I went to a concert tonight with my best friend. We are both pregnant. I left my boyfriend because he tried to hit me. I saw him at the concert. When I saw him I thought I was going to puke!!! I don't know if it was because I'm scared of him or because I thought he was there with someone else. I don't want him back, I know that but I don't know why seeing him made me so upset. I've already been seeing this other guy who has always cared alot for me. So do you think I was jealous he was there? He has never actually hit me just thrown things and raised his hand like wanted to.
Also I'm going to keep the baby and I'm 21. I just didn't want anyone to think otherwise. Oh and the guy I'm seeing now is very protective of me and might get mad (not at me, at my ex) if he knew he was at the concert and it bothered me that bad, Should I tell him he was there?
So may two questions are; what made me so upset about seeing my ex, and should I tell the "new guy" it bothered me?
2006-12-03 15:18:58 · 4 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO you should not ,but tell him of your ex and what he did to you
2006-12-03 15:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Reivax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all - even though your ex should have never tried to hit you or throw stuff at you, I don't think your new b/f has the right to do anything just b/c you both happened to be at the same concert. But it is a good thing to be honest with him, so I would tell him everything.
And second, you'll probably have to answer for yourself about why you got upset. None of us know you better than you know yourself. You'll just have to think that one through. You could have been scared, you could have just had bad memories come back and it made you sick to think of them, or you could have just ate something that didn't agree with the baby, who knows but you.
2006-12-03 23:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-03 23:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by rumble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do was tell your new guy that you saw him at the concert and but say how you felt when you saw him! maybe you were so upset because you still felt angry at him or something...i dunno just a guess
2006-12-03 23:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋