I as a woman think that pre-marital sex has created a lot of bad situations. When I was younger without much knowledge I thought it was okay. But I'm older now, and experienced. I see how having children out of wedlock creates broken down familes. What about women not receiving child support? Children not seeing mothers and fathers? It's not only men, sometimes women run away from the pressures of raising
children. I personally don't condone anyone not taking responsibility for their children.
If a man and woman love each other that much shoudn't they get married first? Especially with people giving oral sex, and kinkier as ever.
2006-12-03 13:14:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For mature and responsible adults using birth control and protection in a monogamus relationship it is okay. For others it's not.
I did it with my husband before we were married and only because we were definitely getting married. We have been married eleven years now.
2006-12-03 13:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have an oppinion which I will give in 1 second. I want to say that I think it is unnecessary for a human being to try and impose his personal belief on another human being. If you believe that sex before marriage is a sin, it is unnecessary to try and establish some sort of doctrinal belief or law that will correspond with your personal belief. Anyway, I dont see a problem in having sex before marriage.
What IS marriage? A piece of paper? A binding contract that will save you money on your taxes? A very old ceremony that will legally unify two human beings? These are some technical points of view I guess, and marriage is considered by most couples to be a ceremoney in which two human beings, in love with each other, will have a ceremony symbolizing committment to each other for the rest of their lives.
Well unfortunetly there is an extremely HIGH divorce rate, which obviously points out that most people don't take this ceremony as seriously as other people. I believe it is like 50 to 60%, which is alot. Anyway, my oppinion is that there is not a problem having sex with someone before you have your ceremony most likely leading to a divorce.
2006-12-03 13:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you that pre-marital sex isn't reliable. that is more desirable than only a actual act - you supply part of your self away. there is an emotional attachment that is created and at the same time as/if the courting ends you should stay with that heart smash. also with each of the ailments going round it does no longer be probability-free. the purely genuine "probability-free sex" is none. that is a procedures to scary available to take a danger on your existence. Plus that is something alluring at the same time as sex is interior marriage.
2016-11-23 15:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by hazelbush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the biggest problem with pre-marital sex is the ignorant people who have sex WITHOUT using BIRTH CONTROL... With all of the diseases & crap floating around out there & they don't have brains enough to protect themselves against those or unwanted children!!!!
There are people out there having sex & illegitimate children when I wouldn't trust them to babysit my pet rock!!!!
That is what leads to broken families & all of the garbage out there. Parents are not responsible & they raise their kids to be the same way....
2006-12-03 13:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its more then ok. some people aren't cut out for marriage so would u rather be married when u have kids but have dead beat dad or be a single mother ?? i would rather b the single mother . i think this is another one of those questions where it differs from person to person. there is no right answer .
2006-12-03 13:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by ~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure it's OK, as long as they stay protected. I'm not planning to get married or have kids at any point in time, but I do have a high sex drive. I intend to get fixed as soon as I can.
2006-12-03 15:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think it ok but not when people abuse it with one night stands and not using protection and i agree with the kinky sex thats not expressing love but the oral bit i think can express love as you are giving the one u love pleasure while getting nothing outta it
2006-12-03 13:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and i as a man think that unless i want to have chilldren i am putting a hemet on my soldier every time he goes into battle. however sex without love is not as fun, but its awsom still.
2006-12-03 13:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by Fortew3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First protected sex does not lead to children. So come here babe and we can have all the protected, pre marital sex we can.
2006-12-03 13:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think it's more than okay. Have you heard of contraception? If you use it correctly you don't have to worry about having kids out of wedlock.
2006-12-03 13:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋