what is the best way to find out if your girlfriend is cheating on you. We go to seperate colleges, but I just have a feeling she is... I talk to her about it and she denies it every time. when I visit her she has like tons of condoms in her drawer... this worries me.
2006-12-01 01:59:39 · 15 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~Surprise her with a visit, that's good advice. Are you a jealous person or do your instincts tell you that she is cheating?
Are there reasons for those condoms to be there? Is she collecting them? Maybe the school was handing them out to everyone? You have to go with your instincts.
Good luck~
2006-12-01 02:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking her are you trying to make her better at it or are you trying to catch her. Don't show all your cards man! How many condoms do the two of you us in a visit is it way more than two visits worth? Take a count next time when she is in the bathroom. The following week plan a short visit at the end of the weekend only Sunday and give her at least three days notice so she has time to make her plans for Friday and Saturday night and do a recount. I hate to say but most times when you suspect it its usually true.
P.S to make sure she is sexually frustrated that week don't sleep with her the last time you attempt sex before the end of the first visit.
2006-12-01 10:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by James J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately pay her a surprise visit. Really trust your instincts. If you really feel that she is cheating on you...if you have that gut instinct, she probably is. I'm so sorry for you. This sucks. Just know that if she is cheating on you, you sound like a very respectable and intelligent young man. You'll find someone who will remain faithful to you.
If you can't trust your current girlfriend now, would you really want to continue a relationship with her? You will probably be asking yourself "Is she cheating on me" a lot in your relationship. If this is the case, move on. You will get over her sometime and then really be able to have a relationship that will be meaningful and trusting and something that feels good to the both of you.
2006-12-01 10:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup shes cheating and usually your gut feeling is right. I mean really she wouldnt need to have condoms in her drawer if she wasnt cheating on you. I agree with Ashely yes pay her a SUPRISE visit!
2006-12-01 10:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know anyone else that goes to her school? If you do do some investing or if you can take time off from school then spy on her yourself. If you just have to know that is the only way to find out...to see it for yourself.
2006-12-01 10:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has condoms in the drawer and their not yours?? I wonder if she is cheating on you.
2006-12-01 10:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would show up unexpected to her school to see if i was right. Then if your wrong just tell her you came to suprise her and spend time with her.....hope that helps
2006-12-01 10:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the circumstances.
But, you re young and adorable. . .
Clean your slate and start over. . .
You deserve to be in a realtionship with someone who you trust and who trusts you.
Good luck sweetheart.
Fory
2006-12-01 10:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay her a surprise visit sometime.
2006-12-01 10:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What she doing with comdoms? Try counting them everytime you visit. Just don't let her know your doing it.
2006-12-01 10:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋