My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months. He hasn't said the " L" word, but he says that he is an actions speak louder than words type of person. He asked me to come to his parents' house for Christmas last week. I have met them before and the rest of this family members and we all get along really well, so I am looking forward to it. What does this mean though? Does it mean he's serious and maybe considering me to be marriage material? Or does he just want to have some company since all of his siblings are married and have children of their own?
2006-12-03 13:36:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i think its for the company and he must like to spend time with you.
what's you guys age though?
it might be because he wants to get into a more serious relationship with you, be aware of it.
2006-12-03 13:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by DonGiovanni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relationship is meaningful enough that he wants you to spend time with his family in an intimate setting which is important but you bring up a good point. if he hasn't said i love you yet, then its too early to ponder marriage proposals. he sounds like he's being cautious and you should be happy he's a guy who takes commitments so seriously. that means you will feel all the more confident about his feelings when he decides to profess them to you. if you're serious about this guy take his advice and show it through action. maybe he wants to be sure your both truly compatible and supportive of each other before sealing it with an i love you.
2006-12-03 21:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by cami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means that he likes you enough to be around his family. That is all. Doesnt mean anything else. I have been invited to family functions and by the next family function wasnt there. It doesnt mean he loves you or wants to marry you. Just means that he thinks you are presentable enough for the folks. Maybe to bring his girlfriend home for the holidays is comforting to him since his siblings all have families. It wont make him feel awkward.
2006-12-03 21:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by texaslady78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not jump the gun and say that he wants to marry you. But, he must definitely like you alot to invite you to his families christmas. Maybe he just likes your company and wants to share the holiday with you. I would definitely take this action as a compliment to your relationship with him, but I wouldn't consider it a marriage proposal. I hope this helps.
2006-12-03 21:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by Berg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a good sign , but Christmas is for friends and family to get together. Don't get your hopes up.
Usually a guy and girl talk about love, marriage and family when it gets serious.
2006-12-03 21:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by LORI H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose to think that he thinks highly of you. It's certainly a possibility that he thinks you're "marriage material", but don't get your hopes up too high.
Enjoy the visit. By the way, have you used the "L" word on him? Maybe he's waiting for a cue from you.
2006-12-03 21:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by DavidNH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into his invitation. It just means that he feels comfortable enough to have you spend time with him and his family. Just have fun.
2006-12-03 21:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy.It doesn't necessarily mean marriage, but you know he really likes you if he wants you to meet the family.
2006-12-03 21:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by Shanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you kind of answered your own question. it means he is serious, he likes you a lot. hey who knows there might even be a ring on the way.
2006-12-03 21:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wanna marry ya. Or he just wants to introduce you to one of his close friends. But think about marraige...
2006-12-03 21:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋