OK, I keep thinking about my ex-boyfriend & I feel so angry even though it's been over since 8 months ago. He was my first bf and kiss, & even though it never went past kissing (cuz I'm saving myself for marriage), I still got hurt. He made it seem like he could commit & he said all these sweet lies & he didn't mind about the no-sex thing. But after only a month he left saying "he's busy". I get angry sometimes. I know a few girls who are REALLy ugly, I mean dog-ugly & their bfs treat them so well & are committed. I'm not saying that I'm the best but lots of guys hit on me & say I'm beautiful, and yet I can't find a great guy. How can I not get angry, is there anything to help that?
I'm just really mad at the world today. One girl, the really ugly one said that her bf stayed up all night with her to help her w/ her essay & that he buys her gifts all the time. All I got was lies & heartache from my ex.
2006-12-03 14:37:53 · 16 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I treated my ex VERY well. I was so sweet, caring and thoughtful. I can't believe most think I must have been bad if he left, he left cuz I didn't put out, he's the bad person not me!
2006-12-03 14:47:01 · update #1
ok hun calm down first off ok. how old are you? I mean some guys are like that and if he did that to you then he didn't care about you like he said he did. If it's been 8 months let it go and move on, I know that it will be hard and all seeing he was your first boyfriend and kiss but obviously he wasn't the one for you. You have many more years ahead of you and there will be many more guys out there for you. You will find a guy out there that will treat you how you deserve to be treated just give it time love. Try not to wear your heart on your sleeve and be tough you will get through it I know it will be hard but you can make it through. Don't dwell on the past look forward to the future. You maybe dwelling on the relationship you had or on him and how he hurt you and not realize there is someone in frount of you that wants to be with you and treat you well and give you all those things you want and need from a guy. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 1/2 years now and engaged for 2 and when we started dating niether one of us was looking for a relationship it just happened. Maybe thats what needs to happen with you. Just stop thinking about how he hurt you and get out there and make new guy friends and let nature run its course. You will have more heartbreaks and pain in your life but you will find the one you are meant to be with sooner than later. I hope I helped you out some with your problem and good luck.
2006-12-03 14:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Brooklyn Mae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you think they are ugly, maybe their boyfriends dont think so.
They can also be much more interested in them for momentary things, like for example, for a night at a motel, maybe a good car or a way to study to get best degrees, than other things.
By other side ther boyfriends can valorize other qualities, like empathy, inteligence and friendship.
But what I really think is that you choose a wrong boy.
Try again and forget him.
If you take a look arround you you will see that everybody
has a similar relationship like yours.
That ugly girls can be now walking to the same situation you are experiencing.
Ugly or even beautifull people, are not free of experience deception in love.
2006-12-03 22:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Carlos M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get urself busy or go out,have fun with the girls.why do u even think of him anyway if he doesnt treat u like u wanted him to treat u.it will pass.i'm guessig ur a teenager.do something that u enjoy.stop comparing ur ex with ur friends bfs.it won't do u any good.but before blaming on the other person(ex-bf or future bf),look in the mirror, r u treating him well? goodluck
2006-12-03 22:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by CinnamonCity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks arent everything!!
Most guys dont like the shallow type. Just be yourself and you will eventually meet someone who will respect you and be willing to stay up all night and help you with an essay or just talk.
If you want him back I suggest you try talking to your ex...cause most likely he wont talk to you. Alot of guys don't like talking to exs.
2006-12-03 22:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell are you jealous? You want to know why those "dog ugly" girls keep there men? Because they aren't so worried about being cute and hot, and are worried about their men and making them feel like men. So, once you stop being so d amn vain, maybe you'll get a good man....
2006-12-03 22:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by Pandora 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't really know your situation but it seems like you may be a little shallow, possibly he got tired with that... sex isn't everything but he might have been a little scared that the fact you are waiting for mariage that he may feel like you are looking for mariage.. i don't really know, i'm going through a break up of 6 yrs, so 8 months, isn't an eternity.. there are nice people out there, but finding the gem isn't always ez.. don't give up
2006-12-03 22:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by dancindork17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't buy love.there is no such thing as beautiful and ugly people.you may seem to be pretty to some poeple, and you may not be for some.it depends on the individual.you inner beauty is the strength,that's what makes someone special and beautiful. not merely by their looks.maybe, you did not treat your ex they way he wanted..i can be wrong.but i'm sure you know best..about your relationship...what's missing..and what's not
2006-12-03 22:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldn't just jump into a relationship because that is what happens if you do. You should observe the boy that either likes you or that you like before you jump into a relationship. By doing this it will let you know what to exspect in your relationship.
2006-12-03 22:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by shabalabadingdong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry the same thing happen to me with my ex girl. but just forget about him. God has one for all of us im sure youll find a better guy. hope this advice was helpful stay up girl
2006-12-03 22:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by prd_mexican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an EX for a reason. Don't hang on to him. This is making it so that you can't open your heart out to another. Aren't you GLAD that you didn't have sex with him? Imagine how horrible you would feel now?
2006-12-03 22:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by WDS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋