I am sure your answers will be terribly simple. I think I may not be able to see the forest for the trees. I have been with my husband for over 14 years, and we get along pretty well. We both live a pretty busy life....he with work, and myself with home, kids, and grandkids. But, at 40, I am still a pretty interesting, attractive and fun lady, and would love to be acknowledge as this. I know I certainly let him know how i feel about him. I am not asking for the secret to the new relationship heart pounding hearts and flowers stuff, just a little something to make him say, "Hey, she's wonderful.....I am soooo lucky!!". Any ideas?? And, thanks in advance for your help. Happy Holidays!
2006-12-01 11:26:02 · 7 answers · asked by rodzzgrrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Simple answer: Talk to him.
Complex answer: Talk to him.
2006-12-01 11:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my man and I have been married for 12yrs and we still go out on dates. Movies, dinner and the night out in town that works well for us gives us time to our self with no kids so we can talk about anything that we have on our minds. And I sometimes pop up at work and bring him lunch he seems to like that maybe you should give him the emotion that you want and he may give it back. Hope everything works out well and you too have a great Holidays
2006-12-01 11:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by HONEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried going away for the week end and letting him look after the kids and house hold, most men don't realize how hard it can all be until they have to do it themselves and that's when you get that "wow hunny you are so wonderful" or you could get your picture taken by one of those pampering, glamor type places. A nice hot photo of yourself could make him sit up and take notice. Good luck
2006-12-01 11:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by nomadic_rei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he appreciates you, Life gets so busy at times, and we tend to forget to praise our spouses..Which is needed at times! Just remind him what a good relationship you have going and these days.Say something to remind him its been a while since you've heard something nice..I am sure he knows how wonderful you are and how lucky he is to have you! But its nice to hear sometimes! Congrats on 14 years of marriage!
2006-12-01 11:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by Shem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to someplace like Victoria Secret, and buy yourself some sexy lingerie...put on a little mood music...and wait for him to come home from work one nite...hope this helps...Happy Holidays
2006-12-01 11:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by Sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really confident about yourself you don't need his approval. If you are waiting on him to notice you after 14 years then keep waiting..
2006-12-01 11:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by sugardaddysgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some sexy, professional photo's taken, that you can give to him as a Christmas present.
2006-12-01 11:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋