I recieved a text of a really good friend of mine her name is shauna!!! she told me that she really likes me.......I like her 2 but i have a girlfriend and i love her to bits i would never cheat on her!!!!What do you think i should do?!?!? I dont want to lose Shauna as a friend over this???
Plz help!!!!!!!! xxx
2006-12-01 02:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is not your fault. Shauna knows that you have a girlfriend and aren't available and she has put you in an awkward situation.
The best thing is to be very clear with Shauna and to tell her the truth, leading her on may seem easier, but it is cruel in the end. Tell Shauna that you are surprised and flattered and that you think that she is a great friend, but that you aren't available at the moment. She might be hurt for a few days, so best leave her alone for a little while and then get back in touch and resume your old friendship when the feelings have settled down a bit.
2006-12-01 02:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by SmartBlonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u wouldn't cheat on ur girlfriend if she is a really good Friend she would understand if you lose shauna as a Friend maybe she isn't that much of a Friend anyway! three's a crowd if ur girlfriend means that much to you maybe its best if shauna is out of the picture anyway watch she don't cause trouble between you and ur girlfriend if she remains a friend
2006-12-01 02:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you told us. Tell shauna that you like her too and although you already have a girlfriend, you really would like to remain best friends because you don't want to lose her.
2006-12-01 03:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know what double dating means right? (i hope so!)Ask your girlfriend if she lets you Double date her and Shauna. That might be a good reason,but if your girlfriend doesnt accept that, you might as well break up with her, but Im sure its too painful to do it. Ask your girlfriend for double dating, and don't be nervous.
(Hint:After a few nights of Double dating, choose which girl you have the most in common with,who has the same personality,and the one who helps you, makes you feel comfortable,etc at all times!)
2006-12-01 02:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by nococaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, this is this is a toughy, I think you should say almost exactly what your question was to Shauna. Say that you still really like her, but your were already going out with your girlfriend and it would be completely unfair to dump your girlfriend when you still love her as much as you do. Say that this was a bad time and you still really want to be friends.
2006-12-01 02:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by kitkatladee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by your other question ,and the fact that your girlfriend is lying and cheating on you, I would say dump the girlfriend and go out with Shauna if you really like her, but don't string her along like your girlfirend is you.
2006-12-01 02:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her round and tell her that you are flattered and you really like her and if things were different you would consider going out with her, but you are in a relationship and you are happy and really like your girlfriend, tell her you don't want things to change and you luv having her as a friend and you will always be there for her, try and act normally around her as this may make her feel embarrassed and stupid , good luck
2006-12-01 03:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk and explain your situation to Shauna
2006-12-01 02:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by newcomer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her make her know that you love her as a friend and will o anhthing for her amd make sure your girlfriend doesnt find out beacuse they will be hell to pay if she does then everyone would get hurt good look matey its a stick situation ure in a feel sorry for ya
2006-12-01 02:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO ON So what, She only likes you because she knows your with someone and she's got jealous. Have sex with her, You only live once, i mean think about it, two hot gals both want you. You'd be being selfish if you didn't do 'em both, simple. Tell you friend you'll have to sleep with her to know if you like her.
2006-12-01 02:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋