I havent donne anything but she says that phone numbers she found arround (she believes are from dates or social mettings) , she think that after 11 months we have being together, that I am looking for something else out there... and I keep telling her that I am in love with her... but she is unsecure. I am not doing anything wrong... and I even swear to god that is true.
2006-12-03 13:24:56 · 5 answers · asked by kkimlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can try to talk to her. Most girls who have been cheated on in the past are insecure. You can begin to lead an more openned life, like introduce her to those people with numbers that she founds on your phone. Or, just talk to her more about what you are doing everyday. You don't have to give out every details, but just to make her feel like she knows that you care about her, and you are trying to be open with her.
Secondly, you may also have to talk to her about her past, whether she has been cheated on before. It willl help her heal her wounds, and also allow you both a chance to make this work. If she is so insecure, it will only hurt your relationship, so you must try to really talk to her. She needs to heal, and learn to trust you again. Good luck to you both!
2006-12-03 13:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by madaline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is very insecure. Do you want to spend so much time and effort defending your trustworthiness? If she can't or doesn't want to trust you, you don't need this problem. It's like an anchor on a relationship. Tell her to get her act together or move on.
2006-12-03 21:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by The professor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt trust you even though she has said i love you, then its not love. If she doesnt believe what you say and you are telling her the truth (make sure your giving her the complete truth and make sure you word it correctly) then she isnt worth it. After 11 days i wouldnt believe my guy, but 11 months, i would trust what he says.
2006-12-03 21:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her to call the #s tell her if she dont stop it may be time to break up because you have no trust mosl likely it will scare her into seeing she could lose you and she'll back off. try accusing her ans see how she like lt.most of the time when someone accuses you of things it's only because their doing it themselfs.
2006-12-03 21:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely cryz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey she got hurt in the past, just reasure her how much you love her and care about her! :)
2006-12-03 21:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by bria<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋