Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

I am mechanical engineering graduate working n a private concern. I am from India,muslim. I love a girl but she is Hindu and going to complete her studies with this february. Our parents came to know about our relation 1 yr before and they started opposing our relation. But we cant let our relation to be go down we just continued it. But now they again came to know that we are still in love. They again started quarelling and supposed even not to see ourselves. But we are really in love. please suggest me some idea how to convince our parents?

2006-12-01 02:07:19 · 5 answers · asked by afk 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is years older thatn me and I am still in college and just turned 22 years old he has been out of college for some years now and he is worried that I will cheat on him is he insecure about our relationship? If so what should I do to help him feel better about our relationship so that he won't hate me or hate any of my friends that are guys? I have a lot of them because I get along better with guys. Some of them I have known since we were little babies should he have a reason to worry or is he just being paranoid?

2006-12-01 02:06:59 · 14 answers · asked by Babygurl Alex!! 1 in Singles & Dating

when does the love run out? when do you forget the meaning of love in a relationship? how can you forget someone you loves needs & feelings? i just dont understand it!

2006-12-01 02:06:17 · 6 answers · asked by karmaluna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recieved a text of a really good friend of mine her name is shauna!!! she told me that she really likes me.......I like her 2 but i have a girlfriend and i love her to bits i would never cheat on her!!!!What do you think i should do?!?!? I dont want to lose Shauna as a friend over this???

Plz help!!!!!!!! xxx

2006-12-01 02:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How many of you think he is possibly gay? Why do you think he hates women so much? Other comments on his waivering sanity would be appreciated.

2006-12-01 02:05:28 · 2 answers · asked by stacey h 3 in Family

My mother & I lived together with my grandparents until I was 5 & she remaried. At 5, I knew this guy did not like me & told my mother so. She refused to hear me & walked away. As it turned out, I was unwanted baggage & I was left with my grandparents. My mother was always in my life...for most of my growing up she was not more than 30 min. away and I would see her each week. My mother could never understand why I was so close to them & to this day refuses to say that they raised me. When they died they left me most everything which made my mother very angry. With them gone, I was the only one to blame & our relationship got even worse. I've tried many times to repair things and each time get knocked down. 3 years ago I asked my mother to see a therapist with me - to figure out a way for us to have a relationship. She refused & we stopped talking. 2 months ago, I asked again. She said she'd think about it, but has never called back. I don't know what else to do...

2006-12-01 02:05:17 · 11 answers · asked by ashorething001 2 in Family

My sister's husband has never liked me and has always been jealous of our close relationship. For years he has tried to break us up. He took her and their kids far away into the country and
has actually poisoned her against me. She has changed a lot and no longer likes me. She hasn't spoken to me for two years - infact
my sister hasn't spoken to my brothers for many years also.
He has always hated our phone calls and emails and I found out later that he read the emails I sent to her.
Is this a form of domestic violence?

2006-12-01 02:04:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What would you do if you walk to a restaurant and saw your husband with a beautiful woman and was being flirty and all romantic...???

2006-12-01 02:04:35 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband wants to go to a funeral with the woman he had an affair with as if he's apart of that family. Also he believes as with her that even though they are not together that they should raise their child together "mommy and daddy"time. This woman is the main downfall of our marriage getting back on track and he's just as dumb to allow it. Why am I not strong enough to get out? Or Do I even want to? I don't know.

2006-12-01 02:03:07 · 15 answers · asked by latinamochalatte20052000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

especiall if the don't pay you any attention and you told them you love them and you got no response but yall don't date and yall broke up?

2006-12-01 02:02:50 · 3 answers · asked by one hott! -N- sexy mamma - Shay 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,I caught my girlfriend textin her ex askin him to meet up with her somewere in town!!!!He showed me the texts because he wouldnt meet her without me knowing!!I told her if she did this again I would never talk to her again?!?!But recently she has been textin him=( She has also been going out with her firend who is male in his car and she only ever texts me when she comes home from been out with her!!! shold i suspect something

Oh p.s the guy that she does be with in the car has asked her to break up with me to get with him.....she went mad and vowed never to talked to him again dispite disgust!! but yet she is out in his car with him!!! lol

2006-12-01 02:02:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 02:02:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 02:02:10 · 5 answers · asked by Denise W 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I told this woman that she is totally amazing and she told me that she sees me just as a friend.

2006-12-01 02:01:32 · 9 answers · asked by jlv082001 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 02:00:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm feeling sorry for myself today. Only had chemo a few days ago so feeling rough and my mother's started up again trying to create another rift in my family. I'm just feeling miserable and not sure what to do to cheer myself up. I'm homealone until 6pm :(

2006-12-01 02:00:42 · 21 answers · asked by Christian S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She has a pretty face, nice big rack and can hold a decent conversation. But she is ginger and I have this thing about worrying that I will have ginger children.... Help I dont want to just use her for sex with no intention of marrying the poor girl.

2006-12-01 02:00:39 · 23 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

Girlfriends of mine have recently gotten married and after a few months, I ask how's married life. I expect joyfulness and happiness in their answers, but they all answer with disappointment. What's wrong? What happens after people get married??? I'm single and want to get married one day, but the way people respond to marriage, I'm not sure now.

2006-12-01 02:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by damesha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years and planned to get engaged by the end of the year. We started looking at rings in September but had to put things on hold because of unforeseen circumstances including a death in my family. Things have settled down again and we were going to go back to the jeweler after Thanksgiving. Over the holiday weekend my best friend's boyfriend proposed. My boyfriend and I are very close to her and her family. Do I have to wait to get engaged now?

2006-12-01 01:59:43 · 22 answers · asked by salbk63 1 in Weddings

what is the best way to find out if your girlfriend is cheating on you. We go to seperate colleges, but I just have a feeling she is... I talk to her about it and she denies it every time. when I visit her she has like tons of condoms in her drawer... this worries me.

2006-12-01 01:59:39 · 15 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Singles & Dating

any ideas of where to have a wedding that you pick a package & EVERYTHING is included? (i.e. ceremony, flowers, small reception w/food/drink, photographer, etc?) im up for a destination wedding, but live outside of philadelphia.

2006-12-01 01:59:26 · 9 answers · asked by Kirsten S 2 in Weddings

I have been thinking about spliting up with the father of my two sons b/c he has a drug problem. He has been making an affort these past couple days and really been showing that he wants to quit this and be right for the famliy. Well today he got mad at me because I told him he couldnt clame one of our boys on his taxes. I feel bad because he got up really early to shovel the sidewalk and clean my car windows but then we ended arguing the whole way to work. The reason I feel bad is b/c I can see that he is currently trying and here I am arguing with him and talking about breaking up. Now he acts like if I let him claim one of our kids then he will leave when he gets the money. He told me Im not all that and no one will really want me and do the things he does like take out trash sometimes and all that b/c I already have 2 kids with him. should I feel bad or no? SInce he has been trying and all?

2006-12-01 01:58:27 · 11 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Marriage & Divorce

In general what makes you want to date a person, is it how they approached you?

2006-12-01 01:58:00 · 17 answers · asked by crazy 1 in Singles & Dating

Well im 5'8'' and she is 5'10'' but in heels she is huge..... What are your thoughts people ?

2006-12-01 01:57:32 · 24 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

If you suspected your mate of cheating would you decide to follow them just to see if it were true. Would you spy on them at home to see if they had company? What if you got caught? Would getting caught doing this be grounds for dismisal or vise versa what if you caught your mate stalking you? Would you break up with them or would both of you have to work on trusting each other again?

2006-12-01 01:56:16 · 7 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Friends

I am an Indian living outside India.My husband is an NRI & we lived together for only 40 days.He then left India for his workplace.After a period of one year,we be together.He first spent some time with me.Now,he is no longer interested to have sex with me.Every time,he denies me.He is practising some other religion(which he didnot tell me b4 marriage).He daily preaches that religion for 2-3hours without any delay(which I really hate).I had not expressed this to him.He even prefers talking to his friends,relatives in India & cares for them. I tried cooking good food for him,smiling with him,sharing my feelings but all in vain.
Whenever he spends time with me,he never seems interested in having sex with me & always tries to maintain distance from me(which really hurts me).I wanna make him spend time with me,share his love & make love with me.Please urgently tell me what to do?

2006-12-01 01:55:33 · 20 answers · asked by Shruti 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my friend were soo close we did everything together..now she has changed and she never calls me and we dont get to hang out..shes always moody to me and all this has gone on for about a yr almost now..i love her to death she is my best friend but its made me really depressed..what should i do?

2006-12-01 01:54:43 · 4 answers · asked by Allison C 1 in Friends

I am currently playing softball at my school and i dont want to play anymore but thats why i got my shcolarship. And my mom is like if you quit i will be mad at you ( but it was worse then that) and so i dont know what to do i want to just focus on my studies and .... Help!

2006-12-01 01:54:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

l'm so confused about one guy i love him but i don't know any thing about him. how can i know about him? i just know his name. his name is Waseem Muhammad

2006-12-01 01:54:25 · 5 answers · asked by rosequeenq 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 01:54:18 · 25 answers · asked by Tulip 2 in Friends