have light skin colour? Are Asians & Blacks have a complex about their race , looks & colour & trying to change it by dating whites? My co-worker is a very dark black skin with African features. I happen to think she is pretty the way she is, but she tells me that she can't get a date with a black man cuz they all want a white girl or a black with a light skin colour.The same with a Korean friend of mine that she only wants to date white men. Has the world gone mad & people are more racist against their own race ???
2006-12-03 13:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see more Asian women with White men, than the other way around. I also see more Black men with White women, than the other way around. Not sure why?
2006-12-03 13:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie4u 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
People generally want the forbidden. I've seen on the Tyra Banks show where Asian women had "pre-formed" ideas that Asian men were nerds, and the only career they wanted was as an engineer.
I've also seen Black men who dated the white girls. And in the back of my mind I do think "what is up with that?" I've even wondered about very well established men who dated white women. And it depends on the man, I've seen some men who prefer darker skinned women. I am a dark skinned woman. My cousin brought up the fact that most of the men I have dated have been light skinned. Now that's something I had not even noticed until she brought it up.
If you date someone because you're genuinely in love with that person, there's nothing wrong with that. But if you have self hatred then there's a big big promblem with that.
People do like the forbidden. That's a proven fact. Even women overseas generally have relationships with soilders, black, white, red,....That's a proven fact. The way I sum it up is people are attracted to the forbidden.
2006-12-03 13:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, duh! Racism is what this country was built on. Divide and conquer was instilled in the African slaves psyche during slavery times. Lighter colored slaves were made to feel prettier and give more privileges than the darker colored ones. Asians were made to feel the more "Westernized" they were the prettier they were. Today, that idea is still being perpetuated that the closer you are to white the better. You see it on TV, magazines and all kinds of video media. Color prejudices within ones race is a unfortunate, common ongoing problem that's not going away anytime soon.
2006-12-03 13:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be honest with you. Here are some reasons:
The vagina of the female in a given race can vary from race to race. The vagina of a black female, for example, is larger than the vagina of a white female(generally). Women of the oriental races have smaller vaginas than most women. Some men with normal sized penis' might find alot more please with a female of chinese descendance, since her body will be NATURALLY built alot tighter and smaller than a black womans.
That is one reason. Another reason is along the same lines. Women of asian descendance, both male and female, tend to be a bit smaller than your average American. Generally, American women(especially caucasion and black) tend to be quite large, actually. The level of overweight and obese people in America, is also higher than it ever has been before. There is not really an overweight issue with chinese women, they are mostly pretty small, thin, and beautiful.
Alot of men(not all), prefer a women to be fairly thin, and feminine. I personally do not like to feel intimidated by a female sexually, and with a tall fatter chic, I cant help but feel a bit under par. That is JUST ME, although the reasoning for most men dating outside of their culture is pretty much along the same lines.
I also know that it is sexy when a female speaks to you in an accent.
2006-12-03 13:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sir 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋
Probaly people r racies cause alot of the time my friends that r white always say look at that white gurl or my friends that r black say that white gurl to but wat my opino is that black guys go wit white gurls.
2006-12-03 13:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Xiomy W 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Haha, I dont know. I'm white and asian and I olny like those 2 types of people.
maby ur right
2006-12-03 13:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's preference.
2006-12-03 13:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by webstoragea1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im not racist against my race i just prefer white guys even though im asian
2006-12-03 13:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by angelpinkgal 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋