Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

My husband and I have been married for two years and recently he doesn't want to touch me or show me any affection. I did not change anything at all and keep everything just how he likes it. I try to be romantic but he says hes tired and rolls over to sleep. He also has been very snippy lately. He does not like to talk about the problem. I sugessted couseling but he said no. I try to be understanding but I need affection too. He left to Iraq and treated me so nice, now since hes back he wont even talk to me hardly. I cook and clean and dress sexy for him, but I dont even get a second glance and he tells me to leave him alone when hes home. It is very depressing not to get any love. We have sex on ocassion but it isnt like it used to be. I even tried not being affectionate to him and then I didnt even get a kiss! I am at my wits end about what to do. Please help if you can I am very sad about this and need to spark some romance from him before our marriage falls apart. ty!

2006-12-01 11:40:44 · 13 answers · asked by victriplett 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The one I mainly use, it has been 2 days and it will not let me in, why???

2006-12-01 11:40:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 11:40:24 · 10 answers · asked by daygolfer 1 in Family

i would just like to let you know i am 18 and i have a 14yo who is to embarassed to ask questions under her name so she uses mine. so all those who have been talking sh!t need to stop. Okay?

2006-12-01 11:38:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 11:38:42 · 12 answers · asked by prince 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you think of this apology i wrote my gf any suggestions?

Melissa I know that I hurt your feelings yesterday and im sorry, it suppose to be a joke and I didn’t know it would hurt you so much . I love you Melissa I couldn’t sleep last night knowing that I hurt the girl that I care about the most . I laid awake thinking of you tortured until dawn. Will you ever forgive me

Always and forever William Wright

2006-12-01 11:38:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf is being really confusin.He says he's bin filing empty lately but he doesn't kno what about.He says he also has doubts about us sometimes but he doesn't want to break up.He says he still cares about me.It took us thinkin he broke up w/ me and him thinkin I broke up w/ him to make him open up & only because I asked him what was going on.I fil like if he cared about me,he wouldn't shut me out like he is.I mean,he hasn't talked to me for the last 2 days at all unless I try 2 talk 2 him.He says he only doesn't talk because he doesn't want to make me confused but him not talkin makes me confused.He also won't even tell me he loves me nemore after he told me he was stressed because of this whole thing.So I guess he doesn't love me nemore??So my question is,do y'all think he wants to break up or should I just give him time or ask if he wants to take a break until he figures everything out even though him not talking to me is stressing me out really bad?I just don't want to lose him.

2006-12-01 11:38:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so me and my bf are so perfect right now. and he knows that i used to have a thing with one of his friends. but he just found out that i spent a few nights with him also. i told him we didnt do anything but he said "how do you expect me to beleive that?" (and yes i slept with him a few times) should i keep my story and deny it or break it to his that i slept with him friend and risk him getting upset?

2006-12-01 11:38:01 · 15 answers · asked by xbinary_dreamsx 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 11:37:05 · 9 answers · asked by j. a. prufrock 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it just me, or do long distance relationships totally suck?

2006-12-01 11:36:46 · 4 answers · asked by Link 5 in Singles & Dating

Since i cant babysit my cousin's todler all the time, i need to get a dog. Any sugestions? What dog would make the laides melt? Dont say puppies ( they dont stay that way, and its almost too easy)

2006-12-01 11:35:40 · 7 answers · asked by Low 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby and I have been married for nearly 20 years. We have five children. Before we married, he agreed we would move out of state. For the past five years the children and I have lived in a different state than my husband while he is "working" on moving here. Hubby has made it to where we could NOT move from "HERE" and can only wait for him to join us. He is now wanting a divorce. I am middle aged with four teens, and one dau. in college. I had a career when I married I gave it career up 17 yrs. ago as hubby stated I no longer needed to work as he would take care of me the rest of my life. We are over 1000 miles apart, he hashis own business which, I took care of all the bookkeeping, billing, etc., etc. for 10?yrs. We have a lot of our money tied up in real estate. WHAT state should I file for divorce in? HOW do I protect my chldren and myself in this mess? We depend on his sending money monthly and those $ get less & less each month. I'm afraid where this is going.

2006-12-01 11:34:46 · 6 answers · asked by l w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am sure your answers will be terribly simple. I think I may not be able to see the forest for the trees. I have been with my husband for over 14 years, and we get along pretty well. We both live a pretty busy life....he with work, and myself with home, kids, and grandkids. But, at 40, I am still a pretty interesting, attractive and fun lady, and would love to be acknowledge as this. I know I certainly let him know how i feel about him. I am not asking for the secret to the new relationship heart pounding hearts and flowers stuff, just a little something to make him say, "Hey, she's wonderful.....I am soooo lucky!!". Any ideas?? And, thanks in advance for your help. Happy Holidays!

2006-12-01 11:26:02 · 7 answers · asked by rodzzgrrl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they all watch porn, touch themselves, and whine about their lack of love lives. not to mention they look like a piece of ****. if you know any, tell them to go play with puzzles and get their joy from porno!!!

2006-12-01 11:25:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Every time it's my kids birthdays she never gives them anything. I have to go and get them something and make out that she has bought it, not for her benefit but for theirs(even though it does benefit her). She works in Asda so she could get them something even if it is a piece of clothing or something. I don't expect everyone to buy them things but you would have thought that a grandparent would. My partner accepts it and says that's what she's like. I can't let my kids think that Nan won't get them anything for their birthdays as they will get upset, they are only 6 and 3.
Should I carry on buying for her or should I let them find out for themselves what a tight old b***h she is?

2006-12-01 11:24:22 · 31 answers · asked by evs 3 in Family

better to have someone unattached, even if that takes a longer time. My life was ruined by another woman, I got over it it has left some scars, any comments ?

2006-12-01 11:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a single male with no dependants that uses the services of an escort about once a month, does that make me a sad/desperate man? I'm not interested in a relationship and own my own home and have a comfortable salary.

2006-12-01 11:23:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to get to know a girl in my school, but I rarely see her. I pass her once in the halls after lunch, but we're walking in opposite directions. I do have a class with her at the end of the day, but I don't have a chance to talk to her during class, and after class she has to leave ASAP to catch her bus.
I'd like to get to know her better, but it's just like we don't have enough time. What should I do?

2006-12-01 11:22:43 · 3 answers · asked by The Real Deal. 2 in Singles & Dating

Steve, 16, has a friend called booker, 18.
Booker and Steve have never met in person and met over the internet.
Booker lives in cornwall.
The question we need answering is 'Is Booker Cool'?????

2006-12-01 11:21:19 · 5 answers · asked by Gary 3 in Friends

IM WITH THIS GUY AND HE'S BEEN TALKIN ABOUT MARRIGE.. BUT WAIT.. I LOVE HIM BUT IM NOT "IN" LOVE WITH HIM.. SO WHAT DO I DO?? I DON'T WANNA BREAK HIS HEART ESPECIALLY CAUSE HE'S IN SOO DEEP.. I MEAN.. I LOVE HIM BUT MARRIAGE??.. I DON'T HAVE COMMITMENT ISSUES AT ALL.. IM JUST NOT READY... I HAVE MY WHOLE LIFE A HEAD OF ME BUT IM CONCERNED OF HIS FEELINGS AND HIM.. I REALLY WOULD FEEL BAD IF I DO THAT TO HIM.. HE'D BE SO HEART BROKEN..

I JUST NEED ANSWERS.. FAST.. CUS HE CAN POP THAT QUESTION ANY TIME NOW...

NO SARCASM PLZ.. THANK YOU.. :D

2006-12-01 11:19:44 · 14 answers · asked by Ja.Leah.Shuh. 2 in Singles & Dating

For instance, from being an introvert to a loud individual. or perhaps vice versa.

2006-12-01 11:19:18 · 11 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 11:19:12 · 7 answers · asked by shewolf2899 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 11:18:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 11:18:01 · 25 answers · asked by shewolf2899 3 in Singles & Dating

I've decided that its ridiculous that I let myself be stopped on looks alone. If I have no chance, I want her to tell me that.

My hairdresser, for one: hot as hell. Scares the crap out of me. Any hints?

2006-12-01 11:17:38 · 19 answers · asked by bla 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 11:16:38 · 12 answers · asked by shewolf2899 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 11:16:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-01 11:15:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If your fiance gets you a 1/4 carat diamond does it mean he loves you less as compared to a 1 carat diamond? Since we are in an age of equality between men and women, shouldn't the women be buying diamond engagement rings for men or maybe a diamond watch or something?

2006-12-01 11:15:36 · 10 answers · asked by questioningly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if this is the singles and dating column then how come when you wanna talk to sum 1 on your e-mail or sumthin they say that's a violation.

i don't get it maybe yall can tell me, and feel free to e-mail me

2006-12-01 11:15:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating