Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

we are in love, and planning to get married.. hes the type of guy that has ALWAYS gotten the attention he wants-never been rejected, always been wanted by every girl, etc, bu hes not a SNOB at all.. hes very well centered and modest ... he still gets that attention and DAILY recieving comments on his gorgeous looks and how he looks like a celebrity (its kind of pathetic sometimes), and i try not to tell him that much because he KNOWS hes hot and another person telling him is like whatever... but how will these positive comments affect his ego? will he wake up one day and want to take advantage of those comments? or will he be very secure- maybe overly? how do i react against all these flattering comments he recieves.. protective, happy, what?

2006-11-29 02:02:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 02:02:33 · 24 answers · asked by scarletornot 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I adjust my attitude with a woman like this? OK so I have been married for 13 years now. 2 kids. It was not so good, I am a sexual person and she is or was too. Sex occurred about once a month and we were drifting apart until this summer and for 2 months it was great. We held hands, slept in the same bed, sex at least 3 times a week it was just great, the way I always wanted it to be. Well that is over now. We still hold hands and stuff like that which is still a big improvement over the way it was but the sex is gone back to the way it was. When I bring up the subject she gets defensive or mad at me like it’s my fault sometimes. At night I get the “I am so tired” and in the morning it’s “oh I have to get up soon”. So in return I get grumpy and feel like there is something wrong with me. I don’t think she is cheating due to her schedule, just no time unless there are a bunch of quickies, but I get an attitude and then she gets one and even though I try to tell her what my problem is, it seems she doesn’t listen or believe me. She doesn’t even take hints. Is there anyone out here that has gone thru the same thing woman or man that could help me out with this? I am not looking to cheat on her but the fact is I need sex at least 3 or 4 times a week weather or not she is involved, if you know what I mean. I would much rather have her involved believe me

2006-11-29 02:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by Andy S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The last two men I have dated, started out really good (don't they all) , seemed sweet & sincere etc. Then about 2 months into it decided for whatever reason they didnt want to be with me anymore, instead of being decent and just telling me that it wasnt working, just decided to not call me anymore, or return my phone calls.They just dropped off the face of the earth & acted like I never existed!Why do guys do this?At the very least would a phone call really be that hard?

2006-11-29 02:02:09 · 7 answers · asked by nyc88m 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i asked a guy out and he said he had a gf. what do i do? do i act like its no prob or do i ask him 2 break up w/ his gf?

2006-11-29 02:01:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in high school

2006-11-29 02:01:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how can you tell if your ex still cares for you,

2006-11-29 02:01:06 · 8 answers · asked by jlw78418 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is really confusing me he says were just friends but he kisses me and holds my hand and rubs my neck and acts like my boyfriend

2006-11-29 02:00:52 · 2 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing somebody now for 11 days, every night. I really like him. I have been terribly betrayed in a previous relationship where i endured years of near every type of abuse. Because of this I retreated and avoided men even though I know they are not all the same. I had to restrospect on it all. Going to my current situation this morning I am feeling as though I feel a bit down and have a knot in my stomach, I have no appetite, I made him breakfast but as on others day could not face it myself. I long to see him again which I will later but I also long to tell him how I feel apart from he told me only Saturday he will never fall in love again as he couldnt be hurt again. He is so warm and when he holds me it is as though he wont let me go. I cried a few tears because I never thought that would come again. As for him, he is getting warmer towards me every day, he also was quieter this morning than normal but he may have been sensing my confusion.Any similar experiences

2006-11-29 02:00:44 · 7 answers · asked by Christine C 1 in Singles & Dating

either a room filled with super sexy babes willing to do ANYTHING for you or a room with 5 briefscaes of money that you can keep?

2006-11-29 02:00:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my partner have been together for nearly 2 years we are always together and hardley ever apart and when we are apart i wana be wit him and he wants to be wit me. Lately he's been p***ing me off jus by doing silly things like not cleaning up afta himself or coming home a little lata then he said. I'm not really talking to him at the moment but he called yesterday and said he loves me but I feel as if he don't show it enough though. How can i make him know how i feel ithout him goin in a strop or havin an argument.

2006-11-29 01:59:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you make me believe that it's possible to meet my soulmate abroad?

2006-11-29 01:59:13 · 7 answers · asked by mam'zelle Gilardino 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have sincere feelings for my best friend. i think he sensed that and told me yesterday that he just sees me as a really good friend and nothing else. he loves someone else who he is currently having problems with and he looks to me for solace.
i am heartbroken but i think i will get over it. how to lessen the pain? should i continue to be supportive for that is what i am doing now... despite the hurt i feel.. or just cool off?
i have exams coming up, i cant study... i am too depressed

he told me, he would always be there as a friend and i should go study now... i appreciate his honesty

2006-11-29 01:59:08 · 14 answers · asked by L W 1 in Friends

i was said because my brothers step son called me ugly and stupid and i told my friend brian and he said we all know that isnt true

2006-11-29 01:58:59 · 3 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a happily married woman with a not so clean past. Thought I have always been faithful to my husband I did some stuff before we got to together that i'm not really proud of. Well to make a long story short..... My past is comming back to bite me in the ***. I bumped into an ex while Christams Shopping last weekend, Now he won't go away. He is stuck on revenge. He wants to ruin my marriage just like I ruined his. He has showed up at my job twice this week. He has contacted my sister about where my husband works. How can I get rid of him without letting my husband know all the details. HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-29 01:58:48 · 18 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am extremely self concious about my breasts. I'm a 34B About 6 years ago, my now ex boyfriend and I were laying in bed and he yelled to me, "you have no chest!" My self esteem was ripped to shreds, I felt like dying. Since then, I thought about implants but I never went through with it. Is it worth it for your self esteem? What do you think?

2006-11-29 01:58:14 · 15 answers · asked by godiva 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 01:57:00 · 10 answers · asked by kiss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I am highly emotional and it seems to be ruining my love life, my boyfriend thinks that when I burst into tears during or after sex that I don't like the way he makes love to me and that is so not true, he is a wonderful considerate lover. How can I stop this?

2006-11-29 01:56:58 · 35 answers · asked by Lucy P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

plz give ans it is related to me

2006-11-29 01:56:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My soon to be ex husband was telling people that he moved out because I was a bad mother. When I told him, "OK, fine, you can have the kids and I will see them on every other weekend" he says that he didn't mean that. He is now angry with me because I have told the same people that the real reason that he moved was to be with another woman, who he invited to his birthday party (of course I didn't attend and neither did the kids). He is now angry because I exposed his deeds and he has lostythe respect of some of his friends. I say, can't pay, don't play. He apparently had no respect for me when he invited his "woman" to party that included mutual friends. He says that no one would have known that she was other than a friend if I hadn't said something. Am I missing something here?

2006-11-29 01:56:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you think it was a man or a woman?
would we have been better off if that concept did not exist?

2006-11-29 01:56:41 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My son was raised by his father from 14 on.He has been living out of the county with a girlfriend & her parents for the last six months.They have kicked him out.He has stayed with one friend & then another. His father will not let him combe back home(he lives in a camper in his parents driveway, anyway)His grandparents will not let him live with them either.My son has anger issues and does not get along with my boyfriend. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we own our own home together.He says, that he would have married me a long time ago, if he wasn't afraid of what I was going to do with my children. I still have one daughter living with me, she is 18.She is a senior in high school. He doesn't approve that my daughter doesn't have a job yet.My son doesn't have a driver's license, a car, a job or a place to sleep at night. I am torn between my son and my boyfriend.He is upset with me right now, because I have let my son put his clothing in our garage. I am sick over this.

2006-11-29 01:56:18 · 22 answers · asked by nancy_of_rose 1 in Family

my boyfriend is 19 and i am 17 and we want to be together during the pregnancy and when i have the baby. who do we need to call and get in touch with in order to get married?

2006-11-29 01:56:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 01:55:49 · 27 answers · asked by dodie j 1 in Singles & Dating

And then take the people that truly love and care about them for granted?

2006-11-29 01:54:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-29 01:53:49 · 7 answers · asked by Taiwo A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 01:53:01 · 6 answers · asked by matthew c 1 in Friends

Guys...we do we get turned on by hearing a woman's ticklish laughter?

ladies...what goes through your mind when you are tickled?...anger, happiness, its annoying....?

2006-11-29 01:52:50 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been to police, welfare but have got NO help. Any ideas?

2006-11-29 01:52:44 · 18 answers · asked by kellz_car 3 in Family

I send testimonial to someone i like.

He's my elementary's friend. We met again after 6 years. I found myself fell in love with him without knowing the reason. Then now, cause we entered different univ in different city, we haven't met fo 6 month. But then i realize that i trully love him. So i encourage myself sending him a testimonial and testified my feeling for him.

2006-11-29 01:52:40 · 6 answers · asked by pelagiasong 2 in Singles & Dating