In general what makes you want to date a person, is it how they approached you?
2006-12-01 01:58:00 · 17 answers · asked by crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the prettier girl had a bossy or presumptuous attitude, I'd rather have the other one.
2006-12-01 02:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality.
2006-12-01 01:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is to say what attractive is? If you find one person attractive, but not another, that is your personal preferences coming through.
You may prefer brunetes over blondes. Tall over short.
You will end up with the type of person who compliments your life and may not be a runway model. Most women are "average".
If you are basing your life and relationships on looks alone, you are missing the boat completely. You have to look at the person as a whole. She might make the cover of some magazine as the world's most beautiful woman, but if at her core she is the devil reincarnated, what is the point?
Physical beauty IS only skin deep. Look for a real woman--she wil make you happier in the long run.
2006-12-01 02:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by bux_martinfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is number one on the list. If a person isn't attractive to you-meaning you don't find them physically OR emotionally attractive, why would you date them? In my experience, everyone has a couple of very attractive traits-whether they be physical or emotional. Looks don't have to be the first thing that you are attracted to. If you feel a connection personality wise but feel nothing else, keep that person as a friend.
2006-12-01 02:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... personality is a BIG subject but it is, anyway, an important factor in attraction... If a person, from the first meeting, is very interested in themselves and have nothing really important to say, it makes them less attractive.. The cleanliness of a person is also all important.. not only in their body and clothing appearance but in their language also
2006-12-01 02:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust ...I know alot of good looking people that are rude. You can wrap dogcrap up in pretty paper and bows and it will be beautiful on the outside but still crap on the inside. Some people say my husband looks like a leprechaun, but he is the sweetest funniest man I have ever met. For longterm relationships, skip the outside image, evaluate whats attractive about the persons being..Having the same interests is a start
2006-12-01 02:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes me want to date or get to know a person is how they carry their self and how they approach me.
2006-12-01 02:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can just feel a connection despite what the person looks like, I'm just lucky that I get on great with my boyfriend and he's gorgeous, but even if he wasn't he's so funny and kind I'd date him over a stunner with no personality any day!
2006-12-01 02:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by doodlenatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know this question is going to be different for guys and girls.
Ok, I'm single right now. There is a whole range of girls I would date, from super attractive to just barely doable. I'm going to date the first one who gives me a clue that she would accept an invitation to dinner. Simple as that.
2006-12-01 02:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a less attractive person might treat you way better than an acctractive person,but when it all comes down to it ,its really how much you care and wanna be with that person
2006-12-01 02:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is how they approach you, the first impression is very important and if someone is drop dead gorgeous and a horrible person, I'd go for a bit homely with a striking personality
2006-12-01 02:01:28 · answer #11 · answered by Tamzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋