baby momma?

Question

My boyfriend has two kids with another woman and sometimes its hard to deal with emotionally. This female calls every single day over and over again. Its not always about the kids, I feel like she is just making excuses to talk to him. He never puts her in her place and tells her not to call that many times. Just this past THanksgivibg his family invited her to over which was really uncomfortable for me because I didn't know she was gonna be there . The whole time there, my boyfriend did not say one word to me. When I asked him why he didn't speak to me he said it was because he was busy. I felt really stupid. After we left she called him 4 times and he kept on anwering her phone call and didn't once tell her to stop. when he gets mad at me in an argument he tells me that she has a fatter *** than me and that he doesn't want to have children with me. Should I keep him or ditch him

Answer 1

Consider the fact if he's worth all that you will go through? I personally don't think any man is worth all the drama. From what you say this female has a piece of his heart and she knows it. She can only go as far as he lets her, so to me he enjoys the drama just as well.

I can understand the fact of her coming around on the Holidays. That's totally exceptable. They share children together and he made them, and needs to be there for his children. But calling 8 and 10 times a day is riduculous, clearly she wants so much more from him...The kids are not giving her that much trouble..If so she needs to relax

But he felt uncomfortable as well on the Holidays. I would question the fact that he didn't try to entertain you on the Holidays. Where was his mind at? I would not be the object of their love games if I were you. You need to tell him he has to make some choices and guickly give him some MAJOR ULTIMATUMS

You respect his children's mother, but will not be second in an intimate relationship with him. You shouldn't let him throw her name up in arguments or compare you to her. That's a NO NO! You should consider having children with him, it's already drama with the other baby's MAMA....with you having children would be WORLD WAR 3.

Give him ulitimatums,,if he can't hold to them...show him the door...You are a single woman and surely won't have any promblems catching another man. I would not be a part of his drama...That's a NO!NO!

Answer 2

You should get rid of him. Especially if he is comparing you to her in a way to put you down. That in itself speaks a lot for what may be going on. It doesn't sound like they are done with their relationship. I think the very least you should do is confront him about how you feel and what makes you feel uncomfortable. If he is not respectful of your feelings then dump him. But I think you should dump him anyway. From what you have described if you dump him you are going to be saving yourself a lot of hurt that you knew was coming anyway. Does that make sense? I wish you the best.

Answer 3

he's disrespectful and full of ****. ditch his baby making @ss and move on. if he says those things to you he doesnt love you. sounds like hes looking for a reason for you to break up with him. this is it. good luck sweetie.

Answer 4

do you really need to ask? hon. get up off the pc walk over get dressed and grab what ever you can carry and walk out the door.

Answer 5

ditch him now, hes just using you to get the added attention from her. they will more than likely get back together, so run now. he obviosly doesnt care about how you feel

Answer 6

DITCH
it sounds like he is involved with her still and he might be cheating.

Answer 7

ditch him he is a loser