I'm a single male with no dependants that uses the services of an escort about once a month, does that make me a sad/desperate man? I'm not interested in a relationship and own my own home and have a comfortable salary.
2006-12-01 11:23:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it works for you, why do you care what a bunch of strangers on the internet think?
2006-12-01 11:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
You lucky bar steward, everyone is just jealous on here.
How come only once a month though? I'd have thought once every 2 weeks, would be more pleasant.
You sound a bit vulnerable though- are they VISITING escorts? - because these girls quite often have their brutal boyfriend sitting outside in a car somewhere the whole time. I'd be careful- you could be blackmailed or threatened.
Anyway, why tell THIS lot about it? you seem sensible so why bother what the Yahoo community think?
2006-12-01 12:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you want a relationship? I'm not trying to soud pushy I just genuinly want to know. And I'm a little niave, does an escort give you sex? Because I do think that is a little wrong (you did ask!) I mean, sex is about risking things, you could get her pregnant or catch something nasty, but the point of it is that you love each other too much for those things to matter.
It doesn't make you sad or desparate, just you know, like you might be missing something important in your life.
2006-12-01 12:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope, that doesn't sound sad or desperate.
If you're not looking for anything serious and just want something casual for every now and then when you feel like it, then why not use an escort service. Sounds like a good idea.
All the fun, none of the emotional crap that goes with it.
2006-12-01 20:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it doesn't make you sad. I'm a forty year old single man whose had plenty of girlfriends in the past but I prefer the single life so from time to time I hire escorts on www.adultwork.co.uk and believe me its a great way to spend an evening.
As far as I'm concerned having a good sex life with as many beautiful women as possible is all part of lifes rich tapestry (as long as your careful about practicing safe sex).
2006-12-02 08:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it wasn't a problem why ask us on the internet. Its not us thats bothered its you and you've demontrated it by asking us. I can understand if you feel comfortable doing things the way you do and I'm not going to judge you but you use the description of "sad/deperate" so its your issue.
The only other point you mention that is relevant is that you don't want a relationship. If thats true then why do you think you are sad.
Sounds like someones lying to themself.
2006-12-01 12:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although there might be better ways to obtain to companionship and fun, who are any of us to comment upon something so essentially personal in nature? Company is company. It seems to me that if it is your company we are talking about, then it is you who should decide who, when, where and why. All I might add to the mix is that you have a wonderful time and come home not feeling one least bit apologetic, especially to yourself. Other than that consideration, I am pleased you have found a way to host and to extend yourself. Who knows, it could lead to an ongoing friendship and even a romance, at some point. - Chris.
2006-12-01 12:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may seem like a good thing to do, but you leave yourself open to all sort of things, eg, being blackmailed, being set up, etc.
Who is/are these women? What pressures are they under? What are they really after? Who do they know?
Having no dependants, being financially comfortable, etc, all very attractive in the eyes of the right and wrong woman.
2006-12-01 12:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jamma354 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seedy comes to mind for me.....I wonder how old you are? I understand people use escort agencies for company...who cares if you sound desperate...whatever makes you feel happy. Why don't you want a full time relationship?
2006-12-01 11:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
so you use the services of a whore, that doesnt make you sad or desperate. but it makes for a very rich sex worker who could and will never feel anything for you or feel enjoyment from you fuc'kin her. that aint sex or making love. its a quick fuc'k. line your own pockets with love, not a pimps with greenbacks.
2006-12-01 12:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
its a lot cheaper in the long run you are doing the right thing dude keep up the good work the other guys could learn from you
2006-12-01 12:27:31 · answer #11 · answered by mustang_silverado 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋