If you suspected your mate of cheating would you decide to follow them just to see if it were true. Would you spy on them at home to see if they had company? What if you got caught? Would getting caught doing this be grounds for dismisal or vise versa what if you caught your mate stalking you? Would you break up with them or would both of you have to work on trusting each other again?
2006-12-01 01:56:16 · 7 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes I would spy. If you got caught so what! If you suspect it to be true, it probably is. I think it depends on the situation, if he is cheating and catches you following him he will turn it around and make it your fault and make you feel horribly just to justify what he is doing.
2006-12-01 02:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been thinking about this subject way too much .. but since you asked:
No I would follow them
No I wouldnt spy on them
If I didnt trust them why have them in your life?
Yes, spying is grounds for dismissal
If a mate was stalking me I'd kick their ***
Yes, I would break up with them
If its gotten as far as spying on each other then all trust is gone and its not worth continuing
2006-12-01 10:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spying? If you want to know something from your mate then you should just ask and if you suspect him or her of cheating then that will depend on the person who thinks their mate is cheating but once that trust is gone it is hard to get it back and spying on your man or woman only proves lack of trust, insecurity on your part, and lack of communication. You shouldn't spy on the one you are suppose to love and if you feel that he or she may be cheating on you then just ask them to be honest about it. If you spy you might find something that you weren't expecting to see to begin with instead of just asking for honesty and trust. I personally wouldn't be with someone who wanted to spy on me nor would I date that person again no matter how much I loved him for the simple fact that no matter where i go or what I do he would always be lurking around and that's just creepy and unhealthy not to mention dangerous.
2006-12-01 10:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very hypothetical questions there!!!. Anyway, I won't give myself any stress to pursue a gurl all about. The fact that she's seeing another guy means is an indicator that I'm NOT giving her enough spanking. But as a matter of fact, in the real sense, no gurl tastes my ccock and seeks satisfaction elsewhere. If you want to bet you can try it. Cheers!
2006-12-01 10:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I suspected my mate of cheating, I don't believe I'd follow him just to see if it were true.
No, I wouldn't spy on them.
I simply believe I wouldn't/couldn't be with anyone whom I didn't trust, or whom didn't trust me. It'd be a waste of time.
2006-12-01 10:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time. you may find out something you already know and be evn more hurt in the end. If he is cheating...whats done in the dark shall soon come ou in the light....you'll eventualy find out.
If it's too much, break it off. life is too short to be going through the drama:)
2006-12-01 10:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by simiarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much to absorb!!!!
2006-12-01 10:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by BB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋