I've decided that its ridiculous that I let myself be stopped on looks alone. If I have no chance, I want her to tell me that.
My hairdresser, for one: hot as hell. Scares the crap out of me. Any hints?
2006-12-01 11:17:38 · 19 answers · asked by bla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say " Can I take you to lunch some time?"
2006-12-01 11:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You could try the old 'can I ask you for some advice' .. and tell her that when you see a beautiful woman who is way of your league you don't 'quite' know how to.. how to.. how to.. (as you gaze into her eyes). You might need to find a new hairdresser - but that's the worst that can happen (probably..). On the other hand you might find that devastatingly beautiful women have as much trouble as any other woman in finding decent interesting men. So, be scared (it's another form of thrill), but don't forget to be interested, and to be interesting. Oh, and focus on having fun (it's easier to do in a 'fun' place), it kind of takes down the terror factor enough for you (both) to communicate.
2006-12-01 11:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by nandadevi9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, for girls it's 90% attitude. Are you funny, confident and self-assured? Do you know what you want and you're not afraid to go for it? You sound like you are!
Don't make the mistake of asking for a date. I've turned down guys for dates that I would have gladly spent time with otherwise just because dates are kinda big comittments. Leave it open ended or ask for some casual encounter.
Say something positive that let's her know that not only are you interested but you are bold as well. "So I think you're a unique combination of a really sweet person and a really sexy person and I'd like to get to know you better. What do you say I come by tomorrow and we can go to lunch and see how things go?"
2006-12-01 11:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally all about the confidence!!! What is the absolute worst thing that can happen? She says no, big deal, you move on! Looks are nothing. More often guys that are popular are the guys that are fun and confident. Just approach her. Looks are nothin! I am a girl and I know. I am pretty hot and I am attracted to men that aren't because I HATE the way men treat me when they are soooo high on themselves. Give it a shot, you never know what will happen!!
2006-12-01 11:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
One of my favorite lines from a movie happens to be from AS GOOD AS IT GETS. It's when Nicholson says to Helen Hunt "You make me want to be a better man."
That's probably the best way to approach a woman who you feel is out of your league. Particularly if you mean it. If you're just looking for some hot action, forget it, I can't help you.
2006-12-01 11:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't classify women as out of your league. If you have confidence and are sure of yourself you can go after any of them, even your hairdresser.
Just flirt a little and don't be worried about saying something stupid. Keep it casual and natural.
Good luck!
2006-12-01 11:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jayden 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself around her. Most "hot" women like a man that is confident with himself and appreciates her as a person, not just her looks. Ask her out, if she's not interested, she'll say no.
2006-12-01 11:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kristy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first problem is that you think she is out of your league. Give it a try. What do you have to lose? The worst she could say is no.
2006-12-01 11:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by tchem75 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
not sure about that league thing.
proby just some uptight folks thinking they are better than everybody else in some way
if its the uptight snooty league, find a better league to play in
2006-12-01 11:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think anyone is out of your league?? Ask her, what the heck, give it a shot...you never know until you try.
2006-12-01 11:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Vanity 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try starting a conversation w/her and get to know a little bit more and then you could think of asking her.
2006-12-01 11:22:51 · answer #11 · answered by star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋