Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

i've been thinkin' about this for so long

2006-12-01 06:50:54 · 21 answers · asked by bolly 2 in Singles & Dating

I have no trouble "taking care of business" myself, but when it comes to my partner doing it for me - which she loves to do - I am unable to get off. I have tried coaching and gone as far as using her hand to try it myself, but to no avail. When we are making love I usually end up "finishing the task" myself and she gets mad because she is unable to do it like I can... How can i fix this?

2006-12-01 06:50:33 · 7 answers · asked by whit2982 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just wanted to know if anyone felt as if their taking a relationship to serious.

I know that my boyfriend would not cheat on me, but i do get these ideas that pop up every so often. He doesn't live close to me ( Because I live on campus) and when we first started dating he did try to c me when he could but now it seems like he's not even trying.
I know that he's trying to change his life ( i.e get a second job, etc.) and he works late, but i feel that if you wanted to be with someone then why not just be with them.

We talk often but I'm getting this wierd vibe that he's holding back in our relationship or maybe he just does give a damn anymore. I'm starting not to care myself. What should i do?
They say that Capricorns and Tauruses are a match made in heaven, so whats wrong here, why do i feel the way i feel about him.
Should I just let him go and let that be that? or what? But i do have feelings for him, feelings that no man has made me feel b4.

2006-12-01 06:49:30 · 6 answers · asked by clbell 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been planning a trip for my bf, son and i to disney world this spring, and then a couple vacation for us in the summer. he hasnt participated in the planning for either nor does he seem excited about them, and loathes going to disney world openly. he mentions a few days ago he wants to take a 2 wk jaunt to italy in the fall, and few days later states that we will have to either cut short, or not go on one of the vacas i was planning, so he can go to italy for 2wks with his bro. this is not the first time, he went to vegas alone when we first met and then went to visit fam in conn where he and his bro took off to ny, boston, etc. i was upset b/c i have never been to ny, boston, etc and would like to enjoy with him. same thing with the italy trip. my compromise was he chose a place that im not terribly interested in and go there with his bro, and to try and get excited about the vacas hes taking with me and my son. is this unreasonable?

2006-12-01 06:49:22 · 8 answers · asked by succina 1 in Singles & Dating

in the past and caused me to not trust him. he djs so he is at alot of parties. that is just a hobby for him not his sole employment. well he has put this dj stuff before our relationship. i told him he needs to leave it alone for a while until i can trust him again. cause when he is at these parties women are flirting and i have bad trust in him because of what he has done in the past. well he left last night cuz i want him to stop for a while. i dated him for 3 yrs. we were suppose to get married. well he walked out on me so he can do parties. well what do you think. plz no smart remarks. and remember it is not my own insecurities of why i dont trust him to be at these parties. he has lied in the past about some things.

2006-12-01 06:49:00 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 06:48:55 · 10 answers · asked by roberson010 2 in Singles & Dating

The horrible things we do to eachother is astonishing.
I know we've all gone through it. I know we've all done it to someone. Why? Why do we hurt the ones we love? Why do we throw away the people who love us? Is it worth the abuse from the person you love, to stay with them for the sake of love?

2006-12-01 06:46:56 · 9 answers · asked by Joseph K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like to wear a elaborate Jar Jar Binks costume and mask as part of my every day life. I went to the grocery store, and saw how depressed everyone was so I thought I would help. I started dancing in the aisles, and yelling at people, and running up to people and taking things out of their cart. It was great fun. Then when I went to check out, there was only one lane open and a long line. I screamed and screamed while in line and danced, bumping into other people. I opened a box of baking soda and threw it around. Finally I got to the checkout. I started making noises at the cashier, and I kept pressing buttons on the computer. Some people in line were groaning because the line was getting very long, but that gave me even more incentive to make them laugh. I climbed onto the table and started kicking peoples groceries on the floor and singing. The manager and one of his goons pulled me off and said I could never shop there again. Can I sue for harrasement or possibly assualt?

2006-12-01 06:46:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is getting married this summer, but thinks that her fiance is still married. Where can we get a copy of his divorce papers online with out it costing us money? Any help would be appreciated!

2006-12-01 06:46:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My GF and i love each other no doubt about it. Weve only been together for 4 months. She has a 5 year old daugther and lives with the father they are far away. The guilt that shes feeling about leaving them affects our relationship. When i first dated her she said it was over between the 2 of them, but they are still technically married on paper and she still stuck hasnt filed for annulment. And everytime the EX sends TEXT messages and everytime this happens she zones out and becomes non responsive. But we have great sex and were good together but it seems like she cant let go of the past. She said she doesnt want to hurt the kid by telling her that shes moving on because shes to young and also the ex is constantly trying to win her back and threathening to do something stupid everytime. How do i help us with this???

2006-12-01 06:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by merckk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

lol

2006-12-01 06:46:12 · 5 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Singles & Dating

I was friends with this guy - he asked me out and cus i like him i said yes! But like a week later i told him i thought it would be better if we were just friends! thing is, now I really miss him. we haven't talked since! I really regret breaking up with him! I don't even know why i did it - he was like my first boyfriend and i guess i just paniced!
I know i was his first girlfriend too - When i said i would go out with him, he said it was the best day of his life!
I miss him so much - I guess i just wanna know that if you've liked someone for ages then go out with them, and then break up - would you automatically not 'fancy' them anymore - or could there possibly be a chance he still likes me!
I do really like him - do you think there's any way he would ever like me again - is sending him a text a reeeeally bad idea?

2006-12-01 06:46:07 · 3 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

Why? Do you think it's a good thing?

2006-12-01 06:44:48 · 13 answers · asked by Win 4 in Singles & Dating

laying on the couch watching tv in my night gown ( I dont wear underwear under my nightgown) and my husband knows that next thing I know he is performing oral sex on me. I did not ask him to but got real into it. he then pulled me off they couch and i was on top he stuck his penis in my face I DO NOT PERFORM ORAL sex!! So it pissed me off I got off and walked away he then got pissed off!! Started yelling that I dont do anything for him etc. Was i wrong??

2006-12-01 06:44:22 · 40 answers · asked by momof2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well i'm an adult to but i consider people from their 30s on to be more mature, :))

allright. if you were a prof. and your student would be at the end of her studies, nearing her graduation would you pursue a relationship with her. and you're single, no wife. my guess is yes if it were true love. if not, then it's only a little crush.

thanx

2006-12-01 06:43:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This should be interesting I hope.

2006-12-01 06:43:31 · 17 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubands exwife had an affair forceing my husband to live somewhere else .meanwhile she got in touch with the csa to claim money from him even though he still played a part in their upbringing .We met and things got worse . she expected him to provide for the children but then stopped him having any contact so he had to go to a solicitor which cost more money. This went to court .The children were dumped with her family while she went out on so many occasions that both me and my husband applied for custody as we were both in employment and could support the the children without any benefits and could give the children a secure and stable home.The day of the court case the mother stated that she could support the children without any help from anywhere and had a stable loving home for them. As u know the courts favour the mother over the father in these cases so she got custody. in fact the children were homeless as their mother had spent h b on fun.Why does this info mean nothing

2006-12-01 06:41:54 · 11 answers · asked by trixy 1 in Family

for apples?

2006-12-01 06:41:09 · 18 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my man but this boy at my school loves me and i love him too what should i do

2006-12-01 06:40:49 · 6 answers · asked by Destani J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I say, yes. If parents would take up more of a disciplinary role instead of letting schools, we whould have less teen violence. Parents need to control there kids. You made them they are your responsability until they reach consenting age then its the law enforcments problem.

2006-12-01 06:40:49 · 16 answers · asked by ibyt2692 3 in Friends

is it just a one time booty call, or is it really making love?


do you see the person that you are dateing a love machine or a love maker?

2006-12-01 06:40:39 · 12 answers · asked by Kelly forever 1 in Singles & Dating

i find this a very humiliating condition. in fact, i do not love this individual but if he were to show up anywhere near I'd be attracted to him but it's only physical not emotional. why does this happen when I do not love him because I know his kind.

thanx

2006-12-01 06:39:44 · 7 answers · asked by Eden 1 in Singles & Dating

If you've been seeing someone for six months but they say that they're not ready to commit yet because they don't feel like they know you, do you take that as in they're not that interested or they just need more time?

2006-12-01 06:38:11 · 17 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like such a failure, i'm 24 living at home after a brief time renting, and the only relationship I can get is a FWB and I messed that up because of feelings for her. I feel like such a loser

2006-12-01 06:37:26 · 15 answers · asked by jjkjk h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think yes. I am a father of 2 and I feel it is my responsability to reel my children.

2006-12-01 06:37:25 · 8 answers · asked by ibyt2692 3 in Family

Ok, in first year (UK), I was hated, so I made up quite a few storys to become friends with people. In second year people found out I lied, but where ok with it. Ok so usually my main friend is two faced, one half of the day he is my friend the next he hates me. Today and the past few days when Im hanging around with my other friends he suddenly comes up and explains about me laughing, picks out all the bad points about me and calls me names infront of them. They then usually go of with him. Why is he doing this! How can I get him to stop. I feel excluded when he does that. He makes my other friends feel stupid about me,and funny just last week he was my best mate. This time there seems no turning back though! HELP!

2006-12-01 06:37:23 · 4 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Friends

2006-12-01 06:36:55 · 14 answers · asked by Almaas Ahmed 1 in Friends

..Like no matter how many hobbies you have or do you still feel that there is something missing in their lives? Please no God answers..

2006-12-01 06:36:04 · 10 answers · asked by jjkjk h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a guy who has been my best friend for 8 years and I'm starting to think that he is really cuite, should I date him or just reamane being his best friend.

He is really a nice guy , we talk about everything (seriously eveerything)?

What should I do?

2006-12-01 06:36:02 · 13 answers · asked by Sexy hola skirt 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 06:36:00 · 21 answers · asked by aquarius 1 in Marriage & Divorce