Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

I been seeing this guy for a month and stayed at his place 2 nights and didnt do anything with him but kiss. I want to have sex with him but im not sure if thats all hes in for. He calls texts me everyday to see how im doing and what im doing. ...also how long would u wait (and dont give me wait till ur married crap) to keep him interested at the same time..whats to short and whats to long to wait?How do u know if he likes you or is just trying to f*ck you? hah

2006-12-03 15:45:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been together for a year and a month and i feel like im losing her alll the girls at school say im the perfect guy because of the way i look act treat my girl but yet it feels like she doesnt want me she says she loves me but how do i know for real?? i have tried everything girls describe as this cute sexy guy i do romantic things i like chick flicks im sensitive i am all round athletic im really really really funny not smart but not stupid and i do things to my girl that other gurls would kill just to have me as there bf but yet she looks like she has this whatever attitude with me what can i do?????

2006-12-03 15:45:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so wet it's not funny... It is mainly because we like to suck on tongues and lips, anyone know of any ways to reduce the wetness, or other ways of kissing we could try (Nowhere besides face, please!)

2006-12-03 15:44:32 · 5 answers · asked by Chelsea S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 15:43:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you meet a girl for the first time...what are the sweetest things you say to girls just to get her attention>>

2006-12-03 15:43:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anthony 3 in Singles & Dating

oneday i want to my chruch and after the chruch was done. this girl i was looking at after she keeps on looking at me. but noone smile does shw know i like her.and oneday i was going to chruch and she looks at me and i was to shy i look down on the ground. does she know. i want to tell her my feelings.

2006-12-03 15:42:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so here's my problem, i got married in aug to the man of my dreams,so i thought..i knew he was a recovering addict an had assumed he was clean, from what he told me and what i observed.45 minutes after our beautiful wedding,his mom goes nuts,he yells at me and her and leaves the wedding, so i leave.2 days later he get's arrested for testing dirty for illegal drugs. To make a long story short, he was in jail on our 1 month anniversary, sentenanced on our 2 month anniversary and left for treatment 2 days after our 3rd anniversary. My family, my friends have disliked him since day one, and i've stood by him. because I did see the good in him. He'll be gone until at least June, then he can come home. Does everyone deserve a 2nd chance? I mean we r married now ,this is my 2nd go around. I wanted this time to b forever. Should I give him the chance to prove to me he has changed when he get's back? Plus I have a 3yr old from a diff relationship,and he is always num 1,and will always come 1st

2006-12-03 15:42:07 · 32 answers · asked by justadream 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how can we attract others so that they become our friend?

2006-12-03 15:41:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-03 15:39:47 · 22 answers · asked by myruin 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 15:39:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do fathers tell their kids to call them if they need anything, and when the kid does, he tells them “all you do is cost me money”? WHY do fathers say nasty things to thier kids, and yet claim to 'be there' for them and love them?

2006-12-03 15:39:03 · 11 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 15:38:43 · 27 answers · asked by taknev 3 in Weddings

Was it a good experience? Is it worth the money?

2006-12-03 15:38:28 · 13 answers · asked by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 15:38:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 16, and have been single forever. everyone always has that highschool boyfriend or whatever. except me :/

i have a good personality.. and im not really ugly... but no guy ever talks to me. and the ones that do, are assholes so i never bother..

i try and be patient and wait for the right guy to come, but he never does. god i havent even kissed a guy in like a year. im not really looking for a really serious realitionship.. but at the same time i just want that summer love type thing, you know?... idk why im asking this, but i just wanted to get that off my chest.

does this happen to anyone else?.. im so scared to be single all my life, and never get married, have kids and all that. im not trying to rush, but i just keep wondering if it'll even ever happen.

2006-12-03 15:37:57 · 9 answers · asked by JESSiCA♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Question Details: if you had a girl/boy friend would you want them to have the bigger nose or you? should guys have the bigger nose in the relationship?

2006-12-03 15:37:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got married in June 02,2005 and being with my husband for all in all 3 halve years I love me and we had good times but his focus on life was a struggle for him and I felt like thur the relationship I carried a the load. He a good person to me but mind was not where I was trying to go. we both beleive in God but he didnt trust him like I did well he did some that put our marriage on the line when I really needed him to be the husband I could count on thur my illness well he made some bad decision and now I am here as a single parent trying to fix my life with help of God. Hes in jail and will soon be ship to prison for 2to 3 yrs what should I do I dont feel its right for me have to pay for something he did I deserve happiness to. I am still young and vibrant and I also know that God doesnt ordian divorce at all from a christant point of view what should I do I do know to pray first but sometimes god will send the answer from a bless person so I am all ears.

2006-12-03 15:37:26 · 11 answers · asked by talondawllms 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like so many different guys and can't seem to choose one.
And when they start liking me I don't know what to do because I am always unsure if I can get something better or not.
Any tips or ideas?

2006-12-03 15:37:14 · 9 answers · asked by Yvee 2 in Singles & Dating

Why are they so disobedient and do not want to do what they are told?

2006-12-03 15:36:23 · 20 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone have any experience with these? Good idea, Bad idea? why?

2006-12-03 15:36:14 · 6 answers · asked by -- 4 in Singles & Dating

Another reason i'm having trouble is because i've know this person for not too long but a nice amount of time. We use to hang out even though i did not want to. When she comes to my house and asks if i wanna do something with her, i say no but then i feel like a jerk. The thing is this person is really self-centered, lies, and thinks that she is the best. She thinks everyone likes her and that everyone is her friend, although, we do talk about her behind her back and when she gets off the bus, every once in a while the students will chant together saying, "S-L-U-T! What's that spell? Courtney!"...so as you can see, nobody really likes her.
~Appreciate your help,
~Desperate4Answers

2006-12-03 15:35:20 · 17 answers · asked by Desperate4Answers 1 in Friends

alright, I am 18 in the tenth grade and I decided to not let my parents down andn finish my school to have a decient life. There is this girl at my school who I have english with and talk to at lunch and known her for a good while now. Sometimes I will hug her from the back and kiss her cheek and hold her for a while. I would like to go out with her but she has a boyfriend who dropped out of school and sits at home with her mom, while i am in school and working. I just want to know how do i go about tryin to have have good sex with her because she is a beautiful gothic chick. she tells me things abou her boyfreind that are kinda bad for him( like not working, tryin to **** her in her sleep, and not tryin to get back in school and running from the law) I know she needs a good guy, and i would love to go out with her., but i am sexually active and would love to just go get a hotel one day and have great sex with her. any rational not erupt suggestions, please help i want to **** her

2006-12-03 15:34:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I keep thinking about my ex-girlfriend. And its been 2 years now since we broke up. We both have had other relationships after well we each have had one. We both new the other person in those relationships, she new mine talked to her all the time when she was around, and hers, I new him from on the bus in highschool. Now I am 22 and she is 20, and I email her all the time, and she will respond, but the thing is, I have relized I screwed up. I have known her for 8 years, she still comes to my place, talks with my fokes, and is friends with my sis. Since we have broken up like I said, I have realized the stupid **** I did to hurt her, I have grown up, matured, and am trying to start slow again, but it seems she doesnt want anything to do with me anymore. So what I am wonderin is, why does she respond to my emails, oh and she said I can call her to say whatever it is I have on my chest to her. So I did and she wasnt there, and she called me back. Now in that convo, we started off good, she had a laugh when she new it was me on the phone ( she was smiling you can tell) but by the time the convo was over, she told me she is sick of the emails and me calling her, she said we always argue, yet I kept a calm attitude because that is why we broke up, I would always get mad over small things. That is what I have realized, and the thing is I am quiting smokin (3 Days now) longest I have ever gone, but anyways, I still kept it, and have on all emails. I am learning a song and learning to play guitar to sing a song to her for christmas cuz I know she doesnt like materialistic things. I care for this girl alot, I have tried to get over her cuz thats what she wanted, but the gf I had this summer broke it off with me when she went to college, well cheated on me, hey I was in college at one point to so I saw it coming, and then a month later her bf that I now broke it off with her. Now we both have lived near eachother for 8 years, and she moved out west, and I got a job out west as well and now live 20 min away. So thats my story, so I am wondering what to do, I have realized the hurt that I put her through, I was her first bf, and first kiss. So thats why I am wondering what to do, I have had 5 relationships in my past, but hers was the longest 3 years roughly. And I know I have changed my atittude towards her. I just dont know why she leads me on, I do want her back and I do want her to trust me, I am taking it slow. But again every relationship is different, but the girl who posted her hurt and anger, I have the samething. Just wondering what to do? Thanks

2006-12-03 15:33:50 · 9 answers · asked by linkster 1 in Singles & Dating

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c_1rdLl3-l8

In this stunt a girl jump on a guys stomach from a chair.

I am a 200 pound guy who is in martial arts and she is about 100 pounds, should we try this stunt or is it too dangerous?

2006-12-03 15:33:11 · 8 answers · asked by HelpRequired 1 in Singles & Dating

My son works with his father (in construction) and my ex keeps telling my son that I spend the childsupport on crack and weed. I don’t even do drugs. My son told him he was full of sh*t and I told my son, after telling him a thousand times to just ignore him on the jobsite. I don’t know how to deal with this anymore. I work my **** off, and don’t need a front row seat to more of his abuse. My ex also calls me all sorts of vile names to all of our children (some are still young), and its making them angry thus depressing them. NO, they don’t see him often, and when he actually decides to show up for visitation, all he does is put them down (their mama’s a…..their hair, their clothes, their friends). WHY do men do this to their kids? NO, there is no “talking” to this abusive alcoholic (restraining order…besides, you cant reason with him anyway).

YES I have court orders stating he is not allowed to do that, but if I take him to court again, he’ll get my son fired. HELP!! IDEAS???

2006-12-03 15:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 15:31:46 · 16 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Singles & Dating

A good friend of mine can pee standing up against a wall but i wanna stand next to the guys we go drinkin with and pee along side them! HELP!!!

2006-12-03 15:31:25 · 8 answers · asked by wellstuffed2005 2 in Friends

sometimes he will just not talk to me for a few days and then say he jus had some things going on or something like that. at this time he usually looks really stressed out.

2006-12-03 15:30:43 · 7 answers · asked by nathasha 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 15:29:39 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

its not like im gonna get married anytime soon,, but i know i will once my bf becomes ready financially.. i'll make it simple. im scared because married people always seem to have suffered from routine that kills the love they've always shared when dating. it's like marriage is the ultimate sin of love. all the magazines emphesize on this issue.. (treason, lies, boring sex life.. etc).. some ppl call marriage the golden prison.. although named "golden".. it still is a prison anyway.

i love him so much and i dont wanna lose this love for the kind of marriage im talkin about.
what can i do to get over these haunting thoughts ?
he'll be ready in few months and i'm scared to death.

2006-12-03 15:29:21 · 11 answers · asked by sara_s 2 in Singles & Dating