OK, Woman...answer this question....honestly???

Question

What would you do if you walk to a restaurant and saw your husband with a beautiful woman and was being flirty and all romantic...???

Answer 1

I'd probably be boiling inside but I would calmly walk up to see his reaction. Sooner or later I would flip out though...there's no reason for him to be in a romantic setting with anyone but me

Answer 2

First of all I wouldn't walk in being loud making myself look ignorant or like a fool. Let's face it if he's cheating on you, you blowing up isn't going to make him stay as a matter of fact he just might take his date by the hand and walk off leaving you standing there looking even more stupid and ignorant. Walk up to the table like you don't suspect him of doing anything wrong. Address him by whatever name you call him, trying to make it something loving so that way if he's told her anything negative about you now he looks like the lying cheat that he is. Introduce yourself to the other women as, "hello, I'm (whatever your name is) I'm (whatever your husbands name is) wife and you would be? Give her time to answer. Always be pleasant even if she knows that you exist in his life she never promised to love honor nor obey you, your husband did. Then ask, oh so you work with (whatever your husband's name is)? Wait for an answer. If she claims to be a coworker then if you know what your husband does for a living then ask her business question that she should and would know about the business. If she says that she doesn't work with him then start asking questions to find out how she knows him and how long has she known him. If you have children bring up your children. Pull out pictures of your children. Also to be funny you can say in a joking way while laughing, for a moment there when I walked in and saw the two of you sitting so close I would've thought you were having an affair but be sure to laugh afterwards. Watch the facial expressions after saying this and their faces will tell it all. Then make sure that you join them for the evening. When you leave make sure they're leaving as well. If he walks her to her car you walk with them. You need to limit their time alone. If possible try and get her into the ladies room alone not to fight her but to get her alone to ask her woman to woman what is going on. Just be honest with her that no matter what you're not upset with her even if you. After all she didn't marry you, he did. Just don't go in there with attitude flying because that approach will not get you anywhere. Kill'em with kindness.

Answer 3

I would join them. I would walk up to the table, plant a huge kiss on his mouth, extend my hand in a very diplomatic (yet civilized and snotty) manner to the woman and introduce myself as his wife of 12 years and mother of his two kids. ;-) Then I would plop my butt down on a chair and order a glass of champaign. When the drink arrived I would make a toast to "my husband and his beautiful female friend, which I knew nothing about" loud enough for the entire restaurant to hear. Then I would order a very expensive meal, take one bite and doggy bag it and announce I was going home to feed it to the kids. Then I would ask to see his keys, and remove the house key. Then I would tell the woman "I certainly hope you have room at your place, because my husband has a lot of things that he'll need to keep with him." I would then leave the table, kiss my husband again and tell him he'll be hearing from our lawyer. :-) ha ha ha. Thank God my husband isn't stupid enough to do that!

Answer 4

Waltz right up to the table with my greatest smile on and sit down! I would know immediately by the look on his face what was actually going on and there is no reason for any woman's husband to be having any kind of meal in a restaurant with another woman!

Answer 5

I would take a seat at a table nearby, and watch from the distance. Before you make any rash moves, be sure to get all the facts. You don't want to go over half-****** and be wrong as tow left shoes. What I used to do is when he would come home, I would ask him questions I already knew the answers to because I had seen him, just to see what was going to say, if he lied, I would bust him with my information, and let the chips fall where they may!

Answer 6

I would approach him with a smile on my face. Hello Dear and give him a kiss. Then if he was nervous and didn't know what to do I would calmly tell him he better have a great reason for this intimate dining or that would be the last kiss he would ever get and he could find a place to sleep that night cause I needed to calm down before I did something I would later regret.

Answer 7

Honestly ... I'd be fuming!!!!

I would storm out of the restaurant, go outside, take a few breaths, count to 10, TRY calm down (knowing my blood is boiling & my hands & lips are shacking from anger & humiliation). Then i'd go inside ... calmly, pull up a chair and join them. Order a bottle of champaigne (but don't say anything to them!). Toast 2 the two of them - looking the other woman in the eyes: The way you win them, is they way you loose them!

Down the glass of champers and walk off.

Although you have to be very strong to do this - its a fragile situation. Be careful.

Answer 8

Ummm, lets see.... I'd leave him. Or at least lock his *** out of the house until a got to the bottom of why he was with another women, at a romantic restaurant without my knowledge. I'd like to hear his explaination of that. But at the restaurant I would have walked up and confronted him about it infront of the unknown women. I would deffinatly loose trust and respect for him. Good Luck girl.

Answer 9

I would be amazed. My husband isn't very suave. I would wonder if I'd entered an alternative dimension.

In real life: I would go up, introduce myself to the young lady. Ask if there was room enough for another, not bother for an answer and sit down. Then I would proceed to make the evening as uncomfortable as possible. Later, after dinner, when I was chewing on his hide....I would say some very unlady like things and be very explicit on some very painful things he could go do with himself.

Answer 10

I would watch for a few minutes while I composed myself. Then, I would walk over with my head held high and ask, "Mind if I join you?" Smile and enjoy the moment when he was truly busted! Innocent or not. Knowing that from that minute on, whatever I wanted I could have for the asking. However, it sounds like it's too late for advice at this point, right?

Answer 11

Speaking for men, don't believe the hype unless he was being flirty right back with her. But I agree chew his a s s for being with another woman in the first place. That's a no no not even if she was a co-worker, it's just not proper.