Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

What are the three things you must have to make a relationship work? Please be honest and hold nothing back.

2006-12-01 11:00:50 · 4 answers · asked by bj 3 in Singles & Dating

did you and your husband or wife or fiancee discuss marriage before you got engaged? or was it just a big suprise?

2006-12-01 11:00:40 · 23 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-01 11:00:33 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

i have three guy friends. two of them like me but i dont like them. wat should i do. the boy i like is cody. he likes me too!! im not going to be boyfriend and girlfriend with cody!!!the other two are fransico and ceasar!!!
i am NOT, i dont want our friendship to end!! were best, best, best buds!!
one more problem, im not going to the same middle school with them!!!
wat should i do!!!!!!!
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

thax a bunch

2006-12-01 10:59:54 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs. Joe Jonas 2 in Friends

I am single right now and most of my friends have left the city I live in and my family lives in another country.

Does anyone have ideas on how to spend New Year's eve alone? Even better, anyone know how to meet a similarly lonesome woman (preferably in her 20s) just to hang out with during part of this holiday season?

2006-12-01 10:59:53 · 5 answers · asked by Apeman 1 in Singles & Dating

I have no idea what i should do lol. PLLEASEEEE just taalllkkk about anything. i dont care if its perverted.. normal.. or just plain weird... ENTERTAIN ME =[!

2006-12-01 10:59:36 · 6 answers · asked by becca_boo2442 2 in Singles & Dating

Im married and some what happy but,an old flame has come back into my life.A lot of old feelings have come back.I find myself thinking about him a lot and we talk every chance we get. He wants me to leave my husband.I have two kids and have had a lot of ups and downs with my husband , he can be abusive some times .... Please tell me what I should do?

2006-12-01 10:59:06 · 7 answers · asked by patty m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I'm just wondering, are these guys interested with me, or just want to get in my pants, or pick out the ones that want to get in my pants.

B1- He is a smoker, and he likes my body and face, but he is mostly obsessed with my body. He says "I love you", has had sex 20 times, with 8 different girls.

B2- He is emotionally and physically attacthed, he is kind, caring, and motivated, but he is a poor student, and he is scared to talk to me because he says he will start to like me again.

B3- He is an overall good friend, and when I tell him things, he won't repeat them. He is a very sweet kid and prtects me from everything, unfortunately, his dad likes me more them him, meaning his dad has more of a romantic interest, Gross, I know.

Thank you much if you answer!

Much love,
Maddi

2006-12-01 10:57:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Could he sleep with someone he doesnt care for cos the person he loves is away a few days a week and he feels lonely and he misses her?

2006-12-01 10:57:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18, in college, but still living with my parents. My friends all tell me that my parents hate me. They are under the impression that I am a bad kid, they think that I drink and do drugs, but i havent and never will. They don't trust me with anything, and they keep taking advantage of me. The don't make me pay rent, but I have to do nearly all the work cook, clean, laundry, dishes, other erands. It just seems like a lot, and when I ask for my brothers to help, they go on about how its my responsibility to get everything done because my brothers are in football. My curfew is 10pm, earlier than it was in HS, and none of my friends are allowed to come to my house.
I would really love to move out, however, I can't afford it, I have a job, but I have to pay for my own schooling. And my parents keep coming up with reason's for me to keep giving them money, saying i owe them for random things. So I can't save anything I make.
I feel like a prisoner, what can I do to get some respect?

2006-12-01 10:56:53 · 6 answers · asked by Bri B 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A female doctor, accusing the father of her child of molestation, inserts spoons and other items into her child, than take photographs, to use as evidence in court of what she thought the father had been doing. She had spent 18 months in jail for violating family court orders, but was released by an order of the U.S. Congress. At that point, she secreted the child out of the country to new Zealand, where they remained until the child was over 18, than they returned. She was never charged with anything regarding what she did to the child, because she was a doctor and knew what she was doing in order not to harm the child.

A new case of this type has surface in Kansas City, but this time no such luck for the mother. The father was arrested briefly, at a battered men's shelter, where he was staying with the child, but he was released and the mother arrested. The story should be on this web site later.

http://www.kctv5.com

2006-12-01 10:56:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My daughter is 17 and she used to look after herself so much i could never get in the bathroom. she met this lad who has really dragged her down.
she has no friends (he didnt want her to)
she has no job (cause he dont want her to)
she dont go out ( cause he dont want her to)
she is his slave (cause he wants her to)
we have caught him out loads of times with different thing girls numbers on his mobile he talks to girls on his msn on his phone. his phone bill is so high with all numbers. anyway i could go on but my daughter is head over heels in love with him ive told her about the violet relationship with her dad and she is headibg there because if she does not do what he wants then he threatens to leave her. ive told him and warned him but then he takes it out on my daughter. my sister has spoken to her and she has said she would pick him over me any time and she never used to be like this i really dont know what to do, we used to be so close until he come along helpppp.

2006-12-01 10:56:34 · 14 answers · asked by kjw 2 in Family

I find this completely ridiculous! What has happened to our nation?

2006-12-01 10:55:49 · 24 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If person A feels loved with flowers, cards, weekend trips then person B needs to do those things to express their love for person A that way.

If person B feels loved with sex then person A needs to express their love for person B that way.

If person A gets sex and not flowers they will not feel loved.

If person B gets flowers and not sex they will not feel loved.

Just because they are our spouses does not mean they feel loved the same way as us.

Convenience is doing it the way we want it. Love is doing it the way they want it.

2006-12-01 10:55:07 · 12 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I really think my brother is gay he is 15 and he is into music like the scisor sisters and madonna he likes other things that girls like!!should i confront him????

2006-12-01 10:54:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there a time limitation for my ex wife to take her share of my 401K (stated in the decree to take 50%) after a divorce in Texas? i.e. will she loose the right for this money if she waits a certain number of months/years?
Thank you.

2006-12-01 10:54:00 · 3 answers · asked by Wonderer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay well recently i`ve had a hug with my crush :]
but its just a simple, short hug.
i want a long meaningful hug.
how do i hold on?
or does that take 2 people? :D
i dont know i`m unexperienced when it comes to these things.
so, thanks sooo much to whoever replies =]
i seriously love youu, <3 hahh.

oh & me & my crush hug aloottt. everyday @ school =]

2006-12-01 10:53:53 · 8 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

For example, Aunt's and Uncle's who I haven't spoken to in as many years as I can remember. It's not that I have anything against them, just that I don't know them.

2006-12-01 10:53:24 · 22 answers · asked by smolocco 1 in Weddings

When she gets me alone she says hurtful things to me mainly about my children. I married her only child. I had two sons from a previous marriage and she feels we have kept him from having a real marriage and children of his own. She says my children aren't real grandchildren because they're not blood. She also told me she used to tell her son to send the kids to their real fathers house to mooch off of him instead her son. Am I being too sensitive?

2006-12-01 10:53:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why and why not?

2006-12-01 10:52:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

working for the company almost a year and was told to shave his George Michael look, gotee......... He actually was threatened a little saying if he did not, there is a chance he can loose his job. Am I correct, this is not legal and we can sue if necessary? Hoping this does not come to it....... Any ideas? Thank you

2006-12-01 10:52:44 · 12 answers · asked by bonbon 5 in Marriage & Divorce

wanted true to themselves girls?

2006-12-01 10:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by sss_underrehabilitation 1 in Singles & Dating

Because my BF is GETTING ON MY NERVES!!!!!! but i think if we were just friends it would be okay so please help me out

2006-12-01 10:51:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i was in middle school i was very depressed and was slightly suicidle beacuse i was in E.L.D and my family didnt like me so much.they called me "stupid" "ugly" "pimple face" "fat" and others. so i was low in self esteem.at school in e.l.d. there were mostly mexicans they made fun of me.They make me say stuff in mexican and i dont know what it means,usally they make me say"suck my dick" and stuff.They would be mean to be bully me and when i cry by myself the girls this time say" oh my god....stop cring...your being stupid and you have to listen to things that you dont want to hear" snice i was the only asian there i couldnt say anything back.This year in high school..everything is different im better now.i have many friends and they are all nice to me they understand me.But when an different nationality say somthing or do somthing i remember from the past i get mad and start hating them i am so messed up and im not sure what the hell i am doing,

2006-12-01 10:51:54 · 16 answers · asked by Grack 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for a long time know. He is 9 years older than me but kind of a family friend. My parents have always been concerned with him being too old for me. I came to study at the US this year and he came to work as a doctor in a hospital. Of course, the theme of marriage seems to worry everyone in the family. Yesterday I was talking to my boyfriend when my mother called. She stated telling me how she thought I sould break up, how I was goign to ruin my life if I stayed with him... he heard all this talk and later obviously felt bad. he didnt expect this to come form my mom. Today I told my mother that he was listening at the conversation and that only made things worse. Know she thinks he is even worse cause he should have not done that... I really don't like to have disagreements between my boyfriend and family? What should I do? How can I make things come back to the way they were?

2006-12-01 10:51:11 · 10 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok there is this guy at school and he is like my best friend...he calls me at night after school and we talk 4 like 5 to 6 hours. Everybody says we are a perfect couple, and asks if were going out. The other night i asked him what he wanted for christmas and he said colonge..he asked me and i said a hug and he goes you get that every day... he goes what elese i said have noee clue and he goes what about a kiss? I said yes ..he goes you get those everday what eles and i told him i would tell him today. But i want to say a relationship but im scared he wont want one...but i dont know what to do..please leave some advise! Thankx

2006-12-01 10:51:09 · 6 answers · asked by he is all i want...♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have found my dream guy...perfect in every way possible. I can't even believe someone like him exists. The only problem is that before I met him I was planning on going away to grad school to persue my career goals. He is older and already has a career and owns a home. All of his family is here as well. By the time I graduate undergrad we will have dated for two years. We always tell each other that we are the one we want in each othere;s future, but never had said "i want to marry you one day." I think he wants to since all of his friends are and he knows my strong desire to have children and admires it. I need to decide what I am going to do. I want to ask him if he plans on marrying me right after I graduate. I don't know how to say it, or if that is weird, or if he will feel like im forcing him into it. Any advice?

2006-12-01 10:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by mjqueen2585 1 in Marriage & Divorce

IT'S A FAKING JOKE GUYS IM SURE OF IT-- I LIKE MAKING FRIENDS- AND HE/ SHE MIGHT B A RLY HYPE GUY/GURL --- I AINT RLY GETTING MARRIED! NOT YET AT LEAST IM JUSS A BABY- WITH ALOT TO SAY!

2006-12-01 10:50:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't care if I lose points, I'm just so happy he wrote, I took the first step though, I asked a friend for his email, I can't believe he actually wrote. I've loved him since I first saw him, How do I tell him that I love him, I know I cannot just say"I love you" I want something else. Help me, He's been my friend forever but I've always loved him.

2006-12-01 10:50:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever done this before? I think this is gross. I know someone who told me he used to do it all the time.

2006-12-01 10:50:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating