How can I (15/m) get a girl to like me, are there any tips, i do have ttalents (guitar and music) but how can i utilize them and how can i get a girl to like me??
2006-12-03 13:18:16 · 17 answers · asked by John G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wonderful little trick that has always worked for me. i don't know if you guys are friends or anything, but the girls i always liked when i was your age were usually in my circle of friends. go out as a group, make sure she's there, and make sure that you invite someone else that likes her as well, also make sure she doesn't like this guy or it will backfire. this may take a couple times of going out to get this done. here is what needs to happen:
1) flirt just a little bit to let her know you are interested.
2) do not cling to her, show interest in your other friends and other things as well. but be a positive influence to the group, do not be shy, and make sure that you are self-confident.
3) usually guys are stupid and blow there chances, so, give this other guy that likes her time to annoy the crap out of the girl. usually guys will be overly assertive in their efforts to get a girl to like her.
4) so, since you have flirted with her to let her know you are interested she will kind of look towards you to save her from this pestering. because girls are manipulative, they will use you guys against each other. this is your chance to turn the tables. don't be clingy, but keep up the appearances that you are interested.
5) it is essential that you make your move before you become the big brother type, or too good of friends otherwise you blew it.
6) the rest should follow.
i hope this helps, its a bit complicated, but i wasn't born with natural abilities to pick up women so i've had to have a strategy. this has worked every time there hasn't been a natural chemistry between me and someone. about forty percent of the time i was makin out with the chick by the end of the night. just make sure you time everything right so you don't miss your chance.
or if this is too involved you could just be honest with her.
2006-12-03 13:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by alex l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if there are any girls (which I'm sure there are) that have the same interests as you. Music is a great subject to start a conversation with, then ask about her interests, then take it from there. Don't be shy or too quite, or your only date will be with your guitar!
2006-12-03 21:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't. Girls either will or won't like you . You have a better chance if you are a bad boy. Girls say that they want to be treated nice. but they seem to like to be treated poorly better.
That is my experience. The girls I treat with respect and treat very nicely do not respond. The girls I don't really treat very nicely always seem to come back for more. I really do not understand it. I would rather be sweet and charming and caring. but I will lose out. sadly enough, I am not nice and I get the girls.
2006-12-03 21:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is a certain girl your intrested in, just be friendly to her and talk to her alittle. you never no she could have a crush on u and if not myabe she'll develope one. all u have to do is be nice, have a good sense of humor, and flirt alittle but not in a creepy way. U could also be talking to ur friend in the hallway while she passes by metion something about ur guitar, alot of girls are intrested in that...
2006-12-03 21:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF!!!! see if they have anything in common with you, and start up conversation....a great smile always helps too, be gentle, sensitive, talkative,
girls dont like macho-men, or even muscle men. get on their level, and let them know you like them. be friends, then ask them out.romantic men always gets the girl. girls like guitars, and music...play for them.......you will see. you may not win them all, but you will have a good chance of getting someone in the crowd. look for someone like you. have fun, be good.
2006-12-03 21:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak with confidence - project your voice. Smile. Stand up straight, chin up, chest out. Work out, take good care of yourself, eat right.
Make sure you project your confidence. Don't supplicate yourself - to the girl or to other guys. Act like you're the most important person in the room. (But don't be cocky.)
2006-12-03 21:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by will l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me the only way you can get a girl to like you is to be yourself and make sure you are not coming on to Strong but do let her know you like her and would like to get to know her better..
2006-12-03 21:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by cyresetaz69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become close with her
talk to her nd make her feel good aboout herself
compliment her
flirt..<3
show her ur talents in a unique way..
write a song for her =)
2006-12-03 21:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by dreamiinofyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could use your talents to get lots and lots of money. That would do the trick. Girls like money.
2006-12-03 21:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make a girl like you. if they dont they dont. you can try to impress her, write her a song, or sing Ryan Cambera's "True" to her. it is a very good song for that occasion. or write a romantic song for her, girls like that, believe me, i know i would. remember, be yourself, dont turn into a ken doll, girls hate that.
2006-12-03 21:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋