Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

what would you do if your best friend of 11 years came out and told you they were gay and had a crush on you? would that be awkward and what would u tell them?

2006-12-01 02:51:40 · 17 answers · asked by ~Crystal~ 1 in Friends

i was in a relationship..someone who said they would love me for the rest of my life. he showed his love by beating and choking me.
he promised me candle light dinners and roses..but instead he went out with his friends and left me at home , i finally got away from it all..
my friends want me to start going out... but how can i trust anyone anymore

2006-12-01 02:51:37 · 21 answers · asked by luvutaz1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

heres my situation...my wife and i have seperated due to that fact that I cheated on her. we have two small kids and she just moved out a week ago. she knows that i am truly sorry but she wants to see change in me. not to mention time by herself to clear her mind of me being with someone else. whats some things women look for to see if a man has changed???because i know she is watching my every move to see if ill follow through with what i say. so what are some tips that i can use that will get me through this to win her back ??? please no wise cracks..what i did was very wrong... i just want my family back.

2006-12-01 02:49:54 · 20 answers · asked by Mr Confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When my mother in law comes over she will often bring other relatives with her. It may just be her, 1 extra guest or up to 6+. It makes it difficult to plan dinner. However, if I ask her if she'll be solo - she will say "Well, you really should invite ___ over and if you invite them you have to invite__..." Any suggestions on how to figure out if she plans on bringing extra guests without it being interpreted as an open invite? The in laws are tough to please and fairly critical. She used to be at my house before I got home from work (unannounced and usually with 1 or 2 guests ), I would arrive home and after a few minutes she'd ask "what's for dinner?" My husband and I don't have kids, so dinner is usually "whatever" during the week. She'd proceed to tell me I should have prepared frozen meals that could be brought out when she popped in. Ugh..

2006-12-01 02:49:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-01 02:49:07 · 5 answers · asked by Kallee n 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 02:48:18 · 25 answers · asked by tr.anced 1 in Singles & Dating

My Father always told me not to hit a Broad unless she wants to fight like a man then smack the crap out of the Ho'. He also taugh me that Chicks are suppose to serve men and men are suppose to provide for them. Last I talked to him, he told me how the world is going to hell, how society allows Chicks to be Skanks and allows young girls to be Hoochies before they even start their period. He told me not to let a Chick manipulate me, and to keep a strong hand and show her, who ever it is, what her place is. I admire my dad.

2006-12-01 02:48:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Dont get me wrong, I love my best friend, but it drives me NUTS how she ALWAYS has to be the center of attention! If Im in a conversation with someone, she always interupts and turns the conversation back towards her. Even if the conversation has nothing to do with her. She always has some sort of drama in her life, and it wears on my nerves alot. I cant even have a conversation when she is around with out being talked over, or her changing the subject. Ive talked to her about this, and I can tell she knows when Im annoyed with her for continuing to do this....but we have been friends for a long time, and I dont want to loose her as a friend. What else can I do?

2006-12-01 02:47:33 · 11 answers · asked by soporific2u 2 in Friends

does she like me. by looking at me after i look back and she palys whit her hair alot. she is 15 i am 17. i love her. does she know i like her. when some guy looks at her she dont play whit her hair alot. oldy she does it to me. i want to tell her my feelings. she is 15 so she must be really shy.

2006-12-01 02:47:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If heterosexual means that you only have sex with people of the opposite sex, if you have sex with yourself (i.e. masturbation) does that make you gay/bisexual?

2006-12-01 02:46:47 · 4 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating

I have long dark black hair, dark blue eyes, and a weight of like 125 and I have a great personality……well what I want to know is there any guy that can on me and my thoughts and my personality, And I can’t find a man worth my time. I’m not really that picky either so this is really for the guys but girls can answer but umm are there any guys out there that would like a girl that is energetic, funny, smart, and entertaining……. I mean I am the whole package and I can’t find a man what is my problem??

2006-12-01 02:46:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here is the deal my older brother (57) is marrying a 23 year old bimbo. She found out that he might come into a good ammount of money whern our mother dies (he wont it goes into a trust fund) everyone in the family has been trying to warn him about her and it has gotten to the point where we have all told him that if he marries her he will be cut off from everyone else in the family (even his kids by his ex) he acts like he doesn't believe it will happen. I know for a fact that the trust had been changeed to where if he marries this girl he gets nothing. How do I convince him to act his age??

2006-12-01 02:46:06 · 8 answers · asked by flyfisherman_46 2 in Family

Me to drug her for our first time having sex, she says she'd rather be asleep, or drowsy enough that she wont remember everything about it. It bothers me that shes scared to have sex, but she wants to and wants me to drug her? whys is that? And If i am to put her to sleep, or drug her what can i purchase to do the job? Anything i can buy that isnt prescribed from a doctor like i can buy in a local store type.?

Any help on anything above would be wonderful.

Thx.

2006-12-01 02:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by jameswilliamlong 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this grl and she is my friend but she drives me crazy wat could i do bc sometimes i hate being around her

2006-12-01 02:45:33 · 18 answers · asked by country grl 1 in Friends

i have a boy friend and he really really likes me and ever since he became my boyfriend iv been doing really bad in school should i break up with him or not because uve been getting in soooooo much touble with him and if my momm found out i had a boifrend i would sooooooooo die

2006-12-01 02:45:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Tell me what you think and explain or give me advice on that.
I haven't seeing anybody or dated anybody sense she left.
I have strong feeling for her and she is a special person.

2006-12-01 02:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by Simon G 1 in Singles & Dating

I am interested to know if you think masterbation is wrong as a christian. We are disccusing this topic with a youth group and are trying to find out people opinions on the subject..espcially from other christians.

Please only answer sensibly!
Thankyou!!

2006-12-01 02:43:53 · 47 answers · asked by Em 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend needs help managing his anger. He can be upset over something small and it grows to be something big and before he realizes what he is doing he starts to get physical and violent. He needs some help and is willing to get some he just wants it to be the right kind. (Like, he doesn't need a shrink, he just needs to learn how to prevent himself from getting violent.) He was thinking about getting a punching bag, do you think this could work? Anyone with a good suggestion, your response is appreciated.

2006-12-01 02:43:18 · 15 answers · asked by babe112083 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what should I do ?

2006-12-01 02:42:54 · 13 answers · asked by bharat_sharp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how long would you wait to call them before the /day/night of that date?

Would anyone wait to make contact till the day of that meeting instead of making some sort of contact prior? If so, why?

Thx:)

2006-12-01 02:42:43 · 7 answers · asked by sicofitall325 1 in Singles & Dating

I know I want some wine glasses and extra but their are soo many choice!! We do have a bar and we like to drink and have guest/parties so I would like to registry for some nice bar glasses. I am just not sure what I need. I want some speicality glasses like Maritini and Margarita glasses but these are the choice for these unbreakable lenox glasses I really like-


Red Wine, Set of 4
White Wine, Set of 4
Balloon, Set of 4
Double Old Fashion Glass, Set of 4
Cocktail Glass, Set of 4
Flute, Set of 4

Do you need Cocktail and double old Fashion?
Is balloon a generic glass to replace white and red wine glasses??
Any suggestion would be great!!

2006-12-01 02:42:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She is 5'7" and weighs 130 pounds. I like my girls skinnier than that.

2006-12-01 02:42:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need both mental support and sexual favours without any hassles. I'm desperate. Anybody or any groups out there ?

2006-12-01 02:42:13 · 1 answers · asked by duttaromen 1 in Singles & Dating

Before you judge me, know that i love everyone in my immediate and extended family.
But i have found out that my family has lied to me so many times and everything.....and i really want nothing to do with them now.
Im from Atlanta, Georgia. Grew up poor all of my life, especially childhood. People got shot almost everyday where i grew up....My father is on drugs. My mother isnt a drug addict but she is starting to get dependant on her mediacation (methadone)
Because i feared that i would only get into trouble living in the neighborhood i did in Atlanta, i moved to New Orleans a year ago, now staying with my aunt and uncle and her spoiled 31 year old daughter who stays with them still and has 3 kids. Its very racist here.
They really dont help me either but i dont expect them to. i hunted for a job for 2 months on just a bike. Now im saving up money for college. My sister never calls (she's 33. my bro is kool though.) No one seems to really care. So why should i be around them now?

2006-12-01 02:41:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-01 02:41:41 · 8 answers · asked by airforce 1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-01 02:41:17 · 15 answers · asked by breastfed43 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 02:41:13 · 15 answers · asked by geneva1124@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

I know I'm bad but here goes. been marrid for 16yrs. i'm very affectionate,imaginative,erotic,sexual, wife is not. I havebeen pulling her along the whole time, but she does not have the sexdrive, interest, imagination to fulfill me,she is super,super beautiful, and sexy visually, so my excitement hasbeen spurred on by that. plus she has become far more sexual and eroticthan when we began(omg has she!) But Im still unfullfilled. I always wanted DDs, and she has Ds. i still crave for them. She doesntdo other things I wanthardly ever, Orl, Anl, using her hands. brings no ideas, no challenges,but I on the other hand do everything you could (I could imagine) to her. I evenfound pens sleeves to make me bigger so she can experience differnt SIZES whenevershe wants. (and she cant tell the difference from real) Sheis totallyoverly satisfied, and i am not satisfied. She loves me, I feel same. But I am frustrted, dissatisifed, Shegets more frm me ThanI frm her. I feel cheatd, frustrted whtato do?

2006-12-01 02:40:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is it about a man that women will notice if he is available or not? Besides a wedding ring or a mini-van or something. What is it that is a dead give away that he is single that a woman will pick up on?

2006-12-01 02:39:49 · 10 answers · asked by Wondrin Dude 3 in Singles & Dating

I meet men every day. Not bragging, but I am a pretty good catch. I even had a woman hit on me but I have no interest in that direction. My point is that for some reason, I can only bring myself to have lunch or coffee with a potential mate. Anything more than that doesn't intice me. I can go to movies and concerts alone and be very happy. It has been six months. Any suggestions or words of wisdom?

2006-12-01 02:39:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce