do something different. And just to start it off, rip off his pants and give him something to smile about. But basicly make thing feel new and exciting. And if that doesn't work, make sure he is not getting it from somewhere else. Good Luck.
2006-12-03 13:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jashuuuua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something isn't right and he needs to be honest with you about it. Love making isn't what it's all about but it's part of it and we all need attention. If he's not going to have a physical relationship any more he needs to tell you why and let you go so you can find some one to love you completely.
~Good Luck~
2006-12-03 21:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably cheating I am goin through the same dame thing except he denies it don't dump him just yet wait and sooner or later you will find the answer.If your heart tells you he is cheatin then he is .I didn't listen to my mind and heart and I know he is cheatin but I am just gonna stay with him and dump him before my 18 b-day.Hope it works out for the two of you
2006-12-03 21:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by Justina F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been in a long term relationship like that that ended (3 and a half years), I HIGHLY recommend you ask him to talk with you about it.
2006-12-03 21:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think he's scared that hes not big enough
or that he cant please you and yoll be dissapointed in you?
ORR that he doesnt want anything to change and he feels if you do go up things will change between youtoo because 3 years is a long timee
2006-12-03 21:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh oh. He wants relations but no relationship. Sorry but uh ruh, he's just using you. Be the first to dump him.
2006-12-03 21:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Never try to hang on when you're not wanted. Move on with your life.
2006-12-03 21:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he has another woman but he does not want to brake your heart. or he is not sure of what he wants but you need to prepare yourself for anything. beware girl man play lots of games HA HA HA
2006-12-03 21:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by cyresetaz69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you gained weight? Has he gained weight? Is he having problems rising to the occassion?
2006-12-03 21:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't turn him on, that's what it is....
2006-12-03 21:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋