did you and your husband or wife or fiancee discuss marriage before you got engaged? or was it just a big suprise?
2006-12-01 11:00:40 · 23 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we dated on and off got EIGHT years. I would say the subject came up a few times....
2006-12-01 11:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discussed it, right away. It's good to know you are not wanting marriage when the other person is just looking for a casual relationship. You would waste each others time.
2006-12-01 19:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The discussions ranged from: KIDS? Do we want any?
How much MONEY will we REALLY need?
WHERE will we LIVE?
Will we continue with our current JOBS?
What RELIGION will we remain involved with?
How can we be ready for EmERGENCIES?
Unexpected ILLNESSES?
What if one of us should DIE unexpectedly?
What about health insurance/Life Insurance?
Dental and Eye doctor appts?
YES. It was all discussed ahead of time.
WHen he proposed, I was still surprised. But I knew who I was marrying after 1.5 years of dating.
2006-12-01 19:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we discussed it. He was for, I was against. We finally agreed, agreed on important aspects of a marraige, and then he proposed. It is somewhat presumptious to buy a ring and propose without discussing it to some extent.
2006-12-01 20:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by WifeandMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We discussed it many times before hand but it was a surprise when he proposed.
2006-12-01 19:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we discussed marriage but the engagement it was kinda a "sprung" things he actually told me at first meeting that he was going to be my man!
2006-12-01 19:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we discussed it on our first date...I told him where I was at with my life and what I wanted for the future. My husband says that he felt like I was interviewing him for that future husband...he was right, he felt the same way.
2006-12-01 19:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We talked about it in general terms - what kind of life we saw ahead of us. After over two years dating, it just seemed the natural thing to do.
2006-12-02 08:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We discussed.
2006-12-01 19:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was discussed! But i was kinda surprised when he proposed
2006-12-01 19:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Shem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋