what should I do ?
2006-12-01 02:42:54 · 13 answers · asked by bharat_sharp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take your time. Just a guess, but you sound like your in your teens. There is no need to rush things. If you two are really in love and want to be together then you will be in time. Enjoy your youth. You don't want to endure the responsibilities of being together (without your parents) so soon. I made the mistake of moving out with my boyfriend way to early. It's hard being in the real world. You have bills, work, and really no money in the beginning. The extra stress of living in the real world drove us apart. We were to young to handle it and took it out on eachother. So in the end... it really wasn't worth it.
2006-12-01 02:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by joencrystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some patience friend. Well its not easy to leave the parents also. Talk to the girl and tell her politely that every girl has to leave the parents house one day. Also ask her why her parents are not agreed.
In case there is some genuine problem try to solve it. Talk to your parents also. May be they can help you.
2006-12-01 11:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sumit M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be patient, and try and do the right things, so you can show her parents that you do have her best interests at heart. Give her time, remember they are her parents, and it is going to be hard for her to just pack and leave them. I think by your actions, in time they will see that you respect her, and things will work out for the best, for both of you!
2006-12-01 10:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly are her parents against? Her leaving or your relationship in general? I will give you some advice. If you really love that girl, and she loves you back, and if you really want it to work, don't move in together. A couple's therapist that I once was chatting with said that couples who don't move in together previous to getting married tend to work out better.
2006-12-01 10:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't really have to make a choice, if you love her that much you would always try to understand. with regards with her family, probably her family needs a little more time to accept you as there daughter new lover besides you also have to prove yourself that you deserve the love of there daughter, mostly efforts are coming from the guy. Be more understanding and always be happy.
2006-12-01 10:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by *Pretty Pink* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her there is only one question for your answer and that is waiting for her.....im kind of the same way have my own fam now but cant be apart from my partes im always over and so im my husband take it one step at a time but try to make her fam like you
2006-12-01 10:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to prove to her parents that your good enough for her. simple as that. it might take some time but if you really love her should have any problem waiting right?
2006-12-01 14:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by soahni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she is ready because if you don't you are going to have problems in the future...
2006-12-01 10:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to impress them or wait until shes ready
2006-12-01 11:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by Heera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you can do ,just try your best to prove to her parents you are worthy of her love
2006-12-01 11:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋