How to forget a person whom u loved more than urself?How to concentrate on work?

Answer 1

be single minded

Answer 2

That is hard. I could say, keep yourself as busy as possible while at work but the thoughts will kick in unfortunately.
You will really have to "let time heal". Or while you are letting time heal...take on a new project at work. Maybe something you always wanted to do but really didn't know how. This way, you would have to concentrate a lot on learning the task. Heck, if you do well, you may get a raise or promotion out of it.
I wish you luck on healing your broken heart. But sometimes nature just takes its course.

Answer 3

Although so many nice answers are already here but coz i hav the same problem thats why i thought i should anser this.
It is really a daunting task to forget one to whom u loved most but according to my experience time is the only curation of this disease u will really see that as the days go by u will come back to ur normal life how much time u take will depend on how deep u were in love.
But it is really a serious time u are gonna to face.
Bye

Answer 4

ITS HARD TO FORGET SOMEONE, but think life isn't over because u have to live on. sometimes try to remember the good time and not the bad, live on with a hope that love will again come an put a smile on the face. and plz smile now. just smile once and life will seem more beautiful again and again and forever. think of the people that love u and just think ur not forgetting her she will always be in ur memories and always special.

Answer 5

ouch honey,
Everyone has had to go through this. Its just about one of the most heart wrenching things we have to deal with. Work is work... tell your boss In your own words you are sad and ask him what he or she does to consentrate, If nothing else you will see him as a human, Unless he isnt, then just change your name and move to Wyoming and become a cowboy.
I know this really wont be all that helpful but you have to cry alot.
tell everyone you know you are in unbelievable pain.Do not listen to the radio in your car... you cant control what song they might play next.
learn about the stages of grief and see what stage you are in EVERY day. Distract yourself by going to a daycare and play.Its amazing what a truly happy face will do for you.
Be a secret Friend to a needy family on your block, and NEVER reveal yourself. It will be your very own private satisfaction during this really crap time in your life.
I am pissed for you,Thanks tho for reminding me .... I guess I DID get to the acceptance stage and I had my own closure and I am fine. You will be too, good luck sweetie, I really do care about how you feel. : ( Suzie M

Answer 6

I had that same problem! What I think you should do is think of the reasons that you dumped him in the first place (If you did) if he dumped you, just think that it's his loss, and that you can always find someone better. There are a lot more fishes in the sea. Live your life to the fullest, and find the perfect person for you later in life!!

Answer 7

hey my name is ahmed too! ok well any ways i have the same problem, i love him so much i stalk him and when ever i listen to my music i have a little video in my head with me and that boi. what i try to do is try to forget about him. i spend more time with my best friends cuz they make me happy and when we laugh together i dont think about that boi i think about how much my friends make happy. i just try to think about the good times. it's very hard i know im trying to solve my problem you can read my question it's ome where here. hope the best for you.

Answer 8

one trick that really works is 'the rubber band theory'. wear a rubber band at your wrist and when ever his thoughts creep up, snap your self out of it by stretching the rubber band and letting it pinch you. pretty soon your brain will his recall with panful stimulus and will deter ffrom thinking about him.

also change your phone ring tone, get rid of all the memorablias and anything that reminds you of him.

and tell your self you desrve better. it will take a lot of time but eventually you will learn to move on.

Answer 9

Some people think that it is not easy to get over an ex . They will try to go back to that person calling him or her all day hoping that will convince the ex to rekindle the old flame which died many years ago.

If this rings the bell, you must understand that you have a problem. Do you know why? Because your ex does not love you anymore, probably doesn’t even return your calls. He or she might even already forgot that you exist but there you are, thinking about all the wonderful things you did together many moons ago. I'll tell you this you’ve got to get your life together.

The reason why you can't get over ex is not because you are in love or was the perfect Angel.. It could be because you shared great times together but that's not the reason why you think about him or her all day.

The real reason you can't get over your ex is because you have a void inside you. Yes I'll repeat... you have a (BIG) void inside you. You haven't found a solution to fulfill it yet so you think you can find it from someone else. NO your ex won't be able to fulfill it for you. In fact no one will, others might show you the direction but you alone can fulfill it.

Are you confused, here is what I mean, the kind of void I'm talking about is called neediness. The kind of behavior some men and women have that they can’t be themselves. They think they have to have another person on their side to feel special.

The funny thing is, it is the other person that makes them feel alive. If they don't have one they become hopeless. If you are one of them then you have to change that immediately.

What that mean is other people control your happiness, inner strength and more importantly how you feel about yourself (self image). Everything about you is determined by the person you are in relationship with. In other words you can't be yourself until you have others approval.

You need to find what that void is, you need to ask yourself why you really need that man or woman so bad, what makes you feel you need to be with that person. Once you get the answer then dig deeper to find more answers. This will help you to know what you really need. For example it could be something like feeling important, maybe because no one recognized you when you were a child.

Once you get the correct answer find things that will make you feel important. Is it to learn how to speak new a language, helping a homeless person in your town or taking a new adventure? It could be anything.

Once you have fulfilled your need you will feel more complete and confident the character that will make you happy. If you didn't know attractive people are very happy.

Answer 10

looks like we r sailin in d same boat but let me tel u wat u can only do is divert ur mind n not listen 2 songs wich r romantic ones cuz dat wil worsen ur situation try n hear happy n hip hop songs keep ur self busy in other works believe me it wil workout i m tryin d same n wish der s n improvement 4 u r situation also "best of luck " n take care .............

Answer 11

Try to do everything possible to keep yourself busy!