I just wanted to know if anyone felt as if their taking a relationship to serious.
I know that my boyfriend would not cheat on me, but i do get these ideas that pop up every so often. He doesn't live close to me ( Because I live on campus) and when we first started dating he did try to c me when he could but now it seems like he's not even trying.
I know that he's trying to change his life ( i.e get a second job, etc.) and he works late, but i feel that if you wanted to be with someone then why not just be with them.
We talk often but I'm getting this wierd vibe that he's holding back in our relationship or maybe he just does give a damn anymore. I'm starting not to care myself. What should i do?
They say that Capricorns and Tauruses are a match made in heaven, so whats wrong here, why do i feel the way i feel about him.
Should I just let him go and let that be that? or what? But i do have feelings for him, feelings that no man has made me feel b4.
2006-12-01
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➔ Singles & Dating
When Taurus and Capricorn come together in a love match, it's a practical, sensible partnership. These two Signs share a certain down-to-earth logic and interest in efficiency. Taurus is not interested in risking more than is necessary in terms of emotional connection and involvement, and Capricorn is similarly disinterested in risk, but more in terms of money and career. Capricorn's career is one of the great focuses of their lives; they're interested in scaling the heights and tend to set very high standards for themselves to adhere to. Taurus has high standards as well, but regarding love, relationships and possessions. These two Signs admire one another's dedication and strength, but, while they have this in common as well as a dependable, realistic, somewhat conservative approach to life (Capricorn more than Taurus), a love relationship between them can go stale fast. The problem? They're actually rather different at their cores. Taurus may begin to find Capricorn too conservative and restrictive; Capricorn may start to think Taurus is too lazy and doesn't care enough about career and status. If Taurus can encourage Capricorn to relax a little and appreciate the fruits of labor, and if Capricorn can help motivate Taurus to achieve goals and make dreams a reality, their union can be smooth, happy and long-lasting. Taurus is ruled by Venus (Love) and Capricorn is ruled by Saturn (Karma). Venus is a warm, feminine energy while Saturn is a cold masculine energy. Venus is all about sensual pleasures, the aesthetics of love, the beauty of art. All of these stimulate Taurus and heighten their appreciation of life and love. Saturn, on the other hand, is about hard work and discipline to achieve goals. Taurus will show Capricorn how to enjoy a well-deserved break every so often and how to appreciate beauty and comfort. Capricorn can teach Taurus to be more disciplined and to keep reaching out for what one wants.Taurus and Capricorn are both Earth Signs. This couple loves to indulge in material possessions. They want to possess and be surrounded by beautiful things--nice clothes, cool toys. Since they're both such hard workers, they can usually attain all these things, and hardly ever need fight about impracticality or overindulgence. Taurus is a Fixed Sign and Capricorn is a Cardinal Sign. Taureans won't change their minds once they're made up. They possess a quiet, steadfast determination. Instead of finding this dull or restrictive, Capricorn regards it as a good, comforting thing: Taurus is clearly dedicated to the relationship. What's the best aspect of the Taurus-Capricorn relationship? The similarity of their values and their dedication to the same goals. Both partners enjoy luxury and nice things, and they share resources well. Their mutual interests make theirs a highly compatible relationship.
2006-12-01 06:55:18
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answered by ☆christina☆ 3
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Wait a second... Take the (I'm a taurean)Taurus, the Stubborn Bull and put it up against the Capricorm, the Ram.. You're both stubborn, you're both goal driven, you both want a lot for yourselves.
He lives far away and doenst come to visit anymore? He seems serious about making a solid future for himself, having two jobs. That doesnt leave a lot of room for dating. If he's still talking to you then that's a good thing but when you have two jobs its hard to find time for a girl or anybody for that matter.
He is probably just waiting for you to come home so you can be together and he is probably too tired to drive all the way to see you.
Speaking of stubborn, what have you done to try and go see him? Is that not an option? Maybe you can consider that?
Good luck to you, if you know he wont cheat on him, then it sounds like you two have an open line of communcation. Why don't you ask him how he feels about the relationship now? Where is it going.
Taurus and Capricorn can be great because we're both stubborn and we want a lot for ourselves, but if those lines get crossed in a relationship and the goals go separate ways, it's going to take some major compromise... Good luck to you...
2006-12-01 14:56:27
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answered by Cabbage 2
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Most distant relationships don't work because things will always come up or take priority over you. If you two talk often then you should talk about the relationship and you take the lead role in making it either it's this or that. Don't waste your time on someone who is not trying to waste their time on you.
2006-12-01 14:58:30
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answered by uneekqamar2004 4
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I'm a capricorn and my hubby is a Taurus and I trust him loads we have a great relationship.
2006-12-01 14:53:09
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answered by MANC & PROUD 6
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it sounds good to me
2006-12-01 14:51:20
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answered by Anonymous
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2006-12-01 16:29:49
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answered by Skittles#38 1
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