ok latley when i am hanging out with my boyfriend he seems like he is bored out of his mind and he does not talk he holds my hand but faces the oppiste way of me and i know somthing is wrong but he will not tell me i have asked him and he says nothing is wrong but i know somthings up and he is taking it out on me like he tells me somthing i am doing is bothering him and then when i try to work on it he goes off and says he does not care about it anymore and he just seems liek he is in a bad mood any ideas on how i can cheer him up
2006-12-03 15:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by hotstuff98022 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
treat him to a new actvity that you have never been done before... go swimming, arcade, billiards, malling, watching movie.... (boy's activities)
or if u want have time to talk about things.. maybe there are things that he wants and you don't know them yet.
2006-12-03 15:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by iosis_11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is something unseemly happening in your boyfriends life. Either it's his family, his friends or maybe it's his own life. Also I doubt it's anything wrong with your relationship, because if it had anything to do with you, than he wouldn't still hang out with you and show through his actions (holding your hand) that he still cares about you. Also I think his physical actions signify that he needs you and cares about you.
Don't take it personally that he's taking his anger out on you. Sit him down and tell him: I care about you alot and it's worrying me alot that you're in a bad mood all the time, I want to help, if theres anything I can do please let me know I'd feel greatful. Yet if he doesn't say anything, don't push him. Let him know you're there for him despite his confiding his problems in you or not. Most likely after a couple of days he will tell you. Good Lluck.
2006-12-03 23:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but it sounds like if he will tell you that something you are doing is bothering him but then says he doesn't care about it anymore is really sounds like he's trying to get you to leave him. A relationship takes work and if he's not willing to work on it then there is no sense in sticking around. Why waste your time on a dud when there are plenty other guys out there willing to treat you better?
2006-12-03 23:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting him involved in some other activity rather than just sitting around watching tv maybe go out and join something together... works everytime
2006-12-03 23:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sitting him down and talk to him even though it will seem like hes not listening he can hear you so juss talk and he'll come around and he'll open up to you........
2006-12-03 23:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off, he's trying to be the "nice-guy" and not hurt you. he doesn't sound into you honey. Let him off the hook and yourself, get it over with. break up
2006-12-03 23:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something going on.....be careful of your heart----
2006-12-03 23:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by College Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk
2006-12-03 23:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋