am i the only one?...?

Question

im 16, and have been single forever. everyone always has that highschool boyfriend or whatever. except me :/

i have a good personality.. and im not really ugly... but no guy ever talks to me. and the ones that do, are assholes so i never bother..

i try and be patient and wait for the right guy to come, but he never does. god i havent even kissed a guy in like a year. im not really looking for a really serious realitionship.. but at the same time i just want that summer love type thing, you know?... idk why im asking this, but i just wanted to get that off my chest.

does this happen to anyone else?.. im so scared to be single all my life, and never get married, have kids and all that. im not trying to rush, but i just keep wondering if it'll even ever happen.

Answer 1

i used to have that exact same problem. i just started being more confident, and guy started to notice me. im guessing your shy. just dont be afraid to jump out there, and you will get noticed by guys, and even make new friends =]

Answer 2

You have more time than you think , just be your self and strike up a conversation , you can start by saying hi , do not rush your self with love your future is more important you should ask your family first for affection instead of someone that can hurt you.
talk to your mother she loves you , and don't think you know every thing finish your school and then worry if you will ever get married then inst-ed of a having a child before your time , be confident in your self love comes from within , then when you ready , you will choose the right man for your self

Answer 3

Wow, you're only 16. I wouldn't even worry about it. I didnt get my first kiss until i was 17 and my first boyfriend until I was 21. Don't worry about chasing after a guy, let them come to you. You dont want to go after a guy and find out you wasted your time on a loser. Its much better when they come to you, you can weed out the dorks that way lol. Just wait, its holiday season too? My god, why would you want a man at this time of year anyway? Its too much stress, trust me, come spring time you wont be worrying about being single. Thats when everybody is looking for a somebody.

Answer 4

hey, at least you've already gotten a kiss. i didn't even get that til i was in my early 20s..

most relationships at the teenage years never tend to be serious and never tend to last long. you are making the right decision to avoid getting involved with the guys you don't like.

you'll definitely find a guy when the time is right. and you'll definitely have tons of chances to follow your dreams.. even if you don't get a serious relationship til college, there will be tons of guys and tons of opportunities..

Answer 5

Oh just Stop It! Why do you silly little girls think you need boyfriends to validate your life. Concentrate on getting a career and having a life and everything will work out. I didnt have my first real boyfriend until I was 23 and he's worked out to be the love of my life and I was far too busy to worry bout boyfriend ****!!!!!!!!!!! My god your only a baby!

Answer 6

hey i feel the same way im 15 and never had a gf. anyways were still young we have alot of living to do dont think about it and just have fun

Answer 7

chyeah im a dude tho ive had a 1 month relationship over the summer and that was it

Answer 8

i used to have that problem. they just saw me as one of the guys. I just used that to advantage, and now i understand them. but trust me, patience is the key thing here. you'll find that boy you've been waiting for, but in most cases you have to look youself instead of waiting for somebody to find you. go talk to someone and get your flirt on, it eventually worked for me ;)

Answer 9

LMAO......lol...I am 25 and I am single so far since the day I remember myself...Are you kidding me.....go study your book and go to good University...you will find guys there and relaize that you hurried for nothing.