Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

My significant other became critically ill and was in the hospital in SICU for over a month in a coma. We dated for 3 yrs. when he was hospitalized, I stacked his mail on the table from his box outside, watered his plants, fed his dogs and went to see him 3-4 times weekly. I locked his paycheck up in his safe. His adult kids went crazy and locked me out of his house, let his plants die, went thru all of his belongings and went crazy trying to find his paycheck which was locked up in his house. They treated me like crap. When it was time to come home, I picked him up, broke into his house from a back door so we could get in and took care of him. I helped him with his newly diagnosed diabetes. Now he treats me like I deserved it. Im a RN and work in a hospital. I am not stupid. He blames me for going thru his belongings which I did not do. His kids are sly. They have nothing to do with him unless it involves $$$$. How should I handle this? I am ashamed of his behavior.

2006-12-03 15:28:49 · 12 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

Me nd ths guy lived in the sme blck in uni hals in our 1st year (last year), and we shared a lot of banter and had lts of fun and deffinite chemistry. He is very good lookin way more thn me tho and got himself a big image as kind of 'rugby jock'. So thn he spent the rest of the whole yr banter-teasing me, like trying to pay me attention but nt wnting to step out of his 'image' thing, but i knw he lkes me as he jus stares at me alternate nights, and when he wsnt staring, he would seem to do things to spite, like go on a rmpage nd pull 3 grls in frnt of me on same night nd other similr things. Now we dnt even live tgethr, but when i'm out, I see him stare at me and smtimes even like get so frstrated and put his hed in his hnds lol! But he jus wnt mke a move. Lke also it is bcause I am vrgin so when he made crude moves lst year i ws jus nt ready to knw hw to acept evn tho wntd to. I knw we jus get on so great tho, jus dnt know wht to do with him, but totly jus love him also! lol,pls help!

2006-12-03 15:28:35 · 12 answers · asked by Saly B 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this Co-Worker and she quit working with me about a year and a half ago now just 3 day ago she saw me at Big K and has asked me out... nothing that I can remember would make her ask this but there is one block She is Mormon and I am Lutheran... What should I do?

2006-12-03 15:28:24 · 4 answers · asked by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 in Friends

There are these girls i hung out with and they kept saying something and i would ask them what they were say and they would say "NOTHING" Now they have secret about my BFF but they won't tell me and i heard them say they love doing this! PLEASE HELP!

2006-12-03 15:27:49 · 8 answers · asked by cute_so_shoot 1 in Friends

ok so i have liked this girl for a really long time. we were together for about a month then it seems like she just lost interest but i still like her so much, she said it seemed like i didnt like her, but i did everything to show that i liked her. so i backed off for a bit and tried to act like i was ok with it but I cant take it anymore i like her to much i want to tell her how much i like her but i dont know how to say it and how i should do it should i say it straight forward or by a text or what? . can you please help me

2006-12-03 15:27:23 · 9 answers · asked by Baseball18Cf 1 in Singles & Dating

there are these two boys, i like them both right so i was going with the both of them until one found out about it and now they want me to pick who should i pick the one that buys me stuff or the one that plays around alot?

2006-12-03 15:27:15 · 10 answers · asked by chris14 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend had sex wed. night and once he ejaculated not in me. He inserted himself right back in me. But i was supposed to start my period sat or sun but i haven't yet. Could i be preg. This month was hard to tell because my last period in november was not a regulat period. i stayed on for 3 days and it was not as heavy as any other. i do keep up with my cycle it's just that last month cycle was wierd i need answers please. And i have been having some cramping in my back but no where else.

2006-12-03 15:27:04 · 9 answers · asked by DENISE 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i dont know wat to do do i need to loose weight or wat i way like 140 is that bad

2006-12-03 15:26:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like them but im not sure if its appropriate to wear them cause they seem kind of risque to me..

2006-12-03 15:24:41 · 15 answers · asked by between_the_sheets74 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I happen to notice recently many girls throwing their eyes at me at school.Duh where were they the whole semester? Do girls need to be with a guy during christmas...I mean is there some kind of urge during this time of a year?

2006-12-03 15:24:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 15:24:09 · 16 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 15:24:08 · 7 answers · asked by deo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, i liked this boy named cody. we sat next to each other in band. we would tell each other everything. and he knew that i liked him. we were really good friends. but then after my ex friend hope started hanging out with lynn who was his friend. he started treating me different. and then he tells me that im mean. and this was while me and hope were in a fight. ya me and cody are friends again, but i think that hope was saying lies about me to him. should i just forget about likeing him and just be friends or keep trying. cause everyone says that we are perfect for each other.

2006-12-03 15:23:39 · 4 answers · asked by ~ChInChILaLvR~ 2 in Friends

i feel like i want to be with him..and i don't feel the same..i feel depress and cry every night..what should i do...

2006-12-03 15:23:36 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley Connor 1 in Family

I like this guy, and i think he likes me back. But, now i dont know what to do. should i talk to him or let him talk to me first?

2006-12-03 15:23:21 · 4 answers · asked by crowsarecomingforus_letemlive 1 in Singles & Dating

I've kinda got the feeling she does. She's in three of my classes, but I see her in the hallways often too. A lot of times she'll say hey as I pass by, but that doesn't really scream flirting at me. Otherwise, in class there's a bit more. The girls at my school tend to take a lot of pictures of eachother and of the teachers but not normally the guys I hang out with, yet I overheard her asking her friend to take a picture of me(not sure if she was even trying to be secretive) and she's also taken some of me by surprise too.

From time to time she'll make some sort of physical contact (like hitting me [gently] with her water bottle). She also often tells me to smile all the time and laughs if I do. Then again, she also seems indifferent to me at other times. She doesn't always acknowledge me when I pass in the hall. She doesn't excessively ask about my life or anything like that. That's what makes me doubtful. I don't know if I like her, but I'd like to know if she does me.

2006-12-03 15:22:13 · 13 answers · asked by Kraaa 1 in Singles & Dating

we split up over three yrs ago, he had a contract drawn up and signed by a judge to pay, he paid for a month then never again. I never pressured him because I used to work and make decent money, I recently had another baby with my new husband and I wanted to stay home, so I mentioned it to him about paying me something and he asked if my husband could get a second job! lol

2006-12-03 15:21:24 · 17 answers · asked by Roslyn L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How should I hint at my boyfriend that I wouldn't mind a proposal without pressuring him into it? We already know we can't live (happily) without each other and we can't stand to be apart for very long. He has mentioned before that he thought he was too young to get married, but he's 20 and I'm 21 years old. It doesn't make sense. If he already knows what he wants, why doesn't he go ahead and do something about?

2006-12-03 15:21:18 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda 3 in Singles & Dating

I am going through hard times right now I just want for people to pray for me,and my family. My step grandfather had died, and my uncle is also dieing. He is on life support, and they say its going to come to a time that my family going to decide to tell the doctor to unplug it. And another thing is that my girlfriend is pregnant and shse treats, and cuss at me like I am a nobody. I do so much for her and she don't appreciate it. I told her I love her,and that the baby her and I going to be a happy family, she is not trying to here it. I love everybody and there is no hate in my bones, and I love you. Please pray for me? Thank you.

2006-12-03 15:20:47 · 6 answers · asked by Troy T 1 in Family

ME and my boyfriend have been togther for a while and he is a schhol ganster e are oly in middle school he isnt bad but im not quite sure what to get him foor his birthday and for christmas

2006-12-03 15:19:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please just say which i want to find out what the majority of guys and girls think. girls tell me about what weight of guy you like. guys tell me what weight of girl you like.

2006-12-03 15:19:33 · 9 answers · asked by happyinblue 3 in Singles & Dating

I went to a concert tonight with my best friend. We are both pregnant. I left my boyfriend because he tried to hit me. I saw him at the concert. When I saw him I thought I was going to puke!!! I don't know if it was because I'm scared of him or because I thought he was there with someone else. I don't want him back, I know that but I don't know why seeing him made me so upset. I've already been seeing this other guy who has always cared alot for me. So do you think I was jealous he was there? He has never actually hit me just thrown things and raised his hand like wanted to.

Also I'm going to keep the baby and I'm 21. I just didn't want anyone to think otherwise. Oh and the guy I'm seeing now is very protective of me and might get mad (not at me, at my ex) if he knew he was at the concert and it bothered me that bad, Should I tell him he was there?

So may two questions are; what made me so upset about seeing my ex, and should I tell the "new guy" it bothered me?

2006-12-03 15:18:58 · 4 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this woman at my gym who keeps trying to flirt with me,even though we haven't been on good terms.(i was an *** to her when i didn't know her)However, i tried to get to know her a bit and i think the tension was eased a bit.The next week when i saw her she flashed a big smile at me in a flirtatious way.However,she has always denied to her friends that she liked me,and wouldn't go public with it.I get a feeling that she likes me,because the last time around she was always in may face,however she didn't ask any questions about me which leads me to believe she is a tease.What could her s,mile that she gave me meant,and why is she flirting with me only around me and not around her friends?

2006-12-03 15:17:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 15:17:44 · 9 answers · asked by Starbud99 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i know this guy and he's pretty cool, i've known him for almost a year...
i want to be more than just friends but he doesn't realize whats in front of his face. i've helped him through a couple of girlfriends...and i want him to realize that i like him. it seems like he likes the girls who he has to chase...

how do i get him to "chase" me?!
or...
how do i get him to become more than just friends?

[do not answer "just tell him"] please!

2006-12-03 15:17:22 · 5 answers · asked by jsmonkey013 2 in Singles & Dating

ok latley when i am hanging out with my boyfriend he seems like he is bored out of his mind and he does not talk he holds my hand but faces the oppiste way of me and i know somthing is wrong but he will not tell me i have asked him and he says nothing is wrong but i know somthings up and he is taking it out on me like he tells me somthing i am doing is bothering him and then when i try to work on it he goes off and says he does not care about it anymore and he just seems liek he is in a bad mood any ideas on how i can cheer him up

2006-12-03 15:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by hotstuff98022 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 15:16:55 · 15 answers · asked by joelenebrowneyes 1 in Weddings

if u are head over heels for this guy but their is another girl and he tells u that he likes u more but he walks her to class and talks to her all the time and he says that he loves u but he says that he likes her more and he is confused but he says that he wants things to happen when we are out of high school and now u are real confused please help me

2006-12-03 15:16:47 · 5 answers · asked by cutiepie102 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 15:16:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I checked all the phone bills even hers but I think there talking somehow. I texted my friend the other night and asked her if she wanted me to visit her at work which she always ask me to do. However she had no idea I was in the parking lot so I said Im on my way and when I got there she was like "their moving me to a different floor I will call you when I'm done" this is after I said come and get me, she works at a hospital. So I thought that was weird and left because I live literally around the corner from the hospital and when turning on my street she passed me, so I text her and said I just seen you pass me I guess she thought because it was dark I wouldn't have noticed but I looked at the license plate which is personalized. She swore it wasn't her but she knew before I went to see her I was at a co-workers house visitng. There keeping in contact somehow and it's not through phone, or email at least I don't think so. What should I do how can I find out for sure

2006-12-03 15:16:45 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Marriage & Divorce