I have long dark black hair, dark blue eyes, and a weight of like 125 and I have a great personality……well what I want to know is there any guy that can on me and my thoughts and my personality, And I can’t find a man worth my time. I’m not really that picky either so this is really for the guys but girls can answer but umm are there any guys out there that would like a girl that is energetic, funny, smart, and entertaining……. I mean I am the whole package and I can’t find a man what is my problem??
2006-12-01 02:46:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could be trying too hard. Just relax and go with the flow. If you find someone your interested in, Great. If you don't, Great. Just be yourself and when you do find someone that you are interested in, let them know you are and then CHILL OUT.
Whatever you do, don't chase a guy. We hate that. Let them seek you. No matter how interested you are, just let them know you like them and let them do the rest. Or you will get no-where with them. Anyways, that's my opinion.
2006-12-01 02:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea... It is a pity you do not live where I live. But I have some comments.
1. Most of the guys, really do not care about "the whole package" I mea, they care a lot about the long dark black hair, they care about the blue eyes and that you are think. They think you are very hot.
2. They do not care at all about your personality! Maybe the probem is that you are worring too much about a guy that cares about your personality. (find that is hard, but they do exist)
3. One problem could be that you are too picky. But I do not think so.
4. The most provable thing is that by chances of life you are not in a place where there is interesting guys
2006-12-01 11:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many women who consider themselves "the whole package." It is impossible to know why you can't find someone--could be you are too picky, maybe you only want to date guys who are really handsome or are incompatible in other ways such as religion, education, or interests. Dark hair and blue eyes does not say what you really look like or what your personality is like. I mean, the hunchback of Notre Dame could describe himself as brown hair and brown eyes with a stocky build, but that doesn't mean much.
Have you looked online? I think it's a good way to meet people with common interests and if you should be able to find a guy who is looking for someone like you. I like match.com.
2006-12-01 10:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear the problem is YOU. Men are everywhere, if you give them a chance maybe you will find a guy to your liking. You just don't realize that your picky. There is no PERFECT GUY so just try to look at those guys who have the same personality as you do. Find something in common between you and the guy.
2006-12-01 10:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Terry Chan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For men, I'm sure you sound good. Maybe though when in a relationship you are the jealous type? Over clingy? Don't "put out"? Not sure. If you are the whole package, then you are looking for men in all the wrong places. Change your strategy and I'm sure you'll find someone worthy of your time, energy and love.
2006-12-01 10:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe guys are intimidated by your beauty and they feel like you're way out of their league.Take the iniciative to make the first move. Sometimes guys need to know that the feeling is mutual in order to be able to open up. Also, being approached by a beautiful girl would boost his confidence, but be careful because guys who lack confidence in the begining, can be very insecure and obsessive in the end.
2006-12-01 11:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥aNgeL eYeS♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not looking in the right places. There are plenty of guys out there, its women that there is a shortage of. Sign up for a class in something you are interested in and start your search or if you go to church look there. That way if you do find someone, you will have something in common from the beginning. If you don't mind sharing me with my wife, I would love to have you.
2006-12-01 10:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too picky. LOL... you need to settle for someone like me.
I bet other people may say that you need to find more fault in yourself, but I like a healthy self esteem.
2006-12-01 10:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think your the one with the problems. i think the guys you find are. personaly i think personality is more important than looks. if i can't stand some one who is boring dumb and has no sense of humor then they aren't woth my time no matter how good they look. maybe you should look around for a guy who thinks like that. dating services are good becuase they base it by personality not looks.
2006-12-01 10:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by Ted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all how old are you, age matters. (im 14) just hang out get to know the guy first. DON'T JUMP INTO A REALTION-BAD IDEA! WAIT (well thats my problem but still.)
2006-12-01 10:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by Calvin Roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋