Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

okay so heres my situation, i have known this girl for years now (im a senior in high school) and ever since we met we have always had chemistry together, were always flirting back and forth with each other and can always talk about anything. during sopmore year, i was about to ask her out, but never made a move and she went off with another guy, now during our senior year.. were startinhg to flirt again ( she stil has a bf) such as shes always in my face when were talking, always calling out my name when she sees me in the halls, and everytime she sees me she runs up and initiates the conversation, she makes the extra effort to walk with me in the direction that i go and whenever we hang out (in groups) she always texts me after asking me if i had a good time. also her feet always point towards me when we talk and other things. now heres my question... shes still with her bf and im inlove with her... what do i do?

2006-12-03 13:37:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy n every1 says he likes me cuz he teases me n he acts diff around me hes kinda like an elementary bully but he flirts w/ a lot of girls n it kinda makes me sad cuz he doesnt do tat w/ me but he teases me a lot n im like da only girl he teases so does it mean tat he likes me or does he not and y or y not?

2006-12-03 13:37:08 · 1 answers · asked by karen k 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex husband commited suicide last Fri the 24th.Our girls are 25 19 and 17.I need some advise on how to help them? And also what I need to do now. If anybody has been through this please I need some guidence on everything from helping them to our financial now that we will not get any child support etc. Thank you for any help.

2006-12-03 13:36:18 · 20 answers · asked by age2purrfection 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months. He hasn't said the " L" word, but he says that he is an actions speak louder than words type of person. He asked me to come to his parents' house for Christmas last week. I have met them before and the rest of this family members and we all get along really well, so I am looking forward to it. What does this mean though? Does it mean he's serious and maybe considering me to be marriage material? Or does he just want to have some company since all of his siblings are married and have children of their own?

2006-12-03 13:36:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when my bf and i have sex he always want to have it in position where we face each other and every so often he stops his thrusting and juts stares in my eyes for a while asked am i ok when i say yes he kisses me and carries on

does anyone know why he does this and does anyone else do it?

2006-12-03 13:35:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 13:35:10 · 7 answers · asked by arf_rawmeat 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello everyone, i just moved to a new city about 6 months ago. met a man that is 33 and we have been "dating" for about 4 months now. He doesnt have any kids and he kept talking about how much he wanted to become a father. I have to admit that i let him attempt..and now i am about 6 weeks pregnant. He has been ignoring me for almost a week now. I went to his apartment, he has waved me off and wont answer the door or wont return my calls. I have scheduled for an abortion due to LOTS OF uneasy feelings about this "relationship" gone bad. He is a contract worker and makes money under that table so it would be hard for me to file and get child support. MOney, no family, and no support has led me to the decesion to get the abortion. Talk about stressed. Please help.

2006-12-03 13:34:55 · 16 answers · asked by kk k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom told this guy in her class(he is 16) (i am 14) that i would go out with him this fri. and 2 the dances at my and his school i mean he isnt ugley i just feel uncufterble because 1. i have a bf already 2. i dont no him that well 3.me and my bf already have planes help!!!!!!

2006-12-03 13:34:37 · 14 answers · asked by Shelby A 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been arguing a lot lately. We have two small children (both under the age of 3). I just found out that he changed the locks to the home we are currently renting. Is he legally allowed to do that? I'm staying with my mother tonight and have no way to get into my own home. Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.

2006-12-03 13:34:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend off and on for two years now. We have had a lot of problems througout our relationship, but things are finally starting to go well...Except now he's on this kick where he says I "bug him". If I call him and he doesn't answer me *all day*, and then I call him back, or text him he'll start declining the calls and flat out ignoring him because he says I am "bugging him". Its not like I mean to do it, but I think its wrong to ignore your girlfriend. Anyway...some of my friends think that this is how abusive relationships start out because whenever I "bug him" he'll ignore me, and completly treat me like crap, and then he'll apologize and say he'll never do it again...then a few weeks later we're back to the same problem. Am I really just bugging him, and need to stop? What do you guys think? And please no sarcastic answers...

2006-12-03 13:34:32 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem and dont know what I should do. I have been married for almost 4 years and have three stepchildren and a daughter of my own. My husbands ex girlfriend (the one he has three kids by) is just now getting out of prison next month. I have been taking care of all four children and even my stepchildren call me mom because their mom has not seen them in about 3 and a half years. She walked out on them and chose drugs and prostitution over three beautiful children. She has been in prison for almost 2 years, even before she did not care about them. I was friends with her and my husband now for 8 years total (before we got married) and she has always been a drug addict. She says that she has changed. IS IT WRONG TO SAY SHE CAN NOT SEE HER CHILDREN UNTIL SHE PROVED THAT SHE HAS CHANGED BY TAKING US TO COURT? I do not think it is but I feel bad for keeping her away from her children. But her kids have been hurt too much and I do not want to see that again.

2006-12-03 13:33:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He passed away suddenly (died on the spot) in a terrible car accident a few wks ago. I am the last to see & tok to him that night and we could not even manage to recognise him as he was being burnt to death. I am feeling sad cause the way he died and felt v lost lately. Just cant seem to move on. Can anyone nice enough to share your similar encounters with me?? And how to move on??

2006-12-03 13:33:36 · 10 answers · asked by Tulip P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

have light skin colour? Are Asians & Blacks have a complex about their race , looks & colour & trying to change it by dating whites? My co-worker is a very dark black skin with African features. I happen to think she is pretty the way she is, but she tells me that she can't get a date with a black man cuz they all want a white girl or a black with a light skin colour.The same with a Korean friend of mine that she only wants to date white men. Has the world gone mad & people are more racist against their own race ???

2006-12-03 13:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and three guys offered to give you a ride home. Which one of the three would you choose to give you a ride. The one driving an 84' toyota corolla, the one driving a 96 GMC Van, or the one driving a 07' Lamburghini Diablo?

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2006-12-03 13:31:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I pursue her?

2006-12-03 13:31:32 · 16 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 13:31:30 · 9 answers · asked by lover girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a serious relationship and someone faithfula nd trustworthy. I don't wanna waste time on playboys, but how can I tel whether he is serious or not?

2006-12-03 13:31:11 · 10 answers · asked by anne 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 yrs. old and there's this girl on JDate.com who I spoke with on the phone last week. We spoke about 30 minutes or so. It was an ok conversation. Nothing great and I kind of thought she was a bit annoying sounding. Also, she kind of seemed a bit high-minded being she's a teacher and sounds like she thinks she knows it all. She was talking about how she doesn't get along with the other teachers and all this other stuff. Still, we agreed we would talk once again to make up where and when we'd meet this Tuesday. I really don't think I want to go out with her after all but I feel a person can be different in person. So, should I give her a chance or forget about it? Incidentally, she mentioned first before we talked that she wanted to meet but I sensed when I brought it up at the end of the conversation she maybe wasn't too thrilled. Of course, I don't really know her so maybe I was wrong. Do you think I should still call her or just forget it?

2006-12-03 13:30:28 · 7 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1 in Singles & Dating

what do i say????? i dunno that he has one on me, and i rilly wanna ask him out. me n him have alot in common?

2006-12-03 13:29:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 13:28:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

but he flirts with my best friend when I'm around. Is behavior always changes too, like he begins to be bossy and a total jerk. What should I do? He's near me whenever I move.......with flirting near him. Why is he doing this? After all, he broke up with me and I figured that he would be over it......HELP!!!!!!!

2006-12-03 13:28:14 · 8 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

She is an habitual liar and is seeing a shrink and a psychologist. She looks hot but is actually a cold fish and has sex only because I want it.

2006-12-03 13:27:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not exactly sure how to explain this, but I don't really have anyone I look up to. How should I go about finding someone?

2006-12-03 13:26:54 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

kk so alot of people lie when they ask stuff in here but im serious and i cant tell anyone that i think my boyfriend might be gay bc its kinda weird, who am i going to tell my youth pastors?? mom?? bestfriend- who might i mention is like mega sexually advanced and has all the boys drooling over her?? i dont know what to do. so the reason i think he is is bc he barely does anything sexual, and im not ugly im pretty im not like goddess pretty but im pretty, anywaysiv only had 2 serious relationships in my life the first was with my last ex, and he moved really fast, like we would always end up making out and such, and he clearly really liked me in a sexual way. well my boy and i hav been going out for a month and we have barely madeout, and i mean like non at all, and im a very flirty person, and a very huggable person and it dosent seem like hes attracted to me, and i dont understand it bc he persued me. he worked hard for it but sometimes i think he did it to show off to his guy friend

2006-12-03 13:26:41 · 11 answers · asked by zdfxbnk 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I both act and think like we are a couple. We kiss, hug, sleep together, say i love you, etc...But she tells me we are not together or we are not labeled as "together" or "boyfriend and girlfriend". She tells me she doesnt want to be hurt and fall into that trap because she believes i will hurt her again. Why does she act this way though?

2006-12-03 13:26:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it possible for girls to get horney?


serously just wondering

2006-12-03 13:26:06 · 15 answers · asked by CrippledFingerz 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom friend had passed away and now she want to become a hoochie mama. What do ya'll people think?

2006-12-03 13:26:00 · 2 answers · asked by Kidd F 1 in Family

there is a guy and i kno he likes me cause he has asked me out but i prefere them to ask out theme selves and he did it through some one. hjow do i tell him to ask me with out accually telling him? if that makes any sense.

2006-12-03 13:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by vball_star36 1 in Singles & Dating

I havent donne anything but she says that phone numbers she found arround (she believes are from dates or social mettings) , she think that after 11 months we have being together, that I am looking for something else out there... and I keep telling her that I am in love with her... but she is unsecure. I am not doing anything wrong... and I even swear to god that is true.

2006-12-03 13:24:56 · 5 answers · asked by kkimlady 1 in Singles & Dating

I'VE BEEN READING THIS BOOK CALLED "What Men Don't Want Women to Know" and the conclusion is MEN ARE PIGS!!!!! They lie and cheat their way through everything!!!! A man will cheat on his wife or girlfriend without a second thought if the situation arises! And then he and his friends will lie about it until the day they die!!!!!!!! They pretend or think they like you until they C U M, then you annoy him and they want you gone until they get horny again! And if you aren't available, they'll find the nearest available girl who is willing to give it to him! And no they don't ever feel guilty!!!!!! Why are you men like this????? God I never want to have sex with another man again! I wish I was a lesbian!!!!!

2006-12-03 13:24:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating